Children and nephews show wealth, nephews are barbecued to death, representing bankruptcy, symbolizing loan bankruptcy, corpse, family, marriage and key figures. In this case, there is justice in the heart and children in the red chamber. Ji means that you have experienced failure, and your friend has come up with the only good way that suits you. You have no choice but to choose another road of your own, and you may succeed, and you can't turn back, or you will make the same mistake again.