I have heard of the so-called "gangs" in society before, but now they have also appeared in schools. After a survey of students in a school, it is found that every class has a so-called "boss". In class, he can do whatever he wants, bullying the small with the big and bullying the weak with the strong, and all students must obey his command. Even the "thorny" problems that teachers can't handle will be solved immediately when he comes forward.
In this small circle, if something goes wrong, everyone will all go out and take it out on their classmates or "settle things" so that their classmates don't "suffer".
Both boys and girls will have a "leader" who is called "big brother" or "big sister". And arrange the order among the students according to what the students call "energy". The existence of this phenomenon is constantly eroding the beautiful hearts of students.
Their purpose is not to learn, but to show their "style" or "strength". Although it is not an anti-party and anti-social organization, it will plant an "empty" and "blind" seed for students' young and beautiful hearts. In the long run, it will be difficult to extricate yourself. If you are found to have words and deeds that violate the interests of the so-called "small circle", the "boss" will clean up the "door" for "education", which is the biggest problem in the field of school education.
Second, appalling theft and extortion.
With the deepening of the economic field, many people may not believe that this problem will happen to children, and even teachers may not admit it, but the fact exists and is very serious.
Stealing is very hidden among students. Some students feel stingy when they say something when they lose it, so they just swallow it and don't want outsiders to know. When someone asks about their lost things, they will prevaricate for various reasons, which will form students' habit of lying and have very bad consequences, and will also encourage students' theft to some extent. When dealing with students' problems, I found a student stealing school supplies in the classroom, and the "delicious" things that my classmates brought from home were found, and even said, "Don't you just look?" "I just ate a little!" Dealing with teachers
If theft can be found, then blackmail is much more hidden, and most of the students who are blackmailed feel unlucky because of the blackmailer's "power", and the problem is much more serious. There have been hundreds of thousands of students who have been blackmailed. Finally, parents found the school before they knew that there was such a problem among the students. Blackmail started with asking students to buy something to eat, and gradually developed to 35 yuan and hundreds.
In a school survey, the author found that some students stole from their classmates in the dormitory and made ropes from the second floor, which also had great security problems. Fortunately, there is no danger.
Third, deformed curiosity and spiritual emptiness.
Middle school students in the hazy period have a vague understanding of sex and lack guidance on their hobbies, which often leads to many problems. All kinds of pornographic books, most of which are borrowed and passed on to each other privately, are various. Books such as How Bad Guys Are Made, Angels Kiss the Devil, and Dance Academy are widely circulated among students. Some students are keen on reading faces, reading divination and interpreting dreams. Many students watch it in the self-study class, or secretly read it under the textbook when the teacher is not paying attention, or at home, while their parents are away, or hiding under the bed when they sleep.
What's more, even if you save a few meals, you should buy some pornographic novels from that small bookstall and borrow them from each other. As a result, some students secretly love students of the opposite sex, and it is not uncommon to talk about love. Some students even touch the opposite sex, but often that student doesn't want to make a fool of himself. There is also a serious problem similar to "sex trade" in a vocational school.
With the increasing role of the Internet in people's lives, the negative impact on students is also increasing. Many students are addicted to online games, which will further add fuel to the fire. Looking for "excitement" in the online world will certainly have a worse effect. It is also found that among students, there is a saying that "friends have knives and beautiful women have knives", and the problems of students can be seen.
Fourth, the lack of morality and the crisis of faith.
Some students replied: "They are all idiots." "I have no money to eat, but what can I donate? Who will donate some Internet to me? " In addition, when learning from a certain hero, some students actually said, "At what age are you still learning this?" "Uncle Lei Feng has no hukou and will leave in March and April." It is also the mantra of the students.