After the founding of New China, grandma worked as a district head, participated in the leading group of land reform, and was elected as the county women's representative. Grandpa was also transferred from the then director of Wanxian Public Security Bureau to the director of Xining National Defense Pharmaceutical Factory in Qinghai. In order to support grandpa's work and take care of his young father, grandma sacrificed her career and resolutely gave up her bright future and went to Qinghai with her young father. It was not until my father got married and my grandfather retired that the burden on my grandmother's shoulders was lightened. But grandma's black hair has been boiled into white hair, and wrinkles have quietly climbed onto her forehead.
After our brothers were born one after another, grandma was even more restless: carrying my big brother, raising me, and then holding my little brother. Grandma placed higher and deeper expectations on our younger generation.
When I was a child, we all loved to play crazy. We were not interested in learning and often played truant. Grandma always explains the benefits of reading in simple terms and tells us tirelessly. From telling the story that I once met an illiterate woman who couldn't even find wc in the city to trying to get rid of the bitter days of rural life, the only way to jump out of the "farm gate" is to study. She said, "The book has its own Yan Ruyu, and the book has its own golden house". Tell us the story of "the wolf is coming"; Tell the story "Confucius doesn't drink water from stolen springs" to educate us to be sincere. Although I didn't understand these truths at that time, I never played truant after that. I'm afraid I didn't even graduate from primary school if it weren't for grandma's persuasion. What can I do today in the new century?
From my home to school, there are six or seven miles of mountain roads. In order that my brothers are not late for school, grandma always gets up before dawn to cook for us. After school in the afternoon, grandma pulled pig grass and cut cow grass at the intersection of going home, waiting for us to come back. After returning home, he brought us hot meals and hot dishes, stood by and watched us eat a bowl upside down. He also asked with concern whether we were full and delicious ... whether it was spring, summer, cold or hot; That care, that warmth is unforgettable so far!
Which child grew up without being scolded and slapped by his parents?
When I was a child, my brothers and sisters were always mischievous, while my father, who believed in "golden hoops make good people", always used "force to suppress". Kneeling and spanking, of course. At this time, grandma always came to "rescue" with trepidation, and grandma who paid attention to persuasion and education always enlightened her father to "insist on arguing with words and oppose the warfare". Under normal circumstances, it can also save us from the pain of a meal. If the "serious problem" dad doesn't buy it, the helpless grandmother can only secretly cry and tell dad not to hit his skull, but to spank him if he wants to, because there is much meat there and it doesn't hurt the bones. ...
1989 when our family had that 14 inch black and white TV, it was really a great event in our village. Every night, the neighbors gather in our house to watch TV. The hospitable grandmother always sets up stools for them early, makes tea, and serves home-made peanuts and pumpkin seeds to entertain guests. At that time, it was probably because the TV signal was not well received and the picture was blurred. Rippling snowflakes, but the villagers are not demanding, as long as there are voices and shadows. Later, the villagers' lives improved day by day, every household bought a TV set, and our home became cleaner day by day. Grandma doesn't have to bring tea and water to everyone anymore. But grandma always feels empty in her heart, as if something is missing. We also understand the loneliness and loneliness of the elderly. Because we have less time at home, it is good to have guests to talk and chat with her. Sometimes during the day, we also help her invite Mrs. Wang and Uncle Zhao to our house to play or watch TV and chat with grandma. When we are free, we will accompany her for a walk outside to distract her.
My grandma
Author: Liu Ying | 2004 1 October 20th 1015: 44 | Abstract1.
Grandma died at the age of 90. On/0/0 day before her death, grandma complained of pain and has been bedridden ever since. Dad and uncle took grandma to the hospital for a comprehensive physical examination. The doctor concluded that there was nothing wrong with the old lady. So, the whole family relaxed their vigilance, but a few days later, grandma went.
I remember that day, my mother sent me a short message: Your grandmother is in poor health, please come back early. I hurried home and received a short message from my mother on the way: grandma died. I suddenly burst into tears.
Later, my mother said that before her grandmother died, she had hundreds of dollars in her hand, all of which were left by her son and grandson. Grandma said, give the money to her granddaughter's wife. My brother is not married, which has always been grandma's heart disease. Then, grandma said, Xiao Jing, hasn't she come back yet? Grandma regretted not seeing me when she left.
On the day of grandma's death, the whole family remembered grandma's life together, and the sad atmosphere gradually faded away, and the whole family was shrouded in deep warmth. It should be a blessing for a person to live to 90 years old, have a full house of children and grandchildren and die.
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On second thought, I understand why grandma left so suddenly. During that time, grandma was always at odds with her father and often quarreled. The reason is that dad sold the house in his hometown. Dad said that no one lives there, and it is also a burden to raise it. Might as well sell it. But grandma can't bear it. That was the property that my grandparents earned money to buy before liberation.
Listen to grandma, grandma's family is very poor, and grandma's mother has to beg for food for half a year. When Grandma/Kloc-was 0/6 years old, a distant relative came to the family and told Grandma's mother that she would take Grandma away and get married. Grandma knew that the man was a personal trafficker and worked hard as a mother to avoid bad luck.
Grandma/kloc-married grandpa at the age of 0/8, and grandparents were in the same year. At that time, my grandfather's family was a big family, including my elder sister-in-law and my uncle's brother-in-law. My mother-in-law was blind at that time. In such a big family, grandma waited on her blind mother-in-law, and she was angry with her sister-in-law.
After grandma gave birth to her second child, my second aunt, life at home was really difficult, so grandma gave her away and went to a rich family to be a wet nurse. Grandpa went to a factory to make a bronze Buddha.
Later, I often heard my grandmother say that grandpa didn't live up to expectations at that time and went gambling and whoring when he made money. At grandma's urging, he only saved some money. Grandparents earned money in the city for several years, then returned to their hometown with a little ocean and bought a house and several acres of land.
At that time, the blind mother-in-law was dead and the eldest sister-in-law was married. Grandparents manage those acres of land at home, and then start the bean curd business from morning till night. Soon this family will be rich.
On the eve of liberation, the home was really pots and pans, with money under the bed and stuffed behind photo frames everywhere. Relatives and neighbors come to borrow money, and grandma is also generous, always giving whatever she wants. Soon after liberation, none of the borrowers paid back the money. My family is very lucky, because at that time, it was a sin to have money.
When dividing the composition, at least the rich peasants should be divided according to the situation at home at that time. However, a cadre at that time was very open-minded. He heard that his grandmother had been a wet nurse and thought it was a typical oppressed class, so he was classified as a poor farmer.
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Grandma is illiterate and superstitious. Grandma often says, why does it rain and thunder? There is God! People should do things according to their conscience, and God is fighting for their eyes.
But anyway, I always think grandma is a knowledgeable person. Grandma gave birth to six children altogether. My aunt and aunt have never been to school. After my father and uncle went to school, they studied very well, and grandma was often proud of it. Sister-in-law goes to school, and it is very difficult at home. Grandma just wants her sister-in-law to drop out of school and help with some housework. Later, grandma heard that her sister-in-law had won the second place in the class. She thought her daughter was very promising, so she said to her sister-in-law: You'd better go to school. Mom will feed you no matter how hard she is. Because of going to school, the fate of Xiaoguzi's life has been completely changed.
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I always lived with my grandmother when I was a child. Every night, grandma urges me to wash my face and put me to sleep. Wake me up early in the morning, make me breakfast and take me to school. When I was a child, I was timid and afraid of being late. Sometimes, grandma wants me to sleep a little longer, and school time is a little tight. I started crying and stayed away from school. Every time, my grandmother took my hand and sent me to school.
When I was in the fourth grade of primary school, my grandmother left me to take care of my uncle who was a soldier in Lanzhou. At that time, my grandmother, who was over 70 years old, took a small note with an address and went to a military camp in Lanzhou desert thousands of miles away. When her uncle saw her, grandma had already slept in her uncle's bed.
Later, my grandmother always told me: I didn't give you a penny or give you a good face when I ran away from home, so you shouldn't think about me.
But grandma doesn't know that I haven't stopped thinking about grandma for a minute. I am not used to living with my parents. I once secretly hated my parents.
After graduating from primary school, I went to a school 80 miles away from home. At that time, I lived on campus and went home only once a month. I don't miss my parents, but I miss my grandmother. I often dream that my grandmother died at night and then woke up crying.
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It rained again in Beijing today. Sitting in my office, I suddenly miss it. Grandma has been dead for two years. Every year in Tomb-Sweeping Day, I go to fill her grave. Grandma was buried in a mountain in her hometown, with grandpa. Grandpa died at the age of 65, and grandma lived 25 years longer than grandpa. Grandma always said, grandpa's retribution is not good, so I'm not good. Grandma is very satisfied with her life. She said that she had caught up with a good year, and all her children and grandchildren were promising.
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