Grandma died on the fifth day of the ninth lunar month on October 28th, 20 14, at the age of 78.
Grandma died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, and it took three days from onset to death. 10 year1when she got home on October 25th, she was paralyzed on her left side and could not open her eyes, but she was conscious. I called "grandma" several times, and my right leg moved, and big tears overflowed from my eyes. She must have heard it.
Grandma had two ominous dreams four or five days before her illness. First she dreamed that she had lost a tooth, and then she dreamed that she hesitated to say something when she came to her house. "Duke Zhou" said that "dreaming of losing teeth is a sign of the death of a loved one" and quickly called his mother to ask about the physical condition of his grandparents. It is gratifying to know that my parents are in good health and are harvesting the autumn harvest at home. Who knows that after four or five days, grandma will suddenly have a cerebral hemorrhage. Three days later, he passed away forever. Facts have proved that these two dreams are effective.
Grandpa said that grandma went to the cornfield to break corn that morning when she was sick, and went to the vegetable field to dig green onions in the afternoon. When she got home, she went out to visit, came home at night, and fell down while adding salt to the porridge. Grandma has been diligent and thrifty all her life. Usually I have a headache and a fever, so I have to get over it myself or drink some remedies myself. Basically, she has never seen a doctor. Honest Mu Na's grandfather didn't expect to see a doctor for the first time, and didn't bother the children. He just put grandma to bed and thought it would be all right to have a rest. Who knows that when I saw my grandmother still awake the next day, I stopped a passer-by on the road to send a message to my mother.
When I was transferred to the city hospital, the doctor said that I missed the best opportunity for the operation, and even after the operation, I couldn't last long, so I had to go back. Grandma has been in a coma since she came back. Sometimes she seems to be asleep, leaving people around her to talk in a low voice. She sometimes seems to know that relatives come to see her from all directions, smiling as if greeting everyone; Sometimes she seems to recognize whose voice it is, and her fingers shake and want to touch it; Sometimes she seems to have judged that her time is running out, and big tears are flowing.
The children took turns to look after them and then began to do things. According to the funeral custom in my hometown, some clothes should be put in the coffin. Mom and aunt tidy grandma's clothes. Several coats were bought a long time ago, and I couldn't find a decent pair of pants. Grandma's life is like this. She doesn't want to spend any money on her children. She always gives her grandchildren some Mao Mao (money) from picking up cigarette boxes and selling Toona sinensis (the fruit of Toona sinensis has medicinal value), or buys some candy and a bag of bread to make the children happy.
After grandma died, a pair of elegiac couplets with black characters on a white background was posted on the door. The first couplet is "Hard-working all my life", the second couplet is "Hard-working and thrifty all my life", and the second couplet is "Kind-hearted and loved by everyone", which is very simple and appropriate. The day before the funeral, the children will be baptized. There are joyful scenes of Chaoyanggou silver ring going up the mountain, and there are also sad scenes of mourning in December. I couldn't hear what music was, but I heard a scream and whine until midnight.
I was going to visit my grandmother during the National Day holiday, but my bicycles were released, but I didn't make it in the end. I am very sad to see my unconscious grandmother again. If I go, my grandmother will be very happy. I can also listen to my grandmother nagging my parents, or drink a bowl of soup cooked by my grandmother on a small coal stove, but everything is gone.
The last time I saw my grandmother was in mid-May, when the baby had just returned to her family for a short stay. My grandmother brought a piece of cloth to make children's clothes and gave the child a dollar. What she said that day has been forgotten. Generally speaking, children are healthy and beautiful, and their life will get better and better in the future. Grandma went to water the flowers in the yard, saying that the yard was beautifully tidied up. When she saw half a barn of corn in the grain circle, she said that life is really exciting now. Alas, grandma is so content.
When he was buried, grandpa was sent to the gate trembling. At that moment, my tears came to stay. Grandparents, the old partners of young couples, have supported each other for nearly 70 years, from youth to stumbling, from getting married and having children to having grandchildren. They have long been accustomed to the daily life of cooking, but one of them suddenly left and abruptly left the lonely other half. How can you not be sad?
Grandma's grave is not far away, just in the wheat field next to the village. The long wheat fields are lush and green in the soft autumn sunshine. Children wearing yellow headbands (white for grandchildren and yellow for great-grandchildren) are even more unconscious, chasing and playing in the wheat fields. Grandma died, but she gave birth to five children, brought up eight grandchildren, and hugged Doby's children with her great-grandson. It was a full house of children and grandchildren, and she died naturally.
I went back to Zheng's car before dawn the next day. Passing grandma's grave, I couldn't help crying again. Since then, there has been one less relative in this world; From then on, I will never meet my grandmother waiting in the wind on my way home; From now on, no one will "force" to eat jiaozi in the first month of the new year. ...