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Some people are not sensible because they are too young to be sensible; Some people are not sensible because they have never suffered losses, hardships and hardships.
Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, sometimes it can be said to be courage, and sometimes it can only be said that ignorant people are fearless. They have really tasted the lessons of blood and tears and had a long and unpleasant experience, which can basically make a person understand a lot.
The sooner a person is sensible, the sooner he will naturally benefit. Being sensible here is not the so-called law-abiding, but knowing right and wrong, knowing what to do and what not to do, which is the most basic consciousness that a person should have.
If a person reaches a great age and is still ignorant and ignorant of right and wrong, he will suffer a big loss sooner or later, and often there is no room for turning over because of age restrictions.
This is the case with her sister-in-law. Once her sister-in-law was too arrogant to take anyone seriously. As a result, it only took two years, and she was beaten back to her original shape. Let's see what happened.
Hello, Teacher Lin Dong: I met my sister-in-law yesterday, not my sister-in-law now, but my brother's ex-wife. For me, it's only been two years since their divorce, but for my sister-in-law, of course I don't know two years, because she and my brother didn't have a good life after their divorce, and it's inevitable that people will feel bad for a long time.
My sister-in-law's present state has made me deeply understand what "things are different." Only two years later, she lived like a ghost, which was really sad.
But who can blame this? It is unforgivable to commit iniquity in heaven, but she will not live if she commits iniquity. She clearly knows this truth, but she still knows her mistake. In the end, she got what she deserved and shot herself in the foot, which can only be said to be self-inflicted.
Speaking of which, I can't help thinking of what happened two years ago. I want to speak out for others to take a warning, and really don't learn from my sister-in-law's mistakes.
When my sister-in-law first married my brother, everything seemed to be in harmony. She and my brother are also handsome, and our two families are also suitable. If she can guard this marriage as firmly as my brother, they should be very happy now.
Sadly, she didn't manage herself well. It was really a success and a failure. Relying on her beauty, she became more and more impetuous after marriage. She felt that marriage bound her freedom and didn't want to spend her life with a fixed man, so she betrayed her marriage.
Her behavior is not allowed in both our families, because both our families are conservative, especially our parents.
My brother can't stand her betraying his marriage, and my parents hate her. They thought she was unruly and corrupt, so they decided to divorce and informed her parents of the news.
Her parents are also proud people, and they gnashed their teeth when they learned what their daughter had done. However, although I was despised by my daughter's behavior, I didn't want people to see jokes after all, so I began to work hard to save it.
The way her parents choose to atone is to make my sister-in-law atone. I was there at that time, only to hear her mother order her: "Daughter, kowtow to your mother-in-law and beg her not to let your husband divorce you!" "
From what I know about my parents, if my sister-in-law really kowtows and admits her mistake, they will definitely be soft-hearted. The problem is, my sister-in-law hasn't kowtowed to admit her mistake yet, and she still blurts out crazy words, "Dream! Why should I kowtow to her and apologize? Is it wrong for me to pursue my own love? "
She doesn't care about big things. She not only talks nonsense, but also makes a scene, as if others are making it difficult for her.
After her own divorce, she ran away with another man, but her parents were not so happy, because their daughter's betrayal made them a joke in others' eyes.
If my sister-in-law can make mistakes, go to the black, as much as possible. In fact, she didn't make the mistake as she hoped. Shortly after the divorce, she was set up by a man. She was instantly beaten back to her original shape and was seriously ill. In the end, everything was ruined, even the confident face was gone, and she became an older woman with personal aging.
Work is not smooth, feelings are not smooth, marriage is not smooth, everything is not smooth, she no longer has confidence, so she lives in the horrible state where I met her.
Men, it is better not to mess around, or not to know when they will be blessed, or they will screw up everything, and there is no turning back if they want to go back.
The emotional implication of Donglin xi Pavilion: Although it cannot be said that all people should blame themselves for the tragedy, the root of most people's tragedies lies in themselves.
A person's cognition, concept, mentality and other spiritual things are very important, which will directly determine your words and deeds and choices. You know, people will make choices and make decisions all their lives. Small choices and decisions, even if made wrong, may not have too serious consequences. But major choices and decisions, once made wrong, are doomed to tragedy.
The sister-in-law of the above readers has never understood these truths. She does have a beautiful face, but she has not carefully considered what kind of mentality she should choose to treat her face. Instead, it is natural to choose indulgence, make mistakes and betray marriage. She herself embarked on a wrong path, and it was inevitable that she would suffer in the end.
Although a person will realize his mistakes and turn over a new leaf after experiencing tragedies and hardships, it needs to involve a question of "timing". If you suddenly wake up, there is still room to turn over, and time will make you make up for your mistakes. But if the timing is wrong, there is no room for turning over when you wake up, and you may spend the rest of your life in tragedy.
I'm from the xi Pavilion in Donglin. If you have a story, come to me.
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