Maybe you think that whether he really cries or pretends to cry, as long as he should stop crying at once, crying is not good. In fact, it is not a bad thing for children to fake crying. Children who pretend to cry have higher emotional intelligence.
1, the child's language skills are good.
Because the child's fake crying shows that he has self-awareness! For treasures, this is an important symbol of their growth. The results show that fake crying helps children express their feelings and strengthen their communicative competence.
2, fake crying will also evolve.
As long as you are careful, you will find that children are skillful in faking tears. They usually stop crying, stop for a while, see how the ghost reacts, and then decide whether to continue to fake cry. This shows that babies will not only express themselves through "fake crying", but also gradually learn to distinguish which expressions are effective.
3. This kind of child has better communication skills.
Baby's "fake crying" can promote the improvement of children's expressive force, attract the attention of mothers, deepen the parent-child relationship, and help to communicate better with others in future study and work.
What if the child likes to fake cry? Your first reaction is very important! Doing so is tantamount to hurting the child's fake cry after one year old. Parents should pay attention to guidance.
When children reach the age of 1, they will have self-awareness and often think "self-centered" everywhere. If they want to be loved by others, they will fake crying. This is a symbol of children's growth. Parents should not be bored with their children's fake crying, but should rationally understand their children's behavior, different fake crying and different treatment, and gradually dilute their behavior.
1, pretend not to hear.
Of course, children sometimes pretend to cry to meet their legitimate demands. Like feeding and hugging. For this kind of demand, mother can meet it in time.
But sometimes it's unreasonable for a child to cry fake. I want to get care of my parents or something. For example, if you want to eat candy, your mother can pretend not to hear the demand that is harmful to you. As long as the child cries, she will put down what she is doing and not go to see the child, making the child more and more "presumptuous". Whenever she is in a bad mood, she can get attention by pretending to cry.
By pretending not to hear it several times, children will find that fake crying has no effect and will naturally get rid of this bad habit. Therefore, on the issue of principle, parents can't give in. This requires parents and other adults to be ruthless from the beginning. Slowly, this "threat" of children no longer appears.
2. Give children more love and spend more time with them.
You can't simply say "no" to your child by refusing his unreasonable demands. "No" and so on. Let children understand why children can't do this and why children will make many mistakes on the road of growth. Parents must correct it in time from an early age and cannot tolerate children's mistakes. Sometimes children are sad when they cry. But don't be soft-hearted, and express your love for your children in other ways. Pretending to cry is a manifestation of separation anxiety, and mothers should give their children more love. Parents are busy with their own work and family affairs, spend a lot of time playing games with their children and enjoying parent-child time, so that children will not attract their mothers' attention in this way.
When the child was young, the mother left the child for a few minutes, she began to cry, began to lie to her mother, and soon returned to her side. Even the mother saw that the child was asleep, and it didn't take long to clean up the dirty clothes, but she heard the child crying, but the mother passed and the child didn't shed a tear.
Tip: Parents should pay special attention, give their children the opportunity to comfort and adjust themselves, and believe in the ability of self-adjustment. Parents should not do anything, but should give their children a chance to grow up and correct their mistakes. No matter what the reason, fake crying is a symbol of a child's growth. Parents should not blame him for being bored!