British Prime Minister Winston Churchill once said, "How many people a person can face represents how many achievements he has made in his life."
A just right word can change a person's fate; An inappropriate word can ruin a person's life!
In ancient times there was a king who had a dream one night and lost all his teeth. The next day, he found two dream interpreters.
When the two men came, the king said, "I dreamed last night that my mouth was full." What did you say? " "
The first person who interprets dreams said, "Emperor, you can't die until all your relatives are dead, and none remains." The emperor was very unhappy after hearing this.
The second dream interpreter said, "Supreme Emperor, you will be the oldest of all your relatives!" "
Let's see, the same content, the same thing, two people have two different versions. The first one said that the emperor was angry. The emperor was furious and hit him with a hundred sticks. Then, take out a hundred gold coins and give them to the second dream interpreter.
Same thing, same content. Why is one beaten and one rewarded? Isn't this because of eloquence?
This is an era of more and more emphasis on "talking": competition for positions, interviews, sales promotion, leading others, and even falling in love must be convincing.
Social success is often the product of eloquence. Eloquence is the art of language and a clever form of expressing thoughts and feelings in spoken language.
Everyone knows that Ji Xiaolan is eloquent. One day, Emperor Qianlong wanted to test his eloquence, so he called Ji Xiaolan into the palace.
Emperor Qianlong said, "Ji Xiaolan!" "I'm here!" "I ask you: What is loyalty and filial piety?
Ji Xiaolan said: "If you ask me to die, I will die, for loyalty; When a father tells his son to die, so does his son. This is filial piety. " Together, it is called loyalty and filial piety. "
As soon as Ji Xiaolan finished answering, Emperor Qianlong said, "Good! I will give you death. "
Ji Xiaolan was stunned at that time: Where did this come from? Why did you suddenly give me death? But the emperor Jin Yuyan, say what is what, Ji Xiaolan had to thank the Lord Long En, three worship nine knock, and then left.
After Ji Xiaolan went out, Emperor Qianlong thought, "What can Ji Xiaolan do? Resurrection from the dead is a crime of deceiving the monarch; It's a pity to die, one of my pillars. " They say Ji Xiaolan is capable and eloquent. What should you do today? "
Half a wick sweet time, Ji Xiaolan panting ran into the room, plop 1 knelt in front of the emperor Qianlong. Gan Long: "Bold, Ji Xiaolan! Didn't I give you death? Why are you back again? "
Ji Xiaolan said, "Your Majesty, I am dead. I'm going to jump into the river and kill myself. I was about to jump into the river when Qu Yuan suddenly came out of the river. He said angrily, "aren't you an asshole?"
I think when I committed suicide with tears in my eyes, it was because Chu Huaiwang was fatuous. I think today's emperor is kind, wise and enlightened. How can you die! I came back as soon as I heard it. "
At this time, what did Emperor Qianlong say? Did he let him die? Well, he became the dragon emperor, stupid and ignorant; But did he let him live?
Without saying anything, the emperor gave him the death penalty and he came back. Later, Emperor Qianlong had to sarcastically say, "What a Ji Xiaolan! You are so eloquent! "
It was his eloquence that kept Ji Xiaolan alive and made his career smooth.
The times need talents, talents need eloquence, and talents may not necessarily have eloquence, but eloquence must be talents. Talents are expensive in eloquence, and eloquence will definitely become talents!
A person who knows the art of language and how to get along with others will not force others to have the same view as himself, but skillfully guide others to get closer to their own ideas.
People who are good at expressing their thoughts and feelings in accurate, appropriate and vivid language can often do things satisfactorily. On the contrary, those who don't know the art of language often get themselves into trouble.
In some industries and fields, some successful people may not all have good eloquence; However, a good mouth can help you succeed, accelerate your success, greatly improve your chances of success and bring you a bright future.
Sometimes, at a critical moment, good eloquence plays a decisive role, and it is unambiguous.
Eloquence is an important factor to measure a person's quality and establish an external image. Excellent eloquence will also make a thing go smoothly, even if there is a small situation in the middle, you can make your own circle.
A person's highest emotional intelligence is actually learning how to speak well.
Therefore, practicing eloquence can not only improve your status and image in everyone's mind, but also make yourself comfortable in complex interpersonal networks.
More importantly, it can help your work and life, let you get promotion opportunities while working, and let you step by step to the peak of your career. And make your life happier.
Therefore, cultivating and tempering eloquence is very important for children's present and future.