It's like leading a horse to the river, but it doesn't drink water. You are considerate of others, but others may not appreciate it. Sometimes what you think is good for each other may be just your own wishful thinking.
In order not to disappoint others with your kindness, you should ask others what they mean before you help them. Maybe it would be more appropriate to wait for them to come and beg passively these two days.
Duke Zhou, have a nice day!
If you are satisfied, please accept it.