According to Jung, in your dream, your colleagues are your sub-personality, your animistic personality (that is, male personality). This character has a strong possessiveness, even naked possessiveness. It wants to occupy the dominant personality-the position of female personality in your heart, and make a hug (a hug has a meaning, which is control). However, dreams have the function of balancing the internal development of self. In order to stop the wanton expansion of animus, a slap in the face is used to push back the excessive development of male personality. I hope my answer is helpful to you.