In ancient times, there was a king who had a dream one night that his mouth was full of teeth. So, he found two dream interpreters. The king asked them, "Why did I dream that all my teeth were gone?" The first person who interprets dreams said, "Your Majesty, dreams mean that you can't die until all your relatives are dead." The emperor was furious and his men beat him with a hundred sticks. The second dream interpreter said, "Supreme Emperor, this dream means that you will be the oldest of all your relatives!" " "The emperor was very happy, so he took out one hundred gold coins and gave them to the second dream interpreter. ?
The same thing, the same content, why is one beaten and the other rewarded? Because the person who is beaten can't talk, the person who is rewarded can talk.
? "One sentence makes people laugh, and one sentence makes people jump." The key is whether you can say it skillfully. The so-called cleverness here refers to being able to say the best or the most appropriate words. To achieve a clever state, we must be very sensitive to the people around us, master the skills of speaking, be able to state our views decisively at any time, and the key point is not to cause others' disgust. Using this technique to deal with difficult situations or interpersonal relationships, you will naturally make people feel "like sitting in the spring breeze" instead of "disgusting words"