What should I do when I think that my heart hurts when my loved one dies?

this is life and real life. Carefree, nothing outside the heart, peace of mind, enjoying yourself. For everyone, their own mentality is the most important. Believe in yourself is more important than anything else. Adjust your state of mind and realize life-as the saying goes, if you want to open your mind, you will be at ease; Can't take it easy, worry about the upper body. Money, power, emotion and material things are all things outside the body. You can think about it this way: there is no absolute in life, only relative; Let it be, not deliberately; Everything follows the fate, and it comes naturally; Refer to the constellation, don't be obsessed. There is a saying that "one life, two luck, three geomantic omen, four products, five studies", the change and development of life depends largely on one's own grasp. Remember, one's life is inviolable by nature, and one's life is adjusted by two, three, four, five; The second luck refers to following people and meeting noble people. Third, feng shui is the most important, and the yin house and the yang house need to be adjusted; The fourth is to accumulate yin and yang, and the Buddha, Taoist and immortal cross over; Fifth, reading is Confucianism, and the book has its own transshipment classics. You try to think about life in this way: remember that life is only "more" and not "most". If you reflect on life, you will know a lot-life is short, and there are many reasons for people's life. Family, classmates, colleagues, lovers, couples, comrades-in-arms, nobles, villains, enemies, benefactors ... first adjust your mentality; There are many important moments in a person's life, such as growing pains, confusion in entering a higher school, blurred emotions, difficulties in job hunting, joy of success, lessons of failure, first-time parenthood, growth of children, last wishes before bed, expectations after life ... So people should adjust their mentality. Think about what people live for. No matter why people live, they have their own reasons. Each has its own advantages and disadvantages, and each has its own needs. Over time, the demand is self-evident. Right or wrong, there is no absolute. At this time, right and wrong. Some right and wrong, later generations comment. Face life and be realistic. Let nature take its course and follow the trend. For example, love-there are three causes of love, one is the material basis; The second is the spiritual foundation; The third is sexual relations. If you have one of these three, you can have love. The role of material life makes you secure; The role of spiritual life gives you support; The function of sex life makes you happy. Similarly, when one of the three is seriously missing, then love will also be lost. The same is true for marriage and family. However, marriage and love are not exactly the same after all. When there is no money as the foundation, marriage will soon be in crisis or even die, while love may continue for a while, but there will be cracks and uniqueness. If it cannot be changed, it will eventually die. This can be found on the basis of philosophy and reality. People don't need to deceive themselves, they must be objective and face the reality. This is the helplessness of life. How many roads you have traveled in life, how many choices you have; How many things you experience in life, how many choices you have; This is life. Take advantage of the trend and be yourself; Regardless of the wind and rain, don't be others. I am myself. There is only "more" in life, not "the most". Try to be what you think is perfect. People should strive to fulfill all kinds of wishes in their life. Their own, parents', lovers', friends', bosses' and colleagues' … fulfilling their wishes and their own wishes constitute the road of life. Keep a state of mind and be indifferent to peace. Have no desire, no desire, and enjoy yourself. How to understand if you want nothing? Take advantage of the trend and be happy naturally. Go against the trend, and you will lose more. If you want to be smart, control your desires. Enough is enough, and you are superior. If you say something ugly, everyone has it. If success is said, it is rare. World competition, survival of the fittest. Things outside the body are short-lived. If you want to be long-term, cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's sexuality. Buddhism and Taoism are wise, warning all beings: the source of pain, the beginning of desire. It's really hard to have nothing to want. If it's easy, how can it be superior? A person's life, but a lot. Facing helplessness, believe or not? Believe in weakness, do not believe in self-deception. After a long drought, there is little dew, and there is no reason to know it in other places. On the moonlit night, the gold list is not named. Life is so helpless, I always feel unfulfilled, and I don't know where to go. Life has to go, how can we not be depressed? If you can enter an empty door, you may be depressed. A person's life is unpredictable; There is no fixed number of joys and sorrows; Juvenile abandonment, betrayal in middle age and loneliness in old age are three sorrows; If you are alive all your life, you will suffer from loss; Just fell into the world, crying and seeking; Childhood joy, compared to worry; Teenagers try to be brave, and when they are frustrated, they will be folded; Young people are confused and emotionally confused; Even if you get married, you will have rice, oil and salt; Middle-aged career, tired and rushing around; For the care of the young and the old, condescending; Seeking wealth in the middle and late, watching flowers in the mirror; At the end of the family, children and grandchildren are unfilial; I am about to die, and my wishes are not fulfilled; After a lifetime, there is a lot of helplessness; If you ask what you are afraid of, you have everything everywhere; If you ask what you are afraid of, you will always encounter fear; In the world of mortals, there is no fear; If you want to get rid of dust, there is nothing in your heart. It is very important to keep a state of mind. Think of others and learn to be content. Let nature take its course, and everything goes with fate. People have worries and joys, and they are extremely happy. Choosing the pursuit is more important than the process. Peace of mind, sit tight. Don't ask for it, just ask for peace of mind. People are better than others, caring for themselves. Be kind to others, and the Buddha will repay the cause and effect. Face helplessness and cheer up. Step outside the circle and look at yourself. Control desire, the immortal is helpless. To do this, luck comes. If so, I feel good. Always, destiny knows it. Every key point in life, that is, everyone's charm, constitutes a fleeting time. At every critical moment, you must grasp your own advantages and charm, so that you are a smart person. -When parents are happy in the world, when children are happy at the beginning of their lives, when they report success in their studies, when they step into social employment, when they are infatuated with their lovers, when they gain the upper hand and honor, when they tie the knot, when they are in the arms of their children for the first time, when children grow up carefree, when they get married and start a family, when they are welcomed to their hometown, when their predecessors queue up in their sickbed, when their children continue to report good news, when they die, they have support, and when they write their wills in calligraphy. Try to grasp yourself. In fact, if you get over it, everything will be clear. If people want to know life, they should adjust their mentality first. First, adjust your mind, then reflect, then be wise, then have no desire, and finally know God's will, reason, humanity and destiny. Does my answer help you?