2. Respect the old and love the young in the last life. Use gratitude to perfect everything and make the family harmonious.
3. Publicize the merits and demerits of the elderly and their ancestors to their children, show them the filial piety model of respecting the elderly, and enlighten future generations with gratitude for the kindness of their ancestors.
4. Don't arrange for the elderly to do things. They can do whatever they like, but pay more attention to the elderly and often advise them to have more rest.
5, parents are the beginning of human relations, the way of Yin and Yang, Yin as the mother, Yang as the father. Yin and Yang Can make everything grow, and the incompatibility of Yin and Yang leads to mental pain and disagreement, that is to say, the children born must be bad-natured or lack of children.
6. Parents are children's first teachers and families are children's first schools.
7. Whether a child is healthy or not has a lot to do with his mother, and whether he is smart or not has a lot to do with his father. Whether he is solemn or not depends on whether his parents often do things with happy love.
8. If your children are disobedient and unfilial, first ask yourself whether you are unfilial to the elderly and whether you have done something wrong. I don't recognize the advantages of my parents, and I don't know how to educate them.
9. Children's irrationality equals fruit acid. If the fruit is sour, you should work hard at the roots.
10, don't resent your children, let alone beat and scold them, because their success or failure is also related to their parents' own moral character. Second, we should consider whether our education methods are improper.
1 1, the five steps of educating children: raising, educating, teaching, leading and guiding, but not managing. The key is to cultivate morality and educate morality.
12, "management" means that parents let their temper go, find fault with their children and refuse to accept his temper, so the more they manage, the worse it is. Because using temper to control children is not only bad, but also arouses children's temper, contact, and even enmity between father and son, all because of parents' incomprehension.
13, children don't have to worry, they are all influenced by virtue. Understand his character, help him cut small branches and leave big branches. Not charming, not drowning, not hitting people, not swearing. Encourage more, affirm more, criticize less, and don't use material temptation.
14. Correct yourself first, and parents will first turn it into temperament and cultivate nature. Self-denial is the only way to educate children. Whether children are filial, ask yourself whether they are kind.
15. Children belong to themselves, to society and to heaven and earth. If a child can't teach well, it will affect his family, society and the world. Educating children well is a great responsibility.
16, don't interfere in children's affairs, let go and give way to the younger generation as the master, don't talk about seniority.
17, there are problems at home, first of all, there are loopholes in the behavior of the elderly. First, we didn't do our duty. Second, we went too far.
18, if there are problems at home, the old people should be ashamed: it is my old people who have not done well, are wicked and have not educated their families well.
19, no matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and right and wrong happen, the family's dirty laundry will not be exposed.
20, do not create right and wrong, do not say right and wrong, do not preach right and wrong, do not listen to right and wrong, to bear right and wrong, not afraid of right and wrong. It is immoral to reconcile a family and not let the elderly.
2 1, whether a family is developed or not, whether the children are prosperous or not, is directly related to whether the old people in the class have good roots. The elderly are virtuous, and their children and grandchildren are prosperous; The old man is wicked, his family fortune is declining, his family wealth is not prosperous, and his fragrance is dead.
22. How can the elderly make a family prosperous? Is to do more good deeds and accumulate more virtues. On the one hand, Xiu De can be exonerated; On the other hand, he can cultivate morality for children and protect them.
23. The old man holds a family's blessing and creates a family's blessing. Fude is stronger from generation to generation, and Fuyao is more prosperous from generation to generation; Children and grandchildren are stronger than you, which means you have virtue, otherwise you have no virtue.
24. The old man, like the earth, silently carries everything, embraces everything and nurtures everything. Old people are generous, and the family will be blessed.
25. Old people love things and their families are prosperous. If the old man is insatiable, he will eat up all the blessings of his family.
26. The virtue of the elderly is the best feng shui and the highest feng shui.
27, the old man is like ash, gentle but not angry, talk less, don't talk, don't talk about parents, take the lead in seeing each other's benefits, and have to take care of their families.
28. Ford is full, gentle and heavy, and his sex is like ash.
29, contentment is always happy, living at home. Carry forward the family style, praise Zude, and educate future generations to know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful.
30. Don't mind your own business and worry too much about your children and grandchildren. "Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren."