See for yourself.
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The trick of 1 is to observe ... pay attention to girls ... such as looking around or often looking at watches and mobile phones ... Usually, most girls waiting for friends don't strike up a conversation ... so go out. ..
The second skill is analysis ... after observation ... this is to analyze ... if possible ... it's best to stop first ... and analyze the situation at the same time before attacking. ..
Travel precautions:
-... don't talk to strange women from behind. ..
□ .. smile naturally when eyes meet. ..
□ .. Don't look at each other from top to bottom. ..
□ .. Be natural .. Don't let the other person think that you are hitting on her on purpose. ..
-... don't rush to touch each other anywhere. ..
□ ... Don't give up when the other party refuses ... Make persistent efforts ... Invite at least 5 times. ..
□ ... Don't pester each other ... Don't stand in each other's way ... Follow closely ... Even if you fail, there's nothing wrong with it. ..
-... as long as you can enjoy your short time with her ... if you can arrange the next meeting with her. ..
.. is a complete success .. Know how to end this first contact at the right time. ..
-... if the woman responds enthusiastically ... you don't have to stick to the above practice ... but you should "pursue victory" ..
Case study:
1, unexpected method ... applicable type: suitable for both men and women.
One afternoon in the pedestrian street .. Miss Kobayashi wandered alone .. Suddenly a person came up .. Asked politely:
"Miss, what time is it?" Kobayashi said apologetically, "Sorry, I don't have my watch and mobile phone, and I don't know the time."
At this moment, the man held out his hand, pointed to his watch and said, "I know it's 3: 50 p.m. Beijing time, and there's a movie on at the cinema over there at 4: 00." May I invite you to see it? "
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Success probability: ★★★★
Friendly reminder: this law is not generous to men and women ... it only applies to objects with a sense of humor. ..
2, direct attack method ... applicable type: suitable for both men and women.
Zhaozhao and some friends came out of the cafe ... The man who had been paying attention to her in the cafe just now followed ... Zhao Zhao did Sarah laugh ... I don't know what's the point of such childish tracking. ..
Men speed up to keep up with .. A few steps to the front of her .. Spread out his hands and stop .. Zhao's eyes look straight at Zhao .. Very seriously:
"hello! My name is * *, and I'm a junior majoring in * * at C University. I really want to know you and make friends with you. "
Friends laughed heartily .. Zhao Zhao replied with a smile .. and said to him, "Just be an ordinary friend. Hello, my name is Zhao Zhao. "
Success probability: ★★★★★
Friendly reminder: Sincerity is the greatest secret of success in chatting up people ... In front of people who are at a loss ... first introduce yourself frankly ... in order to gain trust. ..
3. Leisure time utilization method ... Application type: suitable for both men and women.
Xiao Wang went to Beijing on business ... because the plane was delayed and stayed at the airport ... when he was bored ... he was suddenly slapped on the shoulder ... He turned around and saw that the person who patted him was actually a beautiful woman. ..
She asked, "Do you also take the * * flight? Is it really late? " It turns out that the beauty is traveling alone .. Xiao Wang suggested going to the airport cafe for a drink .. The beauty readily agreed. ..
Success probability: ★★★★★
Friendly reminder: use your spare time waiting for the plane to date ... the environment ... is in a good mood ... There is a little loneliness in Our Meeting. We understand. What is the relationship between acquaintances? . ..
........... has a higher chance of hitting on people ... Similarly, this method can also be applied to trains and ships. ..
4. Ask for advice modestly. Applicable type: suitable for both men and women.
He Da has a crush on the girl who wears a red bathing suit and swims breaststroke well in the swimming pool. ..
He swam to the girl and asked, "Hello, you are a good breaststroke swimmer. Can you give me some advice? " The girl looked at him suspiciously. ..
He immediately said, "I know the butterfly stroke. Why don't we exchange experiences and lessons? " The girl smiled. ..
Success probability: ★★★★★
Friendly reminder: be modest, really modest ... hide the meaning of drunkards ... the possibility of rejection is not without ... but at least it won't embarrass you. ..
5, inverted praise method ... application type: suitable for both men and women, especially for women.
Su Dong caught up with the girl coming out of the shopping mall: "How to get to Renmin South Road?" He took a deep breath after the girl led the way. ..
Say, "God, can you tell me what perfume you are wearing?" She immediately looked at him warily. ..
He explained, "I've been looking for this perfume for a long time." Did you buy it in this shopping center? What brand is conger? Jun?
A series of questions about perfume let the girl off her guard. She kindly told him the answer and took him to the counter. Of course I bought the perfume, but he gave it to her.
Success probability: ★★★★
Friendly reminder: be careful to ask only what you want to ask ... and don't let the other person think that you are trying to make other plans ... wear everything ... don't flatter ... everyone likes their taste to be recognized. ..
.......... also has a kind heart. When he (she) tells you the answer, he (she) has time to see you clearly. Is it worth leaving a phone number? ..
Practical exercise 2 is triumphant (skill characteristics: all ages).
Does anyone know if the peacock that can open the screen is a male or a female? The answer is the male peacock. ..
Among peacocks, males are more beautiful, while females are unattractive ... The gonads of male peacocks secrete sex hormones ... which stimulate the brain and open the tail screen. ..
Spring is the season for peacocks to lay eggs and reproduce ... so ... the male peacocks spread out their colorful ... colorful tail screens ... and kept making all kinds of beautiful dance steps. ..
Show your beauty to the female peacock .. to attract the female peacock. ...
Therefore, in order to attract females, it is necessary to learn smug stunts. ..
Look for opportunities for self-expression ... let others see ... let the other person think that he is a very special person ... a person with great personality ... and good taste ... and attract the other person's attention. ..
But before attracting the attention of the other party, remember to analyze and understand the other party's living environment, family environment, world outlook, social status, education level, personal preferences and so on.
According to the various characteristics of the enemy, formulate the tactics of picking up girls. ..
Keywords: self-expression \ personality and taste
Look for opportunities for self-expression
People who are sociable always try to show their strengths to their friends. ..
Such as clever eloquence, profound knowledge, gentle manners, clever makeup and elegant clothes, all give people a good impression. ..
... some people lack self-confidence and good face ... because they are afraid of attracting others' attention ... some people are afraid of getting close to others, because they are afraid of being rejected ... so they can only be unknown ... making social interaction meaningless. ..
... some conceited people refuse to be inferior ... and can only be left out in the cold ... cautious and restrained ... self-esteem and conceit ... modesty and shrinking ... and their performance is often one step away. ..
The key is to grasp an appropriate proper limit, a person's identity, a person's mastery of a certain skill and whether it is in harmony with the atmosphere at that time, all of which should be considered comprehensively. ..
.. on this basis, give full play to your advantages, and you may get more favorable feelings. ..
A braggart likes to express himself with loud jokes, pretentious expressions and exaggerated actions, which are often counterproductive ... Some people try to please the opposite sex. ..
... winking at others ... belittling the same sex ... This is not only morally corrupt ... but also obscene ... Whenever men are cunning ... women's frivolity is disgusting. ..
Analyze and understand your personality and taste and your goals.
The word personality comes from Latin persona .. in the west .. it has two meanings:
On the one hand, it initially refers to the mask that actors wear on the stage, and later it is extended to the role that a person plays on the stage of life. ..
On the other hand, it refers to people who can think independently and have unique behavioral characteristics. ..
Personality, also called personality in the west, is complex, so many psychologists put forward the definition of personality from their own research perspective. ..
Modern psychology generally defines personality as a person's whole mental outlook. ..
That is, the sum of a person's relatively stable psychological characteristics with a certain tendency formed under certain social conditions. ..
Personality runs through a person's life ... and affects a person's life. ..
It is the needs, motives, ideals, beliefs and world outlook contained in people's personality tendency that guide the direction, goal and path of life. ..
It is the temperament, personality, interest and ability contained in people's personality characteristics that affect and determine the style, career and destiny of life. ..
In daily interpersonal communication, we will find that some people's behaviors, voices and smiles are unforgettable. ..
On the other hand, some people find it difficult to leave any impression on others ... Some people have only seen it once, but they have left a long memory on others. ..
And some people, although they have been with others for a long time, have never caused waves in people's hearts. ..
The reason for this phenomenon is that personality is at work. ..
The connotation and extension of personality are very rich ... We call it ... being strong ... being opinionated ... being honest ... being gentle ... being soft ... are just some concrete manifestations of personality. ..
The purpose of discussing personality structure is not the whole content of personality, but to find out various characteristics and manifestations of personality and reveal the essential characteristics of personality. ..
Generally speaking, distinctive and unique personality is easy to leave a deep impression on people, while plain personality is difficult to leave a deep impression on people. ..
What's that smell? Taste is a symbol of status. Taste is the display of image. Taste is the return of inner temperament. Taste is the experience of life value. ..
Taste is the connotation of moral cultivation. Taste is the synthesis of all kinds of knowledge. Taste is the classic of life experience. ..
Taste is elegant and noble ... it shines like gold ... it is flawless like white jade ... it is as deep as blue sky ... it is as wide as the sea. ..
Everyone is eager for taste ... everyone advocates taste ... this is the spiritual pursuit of people ... and the standard for testing the quality of life ... to live, we must live with taste. ..
.. a person's accomplishment depends not only on his appearance ... but on his taste. ..
... getting along with two people ... is not about so-called matching ... that's too empty ... but mutual respect and appreciation. ..
... the comparison between people ... is actually endless ... saying that a person is poor ... someone is poorer than him ... saying that a person is rich ... and there are people who are richer than him. ..
... if a person doesn't realize this, he will definitely feel inferior and arrogant ... both of them are vulgar ... extremely vulgar. ..
A person's standard of looking at people, style of doing things, code of conduct, ideas, beliefs or preferences reflect and determine his or her taste and spiritual level. ..
... taste is definitely not just the richness of material life ... However ... in modern society ... there are all kinds of advertisements ... and you are forced to instill your so-called taste. ..
Only when you have a certain material wealth, and then you have a certain level of material products, can such people appear tasteful ... Now this is the mainstream view of almost 95% people. ..
... maybe ... including me. ..
Time, place, and people of actual combat exercise 3 (skill characteristics: all ages)
in time
.. everything except the east wind ... that is, the weather. ..
Heaven is always changing ... which season of the year has the highest success rate ... what kind of climate is most likely to succeed ... when is the easiest time to strike up a conversation in a day? ..
The ancients said that it is reasonable for girls to think in spring ... scholars to feel sad in autumn ... ..
But this is not the case when chatting up people ... I think the success rate of chatting up people is the same all year round ... and there is no problem that the weather affects success. ..
The key is whether you can use it or not. For example, you should watch the weather forecast every day. It's better to know the weather today. It is best to know gossip, Feng Shui and I Ching. ..
Especially on rainy days, it is the best weather for wolves ... because on rainy days, you can lend an umbrella to MM ... or borrow an umbrella from MM ... streets ... restaurants ... libraries ... and there are MM everywhere on campus. ..
The reason is very high-sounding .. Umbrella is your entry point .. The key is to borrow an umbrella to get to know her ... let her know you ... Don't be timid because of the bad weather. ..
When is the best time of day to strike up a conversation? .. tonight is not a good night to strike up a conversation ... unless you are somewhere. ..
Human nature is afraid of the dark. It will be fine when people grow up. ..
Girls are more afraid of the dark than boys ... I personally chat up on the road less often at night (is it because I laugh too evil), um ... lessons from the past ... teachers of future generations. ..
At night, it's hard for MM ... to see your face clearly ... and feel the sincerity you want to express ... it's really hard. ..
This refers to some places with relatively insufficient lighting. ..
Besides, if you can't see her clearly ... you will inevitably mistake her for a beautiful woman ... so for your safety and hers ... you should try to avoid courtship activities in places with insufficient light at night. ..
Geographical advantage
... who wins the world ... who depends on it ... is time, place, person and place also a key factor in chatting up people? ..
Let's get rid of some special places here ... special occasions are usually directly related to sex ... and are likely to involve money and personal safety ... let's not consider them here for the time being. ..
In most cases, a relatively closed place is better than an open place ... a crowded place is better than an open place ... classrooms ... buses ... restaurants are a good place to strike up a conversation. ..
It's almost the same as the busy road .. playground. ..
I don't know if it's because women themselves have to bear the responsibility of giving birth to the next generation ... they feel safer in relatively closed places. ..
That's why most women want a warm little family more than men ... but not absolutely. ..
No one is stupid enough to talk to a woman in front of 10 people in a closed elevator. ..
All elevators have monitors ... if it's just you and the girl you've always wanted to know in the elevator to work ... this is God's chance for you! -
In most cases ... you can't choose the place to strike up a conversation ... because you can't predict MM's movements ... blindly wait and see for a better environment ... sometimes you will lose the opportunity. ..
Therefore, the knowledge of geographical location is the most difficult to master. It requires long-term practice and reasoning. It needs to be combined with weather and people. ..
Do what you see, do what you have to do .. Not winning, but winning. ..
Unity and coordination within one's team
Harmony is the human factor in chatting up people .. Generally speaking, it can be analyzed from three angles: the person, the target object and the people around the target. ..
Personal factors: first of all, you should have at least a medium appearance ... of course, handsome guys have an advantage in this respect ... but women are different from men after all. ..
Men with medium looks and normal figure can also get their favor ... a man who is too beautiful and ostentatious sometimes makes them feel disgusted. ..
It looks natural ... but clothes can be changed ... Try not to wear clothes from Kazakhstan and South Korea ... antique clothes and so on to chat up ... Maybe you think you are cool. ..
But women are inherently insecure ... no matter how cool and handsome you are, you can't resist their deep fear of strangers ... and the suit and tie are not very good. ..
If you're not wearing Armani ... at least take off your tie ... an ordinary T-shirt ... a pair of jeans is enough. ..
The key is to be clean and tidy, so that girls can feel that you are a serious person first, so that you can get close to her and make her believe what you say. ..
Practical exercise 4 gift-giving articles (skill characteristics: suitable for all ages)
China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times .. Traditionally, it attaches great importance to reciprocity. ..
Benevolence, propriety, propriety, wisdom and faithfulness ... among which "propriety" is the most classic and brilliant page in China's Confucianism. ..
Its far-reaching influence is still highly respected by people today. ..
So giving gifts has become the most expressive way of communication. ..
Objectively speaking, gift-giving is restricted by time, environment and customs. Subjectively speaking, the object and purpose of giving gifts are different. ..
Therefore, gift-giving is also an art, and the knowledge and common sense of gift-giving are also very particular. ....
1} The weight of the gift is appropriate.
Generally speaking ... the gift is too light ... it doesn't mean anything ... It's easy to be misunderstood as looking down on him ... especially for people who are not close ... even more so. ..
Therefore, the choice of gift weight is based on the premise that the other party can accept it happily, and strive to spend less money, do more things, and spend more money to do good deeds. ...
2} Appropriate gift-giving interval
The interval between gifts is also very particular .. The frequency should not be too much and the interval should not be too long. ..
Gift givers may be well-off or eager to pick up girls, so they often send big bags to their doors ... Some people think that such generosity will definitely win the favor of others. ..
Come to think of it, it's not, because your frequency of giving gifts is too purposeful. ..
3} Gift giving purpose
Everyone gives gifts for some purpose. ..
Friends give gifts to each other to deepen friendship. Parents give gifts to their children to strengthen family relations. Husbands give gifts to their wives to sublimate love. Employees give gifts to their leaders to deepen their relationship. ..
4} Gifts are carriers of feelings.
Any gift represents the special intention of the giver .. or reward, or ask for help, or contact feelings and so on. ..
Therefore, the gift you choose must be in line with your mind, and let the recipient feel that your gift is unusual and precious. ..
In fact, the best gift should be chosen according to each other's hobbies. ..
Meaningful, thought-provoking and of extraordinary quality, but not an obvious gift. ..
5} How to give gifts to girls
A: Girls naturally love beauty ... so all kinds of decorations are more interesting and enjoyable for most girls. ..
So ... beautiful bracelets and necklaces ... earrings can be given to girls as gifts ... without spending a lot of money. ..
But things should be distinctive .. because no one wants to use the same thing as others. ..
B: plush toys can be given to girls ... because girls have a maternal side in their nature ... and they prefer some cute and fun little things. ..
In addition, the texture of plush toys is very special ... and there are many patterns ... You might as well send one to her ... whether it's a caterpillar or a long-tailed monkey ... an apple bear ... will make people very happy. ..
C: Books will never go out of date ... although some people don't like to accept such gifts ... giving books is still a good choice. ..
If she likes reading story books very much, she can send novels ... if she likes painting ... she can send a few meters of picture books ... which are exquisite and different. ..
The packaging of books can break the traditional square ... make a package with wrapping paper ... insert some dried wheat or dried flowers ... very elegant. ..
Audio-visual products are very popular gifts ... it's also a good opportunity to exchange music with each other ... you don't have to give her favorite music. ..
You can send some music that you feel good ... CDs ... Video Compact Disc ... digital discs ... and the price is not expensive ... but remember: support genuine! Support originality!
E: flowers! Sending her flowers ... the persistence of forget-me-not ... the unrestrained lily ... the exquisiteness of African wild chrysanthemum ... the purity of calla lily ... can bring her different feelings. ..
Although these flowers can't bloom forever .. they can bloom forever in her heart. ..
A watch is also a good gift ... It is not difficult to buy a distinctive watch at present ... and the price is acceptable. ..
It's a good choice to send a cartoon watch .. or a watch similar to a bracelet .. we don't have to buy too many different things. ..
Like a skeleton .. but you can judge which is better according to her personality. ..
Therefore:
In fact, the best gift for girls is sincerity ... because no matter who wants to have a sincere friend ... as long as you prepare carefully. ..
Any gift will make a girl very happy ... because the gift is your heart ... and your heart is the greatest blessing to her. ..
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When choosing a gift, we should consider its ideological, artistic, interesting and commemorative factors. ....
Try to be original ... unconventional ....
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Fame and fortune are like clouds ... like flowers in water ... like the moon in the mirror. ....
Love is like spring breeze ... it's meant to be ... and it can't be forced. ....
Fate is like snow ... moving with the wind ... unpredictable. ....
Life is like the sun and the moon ... ups and downs. ....
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Girls are like this. ...
Some people pick up girls in the name ... some people pick up girls for profit. ...
Some people pick up girls for love ... some people pick up girls for righteousness. ...
Some people find girls for prostitution ... some people pick up girls for evil. ...
As the saying goes, people die for money ... birds die for girls. ...
In a man's world ... nothing is necessary ... but a girl ... is indispensable. ...
... here ... in the name of the Father, the Virgin, the Son, the Holy Rice and the Holy Grail. .......
... men are not guilty of picking up girls ...
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The highest level of 36 tricks to pick up girls ... is actually nine words ... one trick for each person! There is no trick to winning!
But movement is secondary .. The most important thing is fate. ..
What is fate?
What is fate? Someone asked the hermit. The hermit thought for a moment and said. Fate is fate. Life is fate. ..
This person is very confused .. Ask the monk .. The monk said .. Fate is the practice of past lives. ..
The man didn't understand his previous life, so he asked the Buddha. ..
The Buddha didn't say anything ... pointing to the clouds in the sky ... this man looks ... Yun Qi is covered with dark clouds ... and gone with the wind. ..
So I had an epiphany .. I couldn't ask for it. ..
Fate is like the wind. The wind direction is uncertain ..
Cloud gathering is fate. So is the cloud. ..
Feelings are like clouds ... thousands of changes ... Yun Qi is rising ... When the clouds fall, it is lonely and comforting ... Emotional things are like clouds gathering together ... Fate is a rare wind. ..
There are many demands in the world ... but fate is hard to find ... a vast sea of people ... a flashy world. ..
How many people can really find their perfect place ... and how many people miss the best opportunity in passing by? ..
Or how many people have the right choice but stand in the wrong time and place ... sometimes fate is just between people's thoughts. ..
Fate is like the wind. This is destiny takes a hand. Going is fate. This is fate. Losing is life.