Also, feelings should not only prevent outsiders from invading; I hope you two learn to control your feelings:
1, get along equally
Nobody wants to be anyone's servant or slave, so please get along equally. Now that we are together, don't bully anyone. This is not only reflected in two people, but also in their attitudes towards their families. Don't try to belittle or insult one's family.
Don't forget to take responsibility.
Now that you two have come together, you should assume the responsibility that love requires you to fulfill. This is necessary, and no one can escape. However, many lovers will feel very tired of responsibility. At this time, it is likely that there is something wrong with love. Please calm down and find out the problem together. Manage with heart and trust each other.