? Coordinate Guangdong, I have never heard the saying that a married daughter can't go back to her family for the New Year. Our married daughter can not only go home for the New Year, but also live in her house for a long time. Giving birth and confinement are not taboo.
Many friends and relatives around me also prefer to have a confinement at their mother's house, so it is definitely more comfortable for their mother to take care of them, unlike many mother-in-law who always care about their grandchildren and ignore their daughter-in-law.
? As for whether I can go back to my family for the New Year, it is not a problem at all. As long as my husband agrees, my mother's house is convenient and I want to go back at any time. In particular, most of our generation born in 1980s and 1990s are only children, so it is normal for them to spend the New Year alternately with their parents.
Marrying a daughter is not selling a daughter. How can there be a rule that you must go to your husband's house for the New Year? A daughter is always a child of her parents, and she has not lost any responsibilities and obligations because she marries a man.
Later, more people came into contact with me after work, and I realized that some places were not like this. There are many rules for married daughters to go back to their parents' home, not to mention celebrating the New Year at their parents' home. Even if I take my children back to my parents' home after the Spring Festival, my relatives have to sleep in separate rooms, so the couple can't sleep together, otherwise it will destroy the feng shui of my parents' home …
More taboo to have children, confinement. You must never live in your mother's house, or you will destroy the fortune of your mother's brothers. This is a big taboo.
? These customs and habits seem ridiculous at first glance, but on second thought, they are understandable. After all, it is normal to save water and raise people at the same time. China is so big. There is no need to explore and explain why, and there is no way to research. It's just a habit that everyone respects and follows.