What is the implication of the collision between the red event and the white event? Some people are particularly annoyed that red events collide with white events. In our custom, as long as there are weddings, funerals and happy events, everyone will invite wine, and relatives and friends will inevitably follow the ceremony. Let's see what red and white mean.
The collision of red event and white event implies that 1 red event creates white event. After all, there has always been a truth that the dead in rural areas are the biggest, and the ancestors in the village are buried. Everyone should also be tolerant. Since it is a happy event, we should be tolerant everywhere. Only by giving in can a happy event become auspicious. If the two sides quarrel over there, they will only turn happy events into sad ones.
If a happy family really doesn't let the past go, then the White House can choose another road. After all, a road can connect both sides, and it is impossible to directly block the road. If there is a dispute with Hong's family, it will only escalate the contradiction and show disrespect to the deceased.
What are the feng shui taboos for weddings and funerals?
It is a good thing to drive in front of the funeral car, especially on a business trip, and you will get what you want. If you drive with the funeral car, it's a no-no, never walk into the funeral car. If you accidentally enter the funeral procession, please immediately stop at the nearest intersection, then tear off your pants and move on. Go home and enter the door, stomp three feet and spit three times before entering.
Friends who drive to the funeral, including those who drive to the grave to worship, and those who go to the temple to worship and support, please turn on the headlights before driving and turn off the lights after driving through an intersection. This should be placed in the light to avoid inviting evil spirits. This method can be used to solve it, and everything can be forgiven.
Cars invited to the wedding will be decorated with some flowers, balloons, ribbons and other things. After the wedding, these things must be taken down and thrown away before they can go home and put in storage. Don't think this is a celebration, because these decorations are used by family members to dispel evil spirits on the road, so it is forbidden to bring them back to their own homes.
What does it mean that something red collides with something white? Throwing money means that officials are greedy for money.
Generally speaking, if this happens, the red side must show generosity. Let the veiled bride throw some money out of the sedan chair. Why? Because the word "coffin" is the same as the word "official", the girl is throwing money out.
This shows that officials can see wealth at home, but mostly to respect this statement. The most fundamental thing is to give the deceased the greatest respect. No matter from which angle, this custom has been maintained until now. It is still said in some places now. When you meet something on the road, you will throw some money out of the car.
Statement in the same direction
Generally speaking, if the wedding motorcade and the funeral car travel in the same direction, it is not too particular, but if the funeral car is in front of the wedding car, then the funeral car will make way for the wedding car. Marriage is all about auspicious days, and the departure time and return time of the wedding car are all said.
So, we are all in a hurry on the road. At this time, it is natural to make way for the car. Rural people pay attention to it. If it is unlucky to follow the funeral car, most people will choose to pull over and let the wedding car go first or choose another road.
Pay attention to the opposite direction
If the wedding car and the funeral car collide head-on, it is the wedding car that gives way and lets the funeral team go first. There are two reasons. First, among the people, it is emphasized that "the dead are the biggest" and those who "walk" are the biggest and most distinguished.
Other things that have nothing to do with this should be delayed, and the wedding car will naturally give way after it meets. Second, it is auspicious to hold a wedding. Once this happens, there is no need for dialogue between the two sides, and the wedding party will take the initiative to choose a detour.
What is the implication of the collision between the red event and the white event? 3. The strange image of "Red Event"
In the past, everyone served wine on the grounds of getting married or having white things at home, but now it's different. Sichuan, Yunnan, and Guizhou all have strange phenomena of not letting things go. Many people will set the date of wine release at the end of the year. In these places, there is an atmosphere of "no drinking" at the end of each year. Many farmers who go out to work are "endless banquets and endless gifts" after returning home.
In addition to the increase in wine names, in some places, there has also been a strange phenomenon of "comparing with others". Some people deliberately increase the amount of gifts to save face, from tens of dollars in the past to hundreds now.
Ordinary villagers give gifts at least 200 times, and relatives treat guests with wine at least thousands or tens of thousands. In order to win face, many people tend to follow the competition and follow the crowd, which eventually encourages this trend, and the human burden of local villagers is getting heavier and heavier.
It is not a day or two since the phenomenon of "doing great things, keeping up with the joneses, and following the ceremony" appeared in the Red Incident. It is understood that the wind of no alcohol has prevailed in rural areas for many years, and many elderly people who farm at home have not had alcohol for more than ten years.
For more than ten years, old people have been invited to attend, especially at the end of the year, many old people have to brave the cold to attend other people's wedding banquets. Every Spring Festival, there are always some old people who get sick because of these idle drinks.
Of course, the countryside is a human society. Let alone relationships, it means that many old people can't get these gifts back. Many rural elderly people can't understand why these people drink nothing every year. Does everyone regard human feelings as a tool to make money? Don't you have to pay all these debts?
Second, the strange image of "white matter"
In the past, white affairs in rural areas were handled according to local customs, and there was nothing strange. But now, when some people in rural areas hold funerals, they have to invite some professionals to perform in front of the dead. Such as singing and dancing, acrobatics and so on. In addition, in some places, the atmosphere of inviting orchestras to help out has arisen, and the bigger the scene, the better. The whole scene of Baishi is full of songs and dances.
Many old people don't understand this situation. These song and dance performances have nothing to do with the funeral. It used to be a sad thing to do something for nothing, but now it has become a happy event. Some performances caused the whole audience to laugh. Those who don't know the situation think that the host family is having a happy event, so many old people also say that they can't understand this practice!
In my opinion, whether it is red or white, there is no need to "do great things", especially those that have nothing to do with alcohol, which brings a new round of burden to farmers. Nowadays, many people are caught in an endless cycle of debt of gratitude, which they owe all the year round.
After the money was returned, some people began to hold banquets in order to collect some money. Over time, there has been a "drinking style" in these places, and the amount of gifts has also increased year by year because of the comparison. Many old people can't afford it now. The income from hard farming for one year is several thousand yuan, and they have to deal with a lot of human expenses at the end of each year.
Therefore, I advise you not to use wine as a tool to make money, which will only encourage the atmosphere to continue to spread, and you will suffer in the end.
In short, there are more and more strange phenomena of weddings, funerals and happy events in rural areas, and now many elderly people are also very headache. At the same time, they are also calling on the state to take measures to control these chaos and let the villagers have a good living environment and atmosphere.