2. graphics tablet can't move. Many people don't know that memorial tablets must not be tampered with when offering sacrifices to ancestors. Why? Because from the perspective of geomantic omen, the bones or ashes of ancestors are generally connected with the atmosphere, which is what we call "dragon atmosphere", because these are buried underground. The monument is exposed, and the tree is in front of the grave and connected with the sky. Therefore, the influence of the monument is very great, and therefore, when offering sacrifices, you must never touch it.
As the saying goes, one mile is different from the wind, and ten miles is different from the customs. China has a vast territory and many nationalities, and the funeral customs in different places have their own differences and characteristics.
A poor scholar, Dictyophora rarely goes out, so she doesn't know much about other places and only knows a little about the local funeral culture. Now let's come together. If you have different opinions, please give me more advice. Thanks in advance!
Let's talk about the mourning period first! In layman's terms, mourning is also a time for mourning. After an old man dies, he usually stays in the morgue for three days. If a close relative can't come back in time in other places, he will have a few more days to see the old man for the last time. The funeral period is calculated as follows: one day from the date of death, and then the funeral will be held the next day and the third day. There have been many things in these three days. On the first day at home, you should inform your friends and relatives to burn paper one by one; Funeral supplies; Ask the chef who caters in the countryside; Wait a minute. The next morning, there was generally nothing important, and a Peng Ling was built. Here comes the cook; If the troupe is invited, the troupe will also come; Letters from the old man's daughter, niece, nephew and many other relatives and friends have arrived. In order not to be too busy on the day of the funeral, most families will cremate the dead the next afternoon. When you come back from cremation, it will be dark soon, and the deacon general manager will arrange to pour the soup.
On the third morning, there will be a funeral, or a cemetery or cemetery. When he comes back from burial, the host family will entertain guests who come to burn paper for condolences. During the dinner, the dutiful son will kowtow and thank everyone. This is called "dutiful son"! The funeral is over.
The fourth day is the day of burning five or seven pieces of paper. It is said that the burning of May 7th paper should be during the May 7th period, but because everyone is very busy, some of them are still working in other places, so we should hurry back. From this point of view, no matter who does things, it is to adapt to the situation and change the date. In recent years, the convention seems to have become very common, and everyone has done so.
Let's talk about what's taboo! After all, it is a white matter, and there are many taboos. Taboo, also known as taboo, is something you can't do during a funeral. Just give one or two examples. You can't borrow anything used for funeral, even a two-fingered rope. You can only buy it, no matter who it is, as long as it's not the owner's own. Give me 32 cents, not for nothing. During the mourning period, the dutiful son and his wife can't visit, but they should always be in front of the spirit, and what needs to be done should be arranged by the deacon. etc