Opinion: This kind of saying is actually a reflection of national beliefs and can be regarded as a kind of psychological suggestion. What religion do Chinese people believe in? ?
I don’t think most people can answer this question. Even if they can, the answers will be all kinds of strange and it is difficult to form a certain proportion.
Some people may say they believe in Christianity, some may say they believe in Taoism, and some may say they believe in Buddhism.
Have you ever discovered that we are very different from other countries in the world, that is, we do not have any universal sectarian beliefs, and we call ourselves atheists.
However, although we call ourselves atheists, we still stay away from such things as "ghosts and gods" in our lives. Well, this is a contradiction. Obviously we ourselves can’t say what we believe in. We can also be sure of our belief in ghosts and gods. So, why do we still feel scared in some special situations?
This is obviously problematic. This is about what we really believe in. We don’t believe in cows, ghosts and snake gods. It is true that there is no sect that is widely believed by the people like Christianity. However, we all believe in ancestors, and ancestors are the gods in our hearts. ?. This belief in ancestors is common among most of us.
In reality, we have the Tomb-Sweeping Day, which is actually to worship our ancestors. To be more specific, we have natural respect for our parents.
For example, most people are very disgusted by others scolding their parents. In other words, in many of our national scoldings, when you want to express your emotions more powerfully, you often have to bring other people's parents. Relatives.
It is precisely based on the belief and respect of our ancestors that we pay a lot of attention to our deceased ancestors. For example, this sentence: "Don't move tombs, nine times out of ten you will be defeated."
What is the meaning behind this sentence? Because we all pay attention to being at peace in the grave, and we pay attention to keeping peace after the death of our ancestors. The cemetery is generally found before death, and cannot be moved after burial. It is necessary to find a place with good feng shui for relatives to bury, so as to seek the blessings of the ancestors.
This is actually similar to the nature of foreigners’ belief in Jesus. It just means that most of us are not so superstitious, or that our beliefs need to be more flexible and practical.
For example, when we worship our ancestors, what we say is actually to bless the family with safety and make a fortune, right? However, if something unfortunate happens to your family, you may have to curse loudly when you go to the grave.
Of course, in reality, many people also believe in the impact of cemeteries on family destiny. For example, some southern families have ancestral halls to worship their ancestors. As for whether it can have an impact, this is actually our personal psychological effect. We interpret it as if we believe it, there will be it, and if we don’t believe it, there will be nothing.
Because, when our mentality is affected by something, it will definitely affect our actions in real life. This mainly depends on the specific impact this thing has on your mentality, which is not absolute.