It can be seen that a person's language hides a huge mystery.
People who can talk can send warmth to others and give happiness back to themselves.
Language is a mirror of human mind. People's ideas are first expressed through language. Kind people will never abuse each other and hurt others for no reason.
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Never flatter yourself by mocking others.
Hemingway said, "It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us a lifetime to learn to shut up."
Why do some people always ridicule and belittle others? These people have a * * * nature, and they are trying to attack others to maintain their image.
They don't consider other people's psychological feelings, and they don't know that language violence will have vicious consequences.
You know, the speaker is unintentional, and the listener is interested.
Sometimes, your casual words hurt others' self-esteem, which is not advisable.
If you don't embarrass others, you don't embarrass yourself or be mean to others. This is a kind of cultivation. It is also accumulating oral virtue.
Everyone has his own shortcomings, and everyone has his own strengths. It is certainly "better" to compare one's strengths with others' weaknesses. But what's the point except that there is some vanity at work?
If you speak ill of others, you are bound to get a corresponding response. When is revenge?
Making enemies with words is the least worthwhile thing. It will set unnecessary obstacles in your life.
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A person's language expression can show a person's accomplishment.
Lv Duan was a famous figure in the Northern Song Dynasty. He is kind and open-minded and has won people's love.
Lv Duan was smart and studious when he was young, and later he was able to be an official in North Korea. He is an honest official and leads a simple life. During the reign of Emperor Taizong, he was promoted to a bachelor's degree in the Council and soon entered the Senate to study politics.
Zhao Pu, a Chinese book at that time, spoke highly of him, saying that Lv Duan did not pursue fame and fortune, and was unhappy, and was a heavy weapon of the country.
Lv Duan is very modest, never competing with others at the same level, always content with being inferior.
But Taizong took a fancy to him and often talked with him until sunset.
Lv Duan is a good-looking man, valuable and generous. He likes joking and is informal, but he doesn't ask trivial matters, so he is recognized as a bit "confused".
But when it comes to military affairs, he is not confused at all.
On one occasion, Li made trouble at the border, deployed in Song Jun, and captured his mother alive.
Emperor Taizong and Kou Zhun discussed the execution of his mother Li as a deterrent.
But when Lv Duan heard about it, he strongly opposed it. He wrote to Emperor Taizong: "Xiang Yu wanted to put Emperor Taizong's father to death and cook it, but Liu Bang said he was willing to share a piece of it. People who do great things can look down on family ties. Besides, Li is a rebellious person! "
Emperor Taizong asked Lv Duan what to do?
He said,' You can put her in Yanzhou and send someone to wait on her, which can also contain Li, even if he doesn't surrender. "
Emperor Taizong felt that what Lv Duan said was reasonable, so he did as he said.
Later, Li's mother died one after another, and his son joined the court.
One of Taizong's troubles is better than giving up.
This incident made Emperor Taizong admire Lv Duan very much, and praised Lv Duan for being careless about minor matters, but not at all about major events.
It can be seen from Lv Duan's personality that he is a very easy-going person. He can be confused in trivial matters, but he is not confused at all in matters concerning the country.
Such a person is a very cultured person, even today, it is commendable.
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Your language is your accomplishment and your feng shui.
What a person often says will bring him good luck. According to the law of cosmic gravity, no matter what sound you make to the universe, the universe will respond to you.
Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. So is language. It is difficult for people who speak ill of others all day to get the favor of others.
A polite person is kind to others and gets the same spring breeze and rain.
Language is an art as well as a weapon. Zhuge Liang can criticize, oppose Confucianism, shut off dissidents, scold Wang Lang for dying, grieve Zhou Lang, and make him lament that Yu Sheng was born smart. But these can only be used to treat the enemy. For friends around you, you must not talk nonsense and have no cover.
People who can talk are always respected and popular. If a person speaks well, it will bring him good luck. Always saying good things is to accumulate happiness for yourself. accumulate merit/virtue (by doing good deeds)