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A man with a poor wife has no future feelings.
I used to have a colleague who worked very hard and did one project after another. When everyone was promoted and raised, he was the only one who had never been promoted.
At that time, I was still young and ignorant, so I felt very strange.
He put all his energy into his work, leaving early and returning late, and even sacrificed his spare time to accompany his clients to drink. Why didn't he get the boss's attention?
When everyone felt sorry for him, our boss said that it was inevitable to get twice the result with half the effort. How can a man who is devoted to his work and has no room for his wife and children succeed?
It turns out that my former colleagues are full of careers, and they think about work as soon as they get home, so that they become invisible husbands when they get home.
He can't hear the child crying, and he can't see his wife's hard work. There is only one voice in his heart, that is, I want to succeed and get ahead.
Gradually, the child didn't want him, and his wife became cold in the widowed marriage and moved away alone with the child.
In the days of separation, children's expenses gradually increase. When his wife called him to ask for alimony, he either refused or roared loudly: If you want money, you will die!
All this was seen by the wise boss, who said that a man's attitude towards his wife is his true character.
His habitual neglect of his wife shows that he is selfish.
The image of a good man he created for colleagues, customers and bosses in his work is just a kind of human design. Once others touch his interests, such people will immediately turn their faces and deny others.
Therefore, the poorer a man is, the more he opposes his wife, and the more successful a man is, the more he will put his wife in his heart.
After Ma Yun's success, he once said in public that his wife is his noble person.
Ma Yun said: "My wife's working ability is stronger than mine, and her housekeeping ability is stronger than mine, but my working ability is ok, and my housekeeping ability is worse, so we discussed the division of labor and cooperation. One person manages the business and the other manages the family!"
Up to now, the public's impression of Ma Yun's wife is that without her, there would be no Ma Yun today.
Now that Ma Yun has grown up, his first thing is not to divorce, but to thank his wife for her silent contribution.
Besides Ma Yun, Liu Ye, the big boss, is a model of a good husband.
On the surface, his marriage with ZhangZetian seems to be a combination of greasy uncle and campus beauty, but in fact it is a beautiful marriage of talented people and beautiful women.
Under the influence of Liu, ZhangZetian quietly studied English and financial knowledge during her pregnancy, and obtained the online certificate of "Private Equity and Venture Capital" course in Bocconi University.
After giving birth to Liu, respect ZhangZetian's dream. Instead of indulging herself, she chose to go hand in hand with Liu and become a strong woman.
She not only invested in more than ten companies, such as Uber, tea brands, Internet tourism projects and online education, but also worked as an intern in Sequoia, in the same box as Bill Gates.
Not long ago, New Fortune magazine published the 20 17 rich list. Liu and ZhangZetian ranked 29th, and ZhangZetian became the youngest richest man, beating Wang Sicong.
Everyone said that ZhangZetian relied on Liu, but Liu said, "I didn't!"
Liu said in "Meeting Big Coffee" that she wouldn't interfere too much with ZhangZetian, only taught ZhangZetian to read the financial report, and made the rest of the investment by herself.
"She is very busy. She got up at 8 o'clock this morning and went to the board meeting. " Every time he mentions his wife, Liu has a sense of pride that cannot be concealed.
Liu once showed off his wife to the world in English at a luncheon in Davos: "My wife, she not only brought me a lot, but also brought a lot to this company and society. She proposed a green supply chain project, which is more environmentally friendly ... "
You see, the higher a man's spiritual level, the more he knows how to appreciate his wife's advantages, tolerate his wife's shortcomings, support his wife's dreams, and enrich his wife spiritually.
Therefore, in a family, whether a wife is a rich husband depends on her husband's attitude.
There is a saying in the Book of Songs that wives get along well, such as playing the piano and drumming.
It can be seen that only by raising a rich wife and children can families be harmonious and men's careers flourish.
And those men who can only cross the nest will have a resentment at home, which is particularly harmful to harmony and wealth.
I have a friend who is loyal to my brother, filial to my parents and enthusiastic to my colleagues and friends, except my wife.
Every time he mentions his wife, he will start the vomit mode, saying that his wife has various problems, that it is a temperament problem not to insist on giving birth naturally, that it is her fault that the milk is not enough for confinement, and that full-time mothers can't earn a penny.
When you spit on your wife, the derogatory tone, contemptuous eyes and contemptuous expression are like talking about an unqualified nanny, which makes people shudder.
At first I thought his wife was really useless. I just know that it is not easy for her to take care of her paralyzed mother-in-law alone.
They often quarrel, and every time he says, "You can't eat and drink without Laozi!" " At the end of this sentence, think about how desperate his wife is.
His career has never been smooth sailing, so he always comes back with a full stomach and takes it out on his wife. The more quarrels between two people, the worse his mood, the worse his career, and a vicious circle.
Perhaps, that person can't figure out why he works so hard, but he can't satisfy his talent all the time.
In fact, the wife is the best feng shui in the family, the mother is safe, and the family and everything are prosperous.
A person's success needs the right time, the right place and the right people, both of which are indispensable, and those men with poor wives, even if they try to create the right time and place, will eventually have a bad career because of family discord.
Because, a man with a poor wife, no matter how hard he tries.
A man with a poor wife has no future feelings. Learn to appreciate others, and you will become better.
Appreciation is a level; Appreciation is an ability; Appreciation is a quality; Appreciation is also a kind of enjoyment. If you are good at appreciating others, you are not simple; Learn to appreciate others, and you will become better.
Learning to appreciate the advantages of others is an improvement; Learning to tolerate the shortcomings of others is a kind of tolerance. Being able to appreciate others is the highlight of your wisdom and mentality, the embodiment of your humility and sincerity, and also won the respect and admiration of others!
To learn to appreciate others is to gradually turn their strengths into your own. Over time, you are naturally an excellent person. The better a person is, the more he appreciates the advantages of others.
Confucius said: "There must be a teacher for three people", so we should "choose the good and do it", learn to learn from others' strengths, be good at discovering others' bright spots, and learn to light our own way with others' light!
What is in a person's heart, what is in his eyes. There is sunshine in my heart and sunshine in my eyes; If you have beautiful scenery in your heart, your eyes will not sink in.
Su Shi, a great writer in the Northern Song Dynasty, meditated with Zen master Fo Yin. Su Shi joked: "When I meditate, my eyes look at Master as a pile of cow dung." Master Fo Yin said, "When I meditate, I see with my eyes that you are Tathagata." Su Shi proudly told his sister about it when he got home. Su Xiaomei said, "Brother, you have lost too much! Don't you know that all external things of practice are internal projections? Your heart is a mass of cow dung, so others you see are also a mass of cow dung; People's hearts are Tathagata, so so are you. "
It can be seen that if you like others, others will like you; If you hate others, others will hate you. If you appreciate others, others will appreciate you; If you despise others, others will despise you. A person who is kind to others is kind to himself. Appreciate others, and you will be appreciated by others. Blooming flowers will attract butterflies to enjoy flowers and bees to collect honey; And smelly fruits and vegetables will only attract disgusting flies and mosquitoes!
Two people who appreciate each other must be learning from each other's strengths and making both sides better and better; Two people who hate each other must only see each other's shortcomings, so that both sides are getting worse and worse.
To truly appreciate the advantages of others is by no means insincere, nor is it a false compliment that takes part in accidental amusement, but it is from the heart, but a sincere admiration that is consistent in appearance. If you really want to appreciate the advantages of others, you must first have a very broad mind and a very humble attitude, instead of being jealous or even putting obstacles in others' way when you see their Excellence.
Imagine, if you don't appreciate a person who is better than yourself, and don't learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings, what good will it do you? Learn to appreciate others and get rid of jealousy. Jealousy is like a yeast. If you stay in your heart for a long time, it will ferment and expand until it turns sour and even makes your heart collapse! People who like jealousy will never achieve anything.
A low-key, modest and respectful person, others in his eyes are always bright, excellent and worth learning; A conceited and supercilious person, others are always useless in his eyes, not as good as his own.
Learn to appreciate others, praise others sincerely, please others and be selfish. I wish you continue to grow in appreciation and be a better yourself!