God: Why can't I live without my wife and lover?

The doctor's male friend told Dr. Zheng, "My wife and lover are very kind to me! The wife manages the family and children; Lovers make me feel at ease in my career! I am sometimes ambivalent! My wife never mentions birthright, which makes me very uneasy! Because the child is still a little wife, he never asks me anything, even if he is out at night, I am very uneasy! The wife has known each other for 9 years, and the lovers have been together for 3 years! Sometimes I feel very happy; Sometimes it feels painful! They are all people I like! Even give up! I am really afraid that one day I will lose all of them! " At all times and in all countries, kitchens are related to stoves. Dr. Zheng analyzed the shape of the word "stove": stove-from fire to soil, which means "fire burns on the soil" in the wild. Three stones are placed on the flat ground to support the pot, and dry wood is lit below to cook. In order to prevent the wind, you can dig a pit and put the pot in the pit to cook, which is called "burying the pot to cook". Jujube is also a surname. Legend has it that there was once a gentleman in Hunan who was ill when he was a child. Later, a monk came to his house and said that he would take this gentleman around the world, otherwise his mother would not live long. The monk thought of another way, saying that he would change his surname to jujube. Since then, this gentleman has never been ill again. The kitchen stove is also related to the kitchen god. Dr. Zheng remembers a folk legend: According to legend, in ancient times there was a family named Zhang, two brothers, the elder brother was a plasterer and the younger brother was a painter. My brother's specialty is cooking pots and pans. He was invited by East Street and West Square, and they all praised his cooking. He has been famous for a long time, and calling him "King Zhang Zao" is thousands of miles away. Strangely, Wang said that no matter who built a stove, he liked to interfere in other people's homes if there was any dispute. When he meets a noisy daughter-in-law, he will persuade him. When he meets a fierce mother-in-law, he will say that he seems to be an old elder. In the future, neighbors will look for him if they have anything, and everyone respects him. The king lived seventy years, and when he died, it happened to be late at night on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month. After the death of Wang, Zhang Jiake fell into chaos. It turns out that the king is the head of the family and everything in the family is under his command. Now that the eldest brother has passed away, the younger brother can only write poems and draw pictures. Although he spent a lot of time, he never did housework. The daughters-in-law in several rooms clamored for separation, and the painter was stirred helplessly and frowned all day. One day, he finally came up with a good idea On the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month, the anniversary of Wang's death, in the middle of the night, the painter suddenly called to wake up the whole family and said that the eldest brother had appeared. He took his son, daughter-in-law and the whole family to the kitchen, only to see the flickering candlelight on the dark kitchen wall showing the appearance of the king and his dead wife, and the whole family was shocked. The painter said, "When I slept, I dreamed that my eldest brother and sister-in-law had become immortal, and the Jade Emperor named him' Nine Days East Chef, and ordered the chef to be the king of the palace'. You are always lazy, lazy, and your sister-in-law is not harmonious, disrespectful and unfilial, which makes your family uneasy. My brother is very angry when he knows that you are going to break up. He is going to tell the Jade Emperor that he will come down on the evening of the 30th to punish you. " Hearing this, the sons and daughters' nephews and daughters-in-law were frightened. They immediately knelt down and kowtowed again and again, and hurriedly brought Wang Ping's favorite sweets to the stove to eat, pleading with the kitchen king for forgiveness. Since then, uncles, brothers and daughters-in-law who often make noise have never dared to make trouble again. The whole family lives in harmony, young and old. Neighbors knew about it, and the news spread. They all came to Zhang's house and wanted to know the truth. In fact, the kitchen god on the kitchen wall on the 23rd night of the twelfth lunar month was painted by the painter in advance. He came to town to scare his children's nephews and daughters-in-law, but this method really worked. So the neighbor came to the painter to inquire about the situation, so he had to pretend and distribute the painted kitchen god to the neighbors. As a result, it spread along the countryside, and every household's kitchen was labeled as the king of kitchens. Over time, the custom of offering sacrifices to the kitchen god on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month and praying for the safety of the family was formed. The reason is that they are afraid of desecrating the gods they worship because of gender differences. On the night of Mid-Autumn Festival, the Han people have the custom of worshipping the moon god. On the 23rd night of the twelfth lunar month, there is the custom of offering sacrifices to the kitchen god. According to legend, luna is a goddess, who runs to the moon in myths and legends. She is the wife of Yi, because she took the elixir of life from the Queen Mother, and became a fairy moon, flying to the moon palace and becoming a moon essence. Therefore, it is forbidden for future generations to worship the moon when men worship. So as not to blaspheme. People think that Kitchen God is a male god, and he is called "Kitchen God". It is said that he returns to the Heavenly Palace every year on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month to tell the right and wrong of the world. As the old saying goes, "Heaven speaks well, and the lower bound is safe". At first, it was an old woman who sacrificed to the kitchen god, and later it developed into a man who sacrificed. Women can only sacrifice behind men at most. If there are no men at home, ask the men in the neighborhood to take their place. If there is really no body double and there is a need for sacrifice, there is also an accommodating method, that is, when male Yue Bai and female sacrifice to the Kitchen God, they both wear hats, so that the gods can't tell whether they are male or female and they won't blame them. Closer to home, Dr. Zheng specially reminds friends that the home feng shui kitchen (stove) represents the hostess, and the feng shui of the kitchen and stove is related to the big problems of the male and female owners. Not long ago. Dr. Zheng visited a building in Shanghai. There are two kinds of stoves in the kitchen of this mansion, that is, there are both western-style stoves and Chinese stoves. Two stoves in such a family lead to two hostesses in a family. Sure enough, the man had an affair and took another woman home for the night when the woman was often on a business trip. So, if your husband is having an affair, Dr. Zheng wants you to check immediately. Are there two stoves in the kitchen? Did you add an oriental pot besides the western pot? The stove represents the hostess, and the hostess inserts aluminum sheets behind the stove to facilitate cleaning. This piece of aluminum is clean and shiny, but due to the reflection of aluminum, one stove becomes two stoves, and one wife becomes two wives, which means that the owner will keep mistresses or a third party will appear. Another family likes to add a mirror in the hall. For example, the mirror in the hall shines on the kitchen. Looking from the hall, I saw a kitchen with two stoves, indicating that there are two wives in this house, the owner has two wives, and there are even many lovers or affairs. There is a typical case: there is a house in Luohu, Shenzhen. Because the floor of the house is very high, I think I'm smart. I built an attic in the kitchen for the nanny to live in. The nanny climbs the stairs from the kitchen to the attic to sleep every day. From the perspective of geomantic psychology, the biggest problem when a kitchen becomes two kitchens is to climb the stairs in the attic. In this kitchen, the stairs are just in the northwest. In feng shui, the northwest represents the male master and often climbs stairs. Unfortunately, the nanny put a big mirror in the attic room, which publicized the geomantic effect of changing the kitchen, and also showed that the nanny from Anhui was a beauty lover (ambiguous). All these factors add up and something really goes wrong. One day, the man climbed up the attic from this ladder and had sex with the nanny, which led to an affair. Therefore, Dr. Zheng reminded friends to be cautious: try not to divide the kitchen into two floors. Even if it is divided into two floors, the stairs must not be opened in the northwest. Some friends will ask, where is the best place to put the stairs? Actually, no stairs is the best. Can I put it in the east? The stairs are on the east, and the eldest son will climb to the second floor! To avoid this kind of thing, don't put the stairs in the northwest, east, north and northeast, because the northwest represents the male owner, the east represents the eldest son, the north represents the middle male and the northeast represents the male. The stairs open in this square, and all four of them will climb to the second floor. If the nanny you hire is ugly, the possibility of realization will be lower. But if the nanny looks good and conforms to this feng shui pattern, it will easily lead to an affair. Dr. Zheng said earlier that the kitchen stove represents the hostess: the top of the stove represents the hostess's head and upper body, and the bottom of the stove represents the hostess's lower body and feet. Therefore, if there is a vase on the top of the cupboard on the stove, the hostess will often have a headache. The bottom of the stove is also important. There is a new house in Suzhou. The female host often has problems in her lower body and suffers from gynecological diseases. When Dr. Zheng measured the geomantic omen in his home, he found that the kitchen stove was full of dirty dirt. It turned out that the water leaked under the stove, and the sewage accumulated in the utensils under the stove, which became dirty and smelly, thus affecting the health of the hostess and causing female diseases. Since the stove represents the housewife's body, it is good for both men and women to turn on the stove every day; Dr. Zheng found that there are often some white-collar workers, both husband and wife are eating out, and the stove can't be turned on for a month, which is extremely unfavorable to the physical and mental health of the hostess. So, if a man can't get married without a partner, then Dr. Zheng asks you to check: Does the house you live in have a stove? If you don't have a stove, or if you have a stove but never cook with fire, then you can't get married; Even if you get married, the hostess may "have Cao Cao in her heart and Han in her heart", and your marriage may be in trouble. It can be seen that the stove represents the hostess. If your wife and lover leave, there may be something wrong with your kitchen and stove from the perspective of home feng shui. Remember Dr. Zheng's words: Feng Shui is around us, and conditioning home Feng Shui means conditioning your emotional marriage Feng Shui.