Throughout the three years of high school, she always won prizes in various competitions about learning. No matter how low-key she is, these glamorous auras will always set her off. In the teacher's words, she is an example for us to learn, and in the words of our boys, she is the goddess of our time. Good family upbringing makes her temperament ups and downs. Being born in a family with superior conditions also made her figure develop extremely well. The graceful figure makes us boys covet and can't get it. This smell is definitely rooted in the hearts of many students, not me alone.
Later, at the high school graduation party, a group of boys strongly proposed to hug everyone! Miss our lost lush years. Our goal is self-evident, embracing the goddess is the strongest thought. At least when I hug other people, I feel numb and anxious. I hope I can hug the goddess who misses me day and night. Now I still remember the excitement and excitement of hugging her and the wonderful softness of her breasts. I can't forget that moment, and I will miss it forever. Because it's beautiful and unattainable.
In August of that year, the goddess went to China Renmin University. She was even farther away from us, out of sight and out of reach. We don't know her life for four years. Because one class may be our school, but she went to Renmin University. Later, the high school group revealed that she had a boyfriend who was from Beijing. After a group of boys had a heated discussion in the group for a long time, they were sad for a long time ... the people we liked when we were young have taken refuge.
Because I grew up in a middle-class family. There is nothing to say about family education. Parents are also senior civil servants and political families. There is nothing to say about genes, and the background is passed on. I heard that she is now working in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of China and has been a wife. Husband is also a native of Beijing, and his family is still middle class+politics. This is already a winner in life. If there is no big change, I think I will often see her on CCTV after many years …
From Beijing to the south, across China. Here is a young and vibrant city, and innovation and development are its labels. There is nothing wrong with the collision and intersection of various novel thinking. This city is the forefront of reform and opening up, Shenzhen! The achievements of reform and opening up are all here. This is also the last in my high school class!
Let's start with this last one. He was the most rebellious person in his class in high school. Fight, pick up girls, smoke everything! I usually sell cigarettes and snacks in the dormitory. Of course, the price is high and the school doesn't sell it. Several brothers around him all day. At the same time, the school security guard was also successfully bribed by him with cigarettes. In the world of scum, he is a person who can bring excitement and joy to everyone. He is a passionate young man who dares to make progress. In order to pick up girls, he occupied the recording studio at noon and sang a touching song "Love You for Ten Thousand Years" to someone he liked. Even if you are suspended for a week. Although he is usually rebellious. But he is never overbearing, and we don't dislike him, because he can bring a lot of fun to the class. After the college entrance examination. Of course, he didn't go to college. So as to become a member of the vast working population in the Pearl River Delta.
It has been twelve years since I graduated from high school. Last in the original class, he created a brilliant life in Shenzhen. Now he is the boss of an advertising company. Are you surprised that a person who has never been to college can achieve so much? Tell me about his struggle history. What he said is. When he graduated from high school, he went to Shenzhen from his hometown with his luggage. At that time, she worked in an advertising company, and her cousin, who was a designer, also introduced him. Because he is a person without professional skills. You can only put advertisements on the advertising wall outside every day. But he thinks such a life is hopeless. From the time when my younger brothers were in droves at school, to the humble work for others now. This gap made him doubt his life for a long time. After working for three months, he resigned and couldn't stand such a life. So he started getting paid for several months. Turn yourself against Guangzhou and Shenzhen. Go to Guangzhou's railway station business district to wholesale clothes, and then go to Shenzhen's major industrial zones to set up stalls for reselling. Not long after doing it, he found that he couldn't do it anymore, and the profit was too low to make a living. Then he had to work as a waiter in a hotel. I began to think about life. He realized that without professional skills, it is difficult to gain a foothold in this society and find opportunities to realize his dreams. So he began to report to the training institution, the kind that attends classes at night. I have studied graphic design skills for two years. Two years later, he was introduced by his cousin to an advertising company as an intern to do graphic design. At first, his salary was pitifully low, but this was the beginning of his life. Because of his many ideas and efforts! I can often come up with that jaw-dropping idea. Emotional intelligence is beyond the reach of ordinary people from high school. In the next five years, he went from intern to formal designer, then to senior designer, and then to project manager, only one step away from the director.
The fifth year, this year is also the eighth year of high school graduation. He started a business, with his old subordinates and her cousin, who was then a senior designer. Opened an advertising company in Shenzhen. Four years have passed, and I have no way to know his struggle history in these four years. But now his company is not very large, but its performance and profit are still relatively objective. It is conservatively estimated that his net worth is at least 50 million. Is this a winner in life? ! There is no denying it! And let many people fall behind! Although he graduated from high school, he said he never gave up studying and working hard. Now his aura is really not that strong compared with ours. Used to be, and still is. Oh, it is also worth mentioning that he married his wife three years ago. Graduated from a 985 university in Wuhan, she is also a young woman who designs big coffee and is also a literary and art worker. Some people, while you admire his efforts, you should also think that the feng shui of his ancestral grave is really good.
Now I'm on the edge of Shennan Avenue in Shenzhen with the last company in my class. Oh no, it's my boss's company. Also in front of the floor-to-ceiling windows of high-rise buildings. He is looking forward to life with confidence. I may have forgotten to bring some fog. ...
It's been 10 years since graduation, and I accidentally exposed my age.
After graduating from college, the gap between us is still quite big, but compared with high school, the gap is not obvious, so let me talk about the first and last place in our class in high school.
There are two firsts in our class, a pair of golden couple. In the third year of high school, the first place in our class was contracted by them, and the students before grade 10 always reserved places for them. The point is that they got married later. . . .
In order to facilitate the next convenient address, I gave them an alias, a woman named Zhang Xiaomei and a man named Tang Ming (don't hit me when you two see my old classmates taking my name).
At that time, Tang Ming was not only a bully in the class, but also a class grass. Sometimes, think about it. God is a little unfair. Why do some people just have high IQ and good looks?
At that time, many girls from other classes handed him love letters, but this guy's characteristic was "high cold". Every time he receives a love letter, he doesn't read it and gives it to us guys directly. I don't know how many girls' hearts were broken at that time.
Zhang Xiaomei is a headmaster. She is different. Although he is a schoolmaster, I don't know if he didn't grow up at that time or what. In short, he fulfilled the sentence of his deskmate at that time, "It seems that those who get good grades are a little ugly." But as Zhang Xiaomei, who is also the principal, Tang Ming has a good appreciation for her. Zhang Xiaomei also knows what he looks like. He dresses himself up occasionally, but. . . . . (ten thousand words are omitted here).
Because Tang Ming's family is relatively good, after graduating from high school, Tang Ming went abroad to study directly. I thought these two people had always been at odds, but they fell in love after returning home. When Zhang Xiaomei saw them again, she became a goddess. I didn't recognize it at that time anyway.
Gossip here, talk about how these two people developed later.
After graduation, Zhang Xiaomei listened to his parents and was admitted to the provincial civil servants. It is always safe. Tang Ming studied finance abroad, and after returning to China, he worked in an investment bank with an annual salary of one million.
They get along well with our classmates.
And the classmate with the worst grade in our class at that time, the teacher called him "the big devil"
Devil, he liked fighting in high school. I was assigned to sit at the same table with Devil for a semester because of my poor grades. I still remember that there are not a watermelon knife hidden under the messy desk of the Great Devil, but several. When I first found it, I was scared. Fortunately, the Great Devil is loyal. He said, "My own brother, I will protect you in the future."
The rebellion of the great devil can also be shown in his clothes. From the back, he looks like an old man with white hair. He said it was cool. He sometimes likes to take his watermelon knife and run to the street to stop a car. He said it was cool, too. He also likes to steal a motorcycle once in a while. He said it was cool. Of course, not surprisingly, the big devil became a frequent visitor to the detention center and a teacher.
Last semester of senior three, the Great Devil was finally fired. He just disappeared from our sight.
I couldn't believe it when I learned of the recent disappearance of the Great Devil last year. He actually set up a training school in Guangzhou to teach. Life is really an accident everywhere! ! ! ! !
I added his circle of friends and found that he is either sunbathing or sunbathing now. By the way, I still drive a luxury car.
I don't want to ask what the Great Devil has experienced these years, but it is good to be happy after all. At that time, people also regarded me as a brother.
Sometimes I think, in fact, the great demon king at that time was still very clever, but he was too rebellious, which may be related to his parents forming their own families after divorce and leaving him alone.
Now, he is no longer problem of juvenile, but a good man with a career and a happy family.
There is a big gap between the first and last place in our class. I have a say in this question, because I am the first and last. ...
Besides junior high school. I am the first in my class. At that time, we were in an ordinary class. Most students stop going to college after graduating from high school. They get married and have children early and start working early to make money. As the first in my class, I am one of the few people who have been to college. I have graduated from college for three years now. In two ordinary colleges and universities, my job is just enough to eat and wear, and I have no savings. I am old enough to get married and treated by my family every day. After graduation, I accidentally met several junior high school students, who were very naughty and didn't study hard in junior high school. They are basically successful, getting married and having children, and some of them have started their own small companies. What surprises me even more is that the classmate who was fired from fighting in junior high school is now the boss of three companies. To tell the truth, they are a little unbalanced, but they also feel normal. In this society, they have to go through a lot more than me, so they have themselves now, and I am just a dropout.
But there are still differences between thinking and communication. After all, the circle of life and the contact environment are different, and the ways to deal with some things and problems are also very different, so there are also great differences.
This is just a story around you. Maybe your first place is as good as your last place, and everyone's living environment is different, but everyone will achieve everything they want as long as they work hard!
In that year's college entrance examination, I won the first place in my class and entered the medical university. Now I am a doctor in Beijing 3A Hospital. The job is relatively stable, but it is tiring, risky and low in income. My monthly mortgage and car loan account for more than half of my income. My two daughters are lovely. I don't want them to study medicine in the future.
At that time, he was the last in the class, and now he is the boss. He has two or three little wives and several children. He likes to organize class reunions when he is free. They are all good restaurants. He paid the bill, hugged me after drinking too much, said he envied me, said I was a talented person, served the people and had a high social status. Then my relatives and friends introduced me to see a doctor with all kinds of things.
Academic performance does not represent your future achievements.
I have a little boy, who has been my monitor from primary school to junior high school, and his academic performance is particularly good. High school is also a provincial key, and was admitted to 985 Engineering College. It can be said that learning gave him the green light.
As for me, when I was a child, I learned in general, and I was definitely not the last one, that is, the average level. High school didn't get into a good school, so it took money to go to a private school. Moreover, high school will repeat one year, and the college entrance examination is in Qingdao. Because of some reasons, I didn't want to go to school, so I contacted myself and transferred to a poor local college.
I study differently from him, and the similarity between us may be the poor family conditions.
Now because of the failure of postgraduate entrance examination, I have applied for civil servants. Now, we are already contacting the results of the admission notice. We all graduated from 17. He still has no job and loves games. Maybe I have been studying hard at school.
As for me, I have my own jewelry studio now. Although the university is not so good, the professional teachers are better and I am more motivated. I have been doing business for about four years since my freshman year, and now I am independent, which is also our school year.
I'm doing well now, and so is he. Maybe.
I just want to say that your academic performance can't determine your future path. You should work hard, be strong and make progress. You have fallen, and no one can help you.
It's almost ten years since graduation. Let's go back from college. I am the first in the university. After graduation, I worked in Shanghai. I have a house of 140 square meters, a loan of100000, a car of 400000, houses in Zhejiang and my hometown respectively, and no loan. The last one didn't graduate from college because he had been playing games. I opened a computer repair shop near my hometown two years ago, but it closed in less than a year, and I haven't heard from you since. It is said that I am single and unmarried, and I don't know anything else ~ ~
The first place in high school was studying law. After graduation, in a court in Shanghai, my social status and economic conditions are better than mine. The last one didn't go to college. After graduating from high school, he opened a food stall, clashed with drunken guests and killed each other. He was sentenced to many years and has not come out yet.
After reading the first doctor in junior high school, he entered the Chinese Academy of Sciences as a researcher. Although I got a Shanghai hukou, my economic conditions are average. Baoshan has a small house and hundreds of thousands of cars, which shows that he is poor in scientific research! The last junior high school student hangs out in his hometown. It is said that he takes drugs, but his family conditions are good, a bit like a rich second generation. Can also be regarded as a local tyrant, or a bastard.
The first place in primary school and the first place in junior high school are the same person. See above for details, haha; The last one in the primary school works part-time in the factory, without a house or a car, and life is very tight.
Although grades can't judge a person, they can evaluate a person's IQ, EQ and so on to some extent.
In other words, those who study well generally don't mix badly, and those who study badly generally don't mix well. Don't tell me, my classmate came last. How much is it? I'm talking about a common phenomenon.
All right, that's it. For the bright future of the motherland, study hard and make progress every day.
I have a deep understanding of this problem, so let's talk about primary schools! I come from Nayong, a poor county in Guizhou. I was studying in Nayong No.2 Primary School. At that time, the school only paid attention to Chinese mathematics, but my scores in two subjects fluctuated in the top five except Chinese, and mathematics basically remained the first. And my good friend, who is the last in the class, is not interested in reading. He only thinks about methods and plays tricks all day. After graduating from primary school, I went to junior high school with the first grade in my class, while he went to junior high school.
After entering junior high school, we often play together. He is not interested in reading either, but his parents force him to go to school, so he has no choice but to muddle along all day. I still keep good grades, so time is wasted in different ways. At the end of the second semester of our first grade, he came to me and said that he would go to Beijing to work with his relatives. I was surprised and accepted. After all, with his achievements and attitude, this day will come sooner or later, but I didn't expect it so soon. In the past few years after he left, we have been in contact through letters, which is nothing more than talking about him outside. He said that grinding marble outside, although very tired, also has some income, life is ok! And I will also share some meaningful things with him at school. Time flies, I graduated from high school unconsciously and was admitted to the only university in this province, 2 1 1. And he, or continue to grind the marble.
I still remember that after the college entrance examination, I wanted to go out to play and see the outside world. At that time, he also had his own mobile phone, and small counties also had public telephones. I told him that I wanted to visit relatives in Guiyang for a few days, and he said yes! I casually agreed to come to Beijing to play. After all, it's been years. At that time, cameras were not popular, and Internet cafes could only grab voice chats through chat rooms, so it was not easy to meet thousands of kilometers.
I stayed with my relatives in Guiyang for a few days and spent 27 1 yuan on the train going north to Beijing. In my impression, Beijing is not all high-rise buildings, but there will be no big prefabricated houses. Looking at his living and working environment, I can't say how uncomfortable it is. He always gets up at four o'clock. No matter what the weather is like, he grinds marble repeatedly, sometimes sleeps, and gets up to work overtime when he has goods. Seeing that he is not doing well, I am not in the mood to stay there for a long time.
That year, Beyond's three sons gave a concert in Beijing Workers Stadium. After the concert, I chatted with him all night. Later, he said what I said to him, and he always kept it in mind. Ten years have passed, and I forget what I said.
I started my college life soon after I came back from Beijing. He continued his work, and our contact was not so frequent until one day, we lost contact. He dropped his cell phone, and the previous number was useless, so I forgot mine. After graduating from college, I stayed in Guiyang for several years, and then I felt bored. I took an examination of civil servants in Nayong, paid a down payment for a suite and bought a scooter. Just live a simple life.
Until 15, he found my contact number on wechat through a friend. He said 10 years no see, and invited me to dinner. We met in Guiyang, and the day we met him, the whole person changed. First, he drove a Land Rover with a price of 1 10,000, holding the most expensive apple at that time, and then he ate in the most upscale place and drank the wine in remy martin.
In the process of chatting with him, he said that he has been very grateful to me for more than ten years. One day, it was because of what he said to him in Beijing, "Are you willing to work for others in this life?" Won't you think of letting others work for you? "Yes, I just said it when I was drunk. He kept it in mind, and he also did it, opening companies in Beijing and Guiyang.
This is the first and last place in that year, which is very realistic. And I don't think my life is bad, because everyone's life is different. Maybe some people think that being rich is happiness, but all I need is an ordinary life, a stable job, taking care of my parents and educating my children.
It has been seven years since I graduated from college. I think I still have a lot of feelings to answer this question.
I am the first in my class in primary school and junior high school. How are you getting along now? After graduating from college for seven years, I have a wife and children, a house and a car in a first-tier city, and my annual income is 40. I did a good job, but I have rich experience.
In addition to Qingbei, other schools can take the college entrance examination and choose a popular major of a prestigious school. After graduation, they crossed the wooden bridge and entered a large central enterprise. At that time, they were also in high spirits and became role models for most younger brothers and sisters, sharing various experiences and pointing out various mountains and rivers.
After joining the company, I found that the treatment and promotion channels of central enterprises were not as good as before, and I worked hard to work overtime every day. By the end of the year, I found that the year-end bonus was not as good as the monthly salary of ordinary students who entered other "ordinary companies", and I was greatly stimulated. Although I ranked in the top three for two consecutive years, I resolutely resigned and devoted myself to the financial industry.
These two years in the financial industry are the most moist days of work in these years. I found a girlfriend and my income tripled. I also took advantage of the 15 stock market bull market to make some money to pay the down payment of a house, and I still have a lot of savings in my hand. I felt very happy every day at that time.
Then I was fooled into starting a business by a billionaire boss. At first, I gave a good promise. In less than half a year, he began to do nothing, and I once became his messenger. I have been managing the company by myself from beginning to end. I just took the income when I just graduated, hoping to achieve financial freedom one day, and finally found myself too young. This is the crooked road I have taken, but I have also experienced different scenery. In retrospect, I benefited a lot and got a good exercise.
A year later, my boss went abroad for some reason, so I found a job again and joined a listed company. Two years passed quickly, and my working ability in these two years was also recognized by the company leaders, including the vice president and several vice presidents of the group. But I will leave my job soon, because the leader resigned and went to another listed company to be the regional president, and they dug me up together.
Maybe I'm still on my way, and the next stop won't be the last. Although I live so well, I am almost 30, but I believe that life will get better and better!
After talking about myself, let's talk about being the first in high school. In fact, the first place in high school is not fixed, and three or five people in the village take turns to sit. Two went to Peking University, one to Zhejiang University, one to Tongji University and one to Jiao Tong. Two students from Peking University, one of whom joined the work after graduation, entered a state-owned enterprise, and is currently the deputy secretary of the Communist Youth League Committee of the company, while the other one from Peking University just graduated with a doctorate .. I went to Zhejiang University and graduated with a doctorate from Australia, and now I am working in the United States with my wife. The other two, who also joined the work after graduation, are not very clear at present, but they are both married. I think I can't compare with them in academic performance, the gap is 10-20 points, but in society, one is choice and the other is ability. Like me, I made the wrong choice, so it was bumpy all the way. Some students who attended famous schools in high school could not find jobs after graduation.
The first place in the university is a girl, and girls are naturally different. It's good to have a husband and children.
There is also the last one in the class. Unfortunately, I can't remember who was the last one in primary school and junior high school, but most of them got married and had children. Then the husband and wife worked abroad, went home for the New Year, and then went out to work and went back and forth, but missed the growth of their children.
In fact, the so-called first place, like yue longmen, will have more opportunities and choices than others, but it doesn't mean that your development will be better than others. Often the first place will always be unwilling to try easily because of the high cost of transformation, and finally miss one opportunity after another. Those students with poor grades may become Ma Yun, because they are not afraid of losing, falling, falling, getting up again, continuing to jump, and flying carelessly. And the first place, always reluctant to leave the hotbed, and finally just live a comfortable life. Looking back at yourself, the first place did bring a lot of glory, but conceit also followed. This kind of conceit can easily make you lose yourself in the workplace and eventually lose to those who are far behind you in academic performance, even if your IQ is at least one grade higher than theirs.
The road ahead is still very long. As the first in the past, let go of yourself, bring confidence and continue on the road!
I graduated from primary school for more than ten years. I am 25 years old. I remember when I was in primary school, the first girl in our class was Pan Yan. She studies very well, has a strong ability to accept and understand, and is a real schoolmaster in our class. Moreover, she is the monitor of our class and has excellent organization and leadership skills. The teacher admired her and asked her to organize every class activity. We also listened to her instructions, but she was arrogant and sometimes contacted her. She looks down on you. Was our class an experimental class? Teachers are thieves, too, and they will be beaten if they don't finish their homework. She doesn't like to play with people who don't study well. Although she always takes the first place and is always praised, I don't envy her at all. I haven't seen her for more than ten years, and one day I accidentally heard about her from my primary school classmates. She is now studying for a master's degree in medicine at the Clinical Medical College of Zhejiang University. This platform is very good. It's great, too I hope she will be better in the future.
The last one in our class is a short boy named Liang. He loves to play and has a very cheerful personality. He was also punished by the teacher for never finishing his homework. Now I work in a factory in Tianjin, earning 4,000 to 5,000 yuan a month, and I am not married. However, he is very handsome. In fact, I don't think academic performance can decide anything. What really determines you is the platform and pattern. So you must work hard and hope that the future will be better!
How does your class 1 get along with the last 1?
I can't remember who 1 is in our class, and neither can I. I only remember that I was always the last one. Why do you always take the last 1? Because when I was in grade one, others helped me with my homework, because my family had fruit. When I gave Gan Guo to her, she helped me with my homework. When I was in the second grade, I didn't have any textbooks, because no teacher ordered them for us in advance. Later, the teacher went to other schools and copied the whole book on draft paper to teach us. After teaching for a year, I retired and hired another teacher. All the teachers speak Mandarin, so they can't hear clearly. In the second grade, the name of the exercise book was given to the teacher to help me write it. I can't write it myself. I watched it twice in the second grade. I am not interested, because I have read it twice. I think I can read it all. I often don't do my homework because I don't have a pen. At that time, I had no schoolbag. I just got home with a book in my hand. The pen is often put in the trouser pocket and dropped after playing for a circle. I dropped so much that I was embarrassed to ask my mother to buy it for me. Later, I had no choice but to write with a wooden stick as a pen. There is a grass with a pit in it. Pull out the refill inside, trim the sharp side, and write with ink, and you can use it as a pen for the time being. After that, I never dared to lose my pen again. Do you often copy other people's homework? Senior one, senior two and senior three are all in the same class. Because there are few people, it has just passed the third grade. When I was in grade four or five, I went to a distant place to study and studied for several years. Do your homework or copy others? Because I was used to it, I didn't pass the exam and couldn't go to junior high school. In this way, 14 years old went to work. It's in the hardware factory. Many big machines are noisy day and night. Eat two meals a day without breakfast. Dawn in the morning until evening 1 1:00, with a break for dinner. It's manual labor anyway. People do it after meals, and do it after meals. The reason why they are tired is that they have been sitting for too long. Every month, if they have a day off, the boss will give them 50 yuan pocket money. At the end of the year, I got a total salary of seven or eight hundred yuan, went home for the New Year, and looked for a job after the New Year. One year's salary is spent, so year after year, day after day, year after year, looking for a job, year after year,