What causes frigidity?

Sexual apathy refers to the lack of sexual desire, generally speaking, it means that there is no interest in sexual life, and sexual desire has also declined. Sexual apathy and lack of sexual pleasure are two different concepts, which may or may not appear at the same time. Therefore, frigidity can be divided into two types: lack of sexual attraction, frigidity syndrome and lack of sexual attraction and frigidity syndrome. Reasons for the decrease of male sexual desire: The decrease of male sexual desire refers to the obvious decrease or lack of sexual desire of married people for a long period of time. ※. The sexual desire requirements of normal people often vary greatly due to different physical strength and environment. Therefore, to judge whether sexual desire is declining, we should only make a vertical comparison with our previous sexual desire, rather than making a horizontal comparison with others' sexual desire. The factors that lead to the decline of sexual desire are: ○○ Emotional factors Sexual life should be carried out in a pleasant psychological state. If there are psychological barriers and many bad factors for a long time, it can lead to a decline in sexual desire. If you feel guilty about the past history of masturbation, or are pessimistic and disappointed with life, your career has been frustrated repeatedly, interpersonal tension, family changes, etc., leading to depression, grief and anger, which can lead to a decline in sexual desire. Secondly, if you are engaged in heavy work for a long time, especially mental work, it will also cause a decrease in sexual desire. ○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○○967 Others, such as endocrine diseases and various systemic chronic diseases, will also affect sexual desire because of too little androgen secretion or metabolic disorder. ○○ Drug factors Long-term use of certain drugs can also cause low sexual desire. Common sedative and hypnotic drugs, such as Anning, Libenin, Barbiturate and Hypnone; Antihistamine drugs diphenhydramine and chlorpheniramine; Atropine, propranolol, 654-2; Cimetformin, a medicine for treating gastric ulcer and duodenal ulcer; Antihypertensive drug reserpine, etc. Chronic alcoholism caused by long-term alcoholism, chronic nicotine poisoning caused by long-term heavy smoking, and drug addicts (marijuana leaves, opium, heroin, etc.). ) will also cause loss of sexual desire. Long-term loss of libido not only affects the feelings of husband and wife, but also often reflects the physical and mental condition, so we should pay enough attention to it, have a physical examination in time and solve the problem in time. With the increase of age, the sexual desire of married couples gradually decreases, which is an inevitable trend of physiological development and is generally not considered morbid. The reason of female frigidity is 1, and she has a history of sexual trauma (rape, incest, sexual harassment, etc.). ※. ) In the past, even in childhood. 2. Some body types in adolescence are abnormal, afraid of being known, and have an inferiority complex. 3. After the failure of love or marriage, they think that they have been cheated, and even form a revenge mentality for men. 4, worry about pregnancy, curettage, sexually transmitted diseases and other possible pain, so as to avoid sexual contact. 5. Sexual pain or discomfort makes them afraid. 6. The woman only regards sex life as her wife's obligation, not her physical and psychological needs like eating; If coupled with the lack of sexual knowledge, leading to lack of sexual skills, monotonous way, and even orgasm disorder, sex life will be no fun at all. I expect too much from my spouse. After marriage, I found that the real husband is far from the ideal spouse before marriage, but I don't want to face the reality and adapt to it. 8. The husband lacks sexual attraction or sexual dysfunction. 9. If the relationship between husband and wife is tense or bad, the wife will refuse sexual intercourse as a means of revenge or seduction. This is the stupidest means in the world, which leads to marital change, affair and husband's impotence and premature ejaculation, and the ultimate victim will be the revenger himself. 10, some acute and severe diseases, chronic diseases and the side effects of their therapeutic drugs will reduce sexual interest, or inhibit sexual desire for fear that sexual life may aggravate diseases and damage the body. 1 1, things that lead to apathy, such as high work pressure, fatigue, excessive drinking or ideological pressure. 12. After giving birth to a child, his posture changes. He thinks that he has lost his attraction to the opposite sex, or he will pay too much attention to his husband (some because the baby sucks nipples to satisfy his sexual desire), or because the tedious housework makes him lose his old passion for sex. 13. Some women feel unclean in their private parts and dare not defile their spouses. 14, due to the influence of traditional moral education since childhood, I think that "women can't actively ask for sexual relations, otherwise they will be lewd", "husband and wife should actively have sexual intercourse, and the woman should passively cooperate", "Sexual intercourse is shameless behavior" and so on, even if they have sexual desire, they dare not express it clearly, and long-term suppression of sexual desire may turn into sexual apathy. In fact, these views are all wrong. Since sexual desire is the same as appetite, it should be treated equally, that is, eat when you are hungry and eat how you want.