Our custom here is to visit relatives and friends during the Spring Festival. Seven aunts, uncles, grandmothers, grandfathers, uncles and aunts are going to visit, because there are six relatives in the countryside? There are many people who are affectionate and righteous, and the living standard of everyone in rural areas is similar. Few relatives are poor? Anyone who looks down on him and doesn't associate with him is alive, and the closest relatives are his blood relatives and brothers and sisters of relatives and friends. These are all his six relatives, and they always come and go on holidays, especially during the Chinese New Year. Relatives will bring their own specialties, visit relatives and friends, and keep in touch. When everyone is in trouble, this is the rural saying, every day is good, and a hundred flowers bloom. Over the years, relatives and relatives have helped and supported each other. Whether rich or poor, on holidays or special days, when they are free, they will get together, drink two glasses of wine and talk about what happened this year. If they meet something they can help, they will help each other. This is the true character of many rural people.
Poor people, broken relatives? The meaning of this sentence is to tell us that when people are poor, try not to associate with their contradictory relatives, because in life, there are always some people who have contradictions with themselves. If you have poor conditions, it is also true that those relatives who have contradictions with you are walking around. Look at other people's faces. We know this kind of person very well and do our duty. Don't associate with them if they go too far.
Birds of a feather flock together? We can associate with relatives who are willing to associate with us, and those who are not friendly to us can be filtered, and if we can't leave, we won't leave.
Some people, knowing that you are poor, down and out, and afraid of bad luck, will stay away from you, and it is almost impossible to ask them for help when encountering difficulties. These relatives are incompetent, so why bother them?
You have to be poor once in life to see the people around you clearly. The wind and water turn, everyone has bad luck, 30 years in Hedong, 30 years in Hexi? When you are poor, you should actively face life, try to change yourself, try to change your economic income and change the living conditions of your family. The most important thing is to get economic income first. With good material conditions, we have money, we can buy whatever we want and make friends with whoever we want, and naturally there will be more relatives and friends.
As the saying goes: the poor have no questions in the street, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains? . Poor people, sick relatives, avoid you.
Poor and sick relatives are avoiding you because they are afraid that you will borrow money from him. Rich relatives come to you in case you ask him for money. Their screenwriters, directors and performances have not found any funds this year. It's always a mess, a bunch of excuses for refusing.
Sick in the street, no one asked.
Poor people, broken relatives? It's true. When you are in rags, those relatives who are a little richer than you. He won't look you in the eye and will lose face by hitting on you. Even if you talk to him and ignore him, some simply pretend not to hear. I even wrestled with my feet, but pretended to be helping you, so I accidentally said, "When are you down and out?" Heart.
Sick in the street, no one asked? Fell down in the street. Relatives saw it. Why are you so timid? Go to the hospital when you are sick. Don't pretend if you are not sick.
I'll give you 32 dollars to send you away
Look at your poverty, heartache and fatigue. It's a thick layer of dust in my wine. I'll give you 32 cents to walk you away.
When you are poor, visit your relatives less or not, and wait until you are rich.
No one looks down on poor relatives. In other words, you are so poor that you don't even recognize your relatives!
What impressed me the most was Quan Hongchan, the diving champion of this year's Tokyo Olympic Games! I was deeply moved by what her mother accidentally said to the media.
Quan Hongchan grew up in the countryside and her mother was still ill, so she was not rich since she was a child. After she won the Olympic gold medal, the whole village was boiling. Even Quan Hongchan's mother said that she had been married for so many years and never knew there were so many relatives at home. How ironic this sentence is!
In fact, this situation is very common in real life.
Take my home as an example. When my brother and I were very young, our family conditions were not good, and our relatives didn't often move. Even the neighbors look down on you. At that time, the village used harvesters to cut wheat, and they lined up to cut it. Every time my family is the last one, even watering the land, so is my family at night.
Now I am the first in our village to be admitted to the university, and my brother has grown up. My family moved out of the original village and lived in the provincial capital city. Every time we go back to the village, the old people in the village will drag us to chat and have a look, and our relatives will move around frequently. How realistic!
This is that the poor live in a bustling city and no one cares, while the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.