In life, there are also many people who study hard, work overtime, study hard, don't play games, don't chase dramas, don't go shopping, don't often watch movies, and are not crazy. They just study hard in the study room and laugh at others' efforts to waste their time, but the results are always unsatisfactory, sometimes worse than those crazy people, so they complain about the injustice of God and think that "God has a great responsibility to others."
It was not until I read a sentence in the newspaper some time ago that I decided to write something about "hard work and reward". Remember that sentence, "Fate never owes you hard work, and she will always make it up to you in another way. As long as you keep working so hard, one day, the life you want will come. " After reading it, I was thinking about not saying too many such comforting words to myself. The positive role it can play is always just a comfort in my heart. There is no reason to say that hard work will definitely pay off. Only by creating value efficiently can we get rewards.
Another possibility is that your efforts are not enough, because the efforts of many people in this world are beyond your imagination, and the most terrible thing is that they are geniuses. Just like stanley kubrick, the director of the landmark film 200 1 A Space Odyssey, once he is interested in a certain topic, he will become an expert in the shortest time, and he can gobble up science books and several library books.
When I was in college, I had a friend who took the postgraduate entrance examination with me. I didn't see any unusual talent, and got a perfect score of 150 in the postgraduate entrance examination. You know, I only got more than 90 points in the exam. The key feeling is that I have not read less than him. I go to the study room almost every day and don't go back to the dormitory until late at night. At that time, I thought this kid wouldn't secretly eat the magic pill. Later, I learned that in the same period, most of us only made one or two reference books on advanced mathematics in Li Yongle, and others finished all the reference books, so we were so vigorous in taking the postgraduate entrance examination for mathematics.
When I felt unfair to pay for the postgraduate entrance examination, I saw that "hard work and persistence are really not capital, because that is what it should be!" I was shocked by this sentence. I used to like to talk about my efforts. I often think about how hard I work and how hard it is. I am always obsessed with "hard work" itself, just like studying in the study room at night. In fact, I had no idea at 10. I just looked at the review materials in a daze, but I didn't feel at ease until 12, and went back to the dormitory to sleep. In fact, there was not a drop of water in the last two hours of study. What I tried to do was to find "I am very"
Therefore, we should reflect on whether failure is due to our own reasons, whether our learning methods are too comfortable, climbing mountains or making progress is laborious, and only when we feel laborious is the time to make progress; Still not focused enough, procrastinating, dragging the things to be solved to the end, or just sitting in front of the computer in a daze like many people go to work until the leader accepts, shakes his mind, works non-stop, without careful preparation and planning, and things are in a mess.
To try to optimize the efforts, the website pages are optimized, let alone the efforts. If you don't adjust and handle the way you study hard, the result will only get lower and lower. You can't do what others have done for an hour or two in a day, and the result hasn't come out yet, but your body has made a contribution. You are exhausted and stay up late to work overtime. It took a lot of effort to do it. Looking back at your own efforts, I can't simply touch myself to death. Originally, I worked so hard! (I depend, you don't call it hard, you are a waste of life! ) The key is to move yourself thinly, which I call self-mutilation movement.
The following are some efficient ways to learn from others and summarize by yourself. )
First, learn to think positively and strengthen the depth and breadth of your own thinking. This is more important, otherwise it will always be imitation and will never be internalized into its own things.
Second, learn time management, which is not as detailed as asking you to allocate embroidery time. Every minute is meticulous. First, there is no need. Second, such a plan is difficult to complete. For example, after listening to a celebrity's report or drinking a bowl of chicken blood soup, many students immediately became excited. When they go back, they list a few pages of plans, usually three minutes. When they woke up, the plan was soaked with saliva in their sleep, and it was still the original bear. (It is important not to forget to leave some rest time in time management, which is related to whether the plan can be carried out smoothly. You know, people are not machines, they need to recuperate. )
Third, don't expect too much every day, but have minimum requirements. Others have hundreds of books in Harle, so you have to make grand plans day by day. Don't make such unrealistic demands at the beginning, it is easy to take detours, the plan can't be completed again and again, and it is rarely destroyed. In the end, they will only be in vain. However, there must be minimum requirements. For example, if you can't handle these knowledge points today, you won't rest. I can't sleep without reading dozens of pages today. You must get into the habit of meeting the requirements in the fastest time, so that you can become efficient.
Fourth, learn to focus on doing a small thing efficiently, not that people have left and right brains, but that their thinking is clear and coordinated, unless they can do things wholeheartedly on special days. If you are an ordinary dog, do one thing honestly first. Please turn off your mobile phone, tablet and computer when studying, or at least give up what you love with WiFi. And if you are not reading casual books, but need knowledge of deep logical reasoning, please unplug your headphones. After all, you can't die without listening for a while.
Fifth, we should learn to filter what we already know, and quickly find out what we don't know and what we don't understand. Don't start from the first page every time we read a book, or start from the first word in every chapter (I mean the review process). Only by picking out what we don't know can we save time and effort, just like memorizing words from the beginning without taking a vocabulary book. Moreover, every time we only recite the first few pages, and everyone knows that the first word in an English vocabulary book is usually.
Sixth, learn to sum up. Summary is a carding process, a systematic classification of scattered knowledge points, and an important way to find missing items, providing a clear bull's-eye for the following accurate review.
Seven, take the initiative to communicate with experts, learn from cattle X, so as not to go astray. Many detours they take can also be used as reference warning signs to remind them not to deviate from the direction, and they can also climb up on their shoulders. If their experience and methods are effective and direct, it is understandable to spend some money to obtain them.
I write so much because I am afraid that those who work hard will be discouraged, but those who can't bear to be confused will live in pain as I used to, so I hope they can find the right direction accurately, strive for efficient progress and become experts in this field forever.