Marriage between Horse and Chicken is doomed to divorce Zhong Zhihu
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Chachaji said:
Marriage topic
Recently, there have been several divorced friends around me. , I usually go out to play, and although there are some conflicts in their relationship, it doesn’t feel like it’s going to be divorced. Moreover, both of them have graduated from college, have stable jobs, income, and children. There’s nothing they can’t handle. The obstacles have to lead to divorce. Of course, in this day and age, divorce is not a big deal, as long as it doesn't happen to you.
When a few good friends get together to eat and chat, marriage will naturally become the topic of the meal.
Divorce Story
A works within the system, is a Sagittarius, has average looks, is outgoing, and has a son who has just entered elementary school. A did not shy away from the reasons for the divorce at all. Her husband is from the north, tall and handsome, with a masculine personality. When in love, A feels pretty good, feels safe, can create romance, is in good health, is satisfied with himself, and is satisfied with his parents. But I didn’t expect that after getting married, many small problems would arise. He is a big man. He doesn’t like bathing very much. He is lazy and never cleans up at home. He throws his socks and pants away when they are dirty. He gets very irritable when he loses his temper. He throws things when he disagrees. , and even once slapped A in front of the children because of a quarrel. It was also because of this slap that A's heart was completely beaten to death.
A attributes the end of his marriage to his personality. Love is something that you pursue when you are young. When you get older, it still depends on your personality when you get married. The eyebrows that you draw will last a lifetime. Your personality cannot be changed. You really want to make yourself look like your old one. It is too tiring and unnecessary to go through the same grinding, clashing, and tit-for-tat battles as the previous generations. Break up as soon as you are young. You have a car, a house, and a job. It is better to live freely and comfortably than to feel aggrieved and suffocated at home every day.
Of course, we think the most important thing is that A has a good personality, takes good care of herself, and has good looks. Even with children, there is still no shortage of suitors around her. Now she posts beautiful photos of herself and her children playing around in her space every day. Compared with the yellow-faced woman who did laundry and cooking at home every day when she got married, she feels like she has a new life.
B is a friend of a friend of mine, and I have heard about her. When B was young, her family found a partner for her, a man from a wealthy business family. The man was older than him, and he was very kind to her, doting on her like a child. But B was young at that time and had no feelings for his uncle at all. After two years of marriage and one year of separation, and no children, B desperately wanted a divorce, and finally got divorced. Then she found this one, a little girl three years younger than her. Xiao Xianrou chased after her closely, buying whatever she wanted and accompanying her to do whatever she wanted. After chasing her for more than a year, the two got married. After marriage, B gave birth to a son, and the man became more motivated to do things. I heard that he was engaged in foreign trade. He worked outside all year round, doing business one after another, and making a lot of money. House B moved several times, and finally lived in a villa. He drove a luxury car worth more than 1 million yuan. He didn't need her to do anything every day, so he raised her as a young mistress.
After five years of marriage, the child is four years old and has gone to kindergarten. B’s husband has also become the vice president of the company, spending more time traveling and less time at home. Although her material conditions are good, B is always alone and lonely, so she goes out to parties whenever she has nothing to do. Everyone envies her, saying that she is so talkative that she doesn’t have to worry about material things, has free time, and doesn’t need to have children. No matter what, what else is there to be dissatisfied about? B just works out every day, travels, goes out to play, and goes wherever the excitement is. Until I saw something I shouldn’t have seen on my husband’s cell phone. B got divorced, and there was no quarrel or fuss. He moved out alone after not seeing each other for half a month.
For B, the end of marriage may be more of a man’s problem, but sometimes when we chat, we feel that in many cases, men cannot be entirely blamed. A family needs two people to support each other. When two people are at home, you are busy with yours and I am busy with mine. When we don’t need each other and can’t find a sense of existence, in fact, this marriage is in vain. Especially when B's husband is often away on business trips, and if there is no bond to connect them during the days when they spend less time together and more time away from each other, separation will only happen sooner or later.
Marriage, love and sexual relationships
So, sometimes I also think about love, it is an illusory thing, we always love the same kind of people , not a person, we choose marriage because we love this person in this category, but when time goes by and our appearance becomes old, and we meet another person in this category, we will naturally Find new love.
As for the body, it is still there when you are young. When you reach middle age, this thing is relegated to the back. It is not a must-have, but just a bonus.
So, what is the cornerstone to make a marriage more long-term and stable? My friend and I discussed it for a long time, and I think it should be that we have similar interests and hobbies, and the two of us have been together for a long time. Love has faded, and it is more of a family relationship that is relative day and night. To maintain this relationship, it is difficult to stabilize it by relying solely on sex, money, and moral constraints. It is better to turn the relationship between husband and wife into friends and into friends. Partner, become a partner, maybe this can make a boring marriage more interesting.
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