The master replied, why can't father and son live in peace? Why?

Personality problems, purchase problems exist and are very extensive, but not all. It's their own personality. It would be nice if dad's personality is consistent with yours. On the contrary, there are often differences. In addition to personality, another important factor is the difference in life experience. The difference between your outlook on the world and life will lead to different views on something and problems. Some fathers have a deep understanding of family education and can make correct education, so the father and son will be very harmonious, otherwise they will not be able to talk together. These questions are simple, but they are actually profound. If we simplify this profound problem, it is the problem solved by the Book of Changes.

I can explain it to you: the relationship between two people is like being friends. We are friends if we get along, but we are not friends if we don't get along. What matters is whether the personality is consistent (but not the same). People with the same personality are not necessarily the same, and people with the same personality are not necessarily without the same personality. If you are not related by blood, it doesn't matter if you can't be friends, but he is your father and you have to accept it. This is inevitable. You need to make friends with him forcibly to solve the problem and make him understand and accept your opinion.

In fact, if there is a generation gap, it is also a blessing, because you will meet all kinds of people when you enter social work and life in the future, and usually there will be people you inevitably need to cooperate with. Solve the generation gap problem, and it will be smooth sailing in the future! You'll get used to it, and you can solve it smoothly in communication and cooperation with others. On the contrary, if we can't solve it well, we will encounter similar problems in the future, so we must face them, solve them, not avoid them. It takes a long time for many people to understand that their father has solved the generation gap problem. It is precisely because he didn't learn to solve the problem and then experienced more problems that he knew the solution. This process is difficult, but it still needs to be solved. The world will not change because of you, and the earth will not stop turning because of you. All you have to do is get to know him and find a way to solve the problem.

In addition, I mentioned the Book of Changes. The difference between two people is caused by different views. People with the same personality will understand each other very well and find a solution soon. People with different personalities will never cooperate with each other to understand each other, so it is difficult to find a solution. How do you know if two people are suitable? This is a problem that I ching can solve. The Book of Changes is the crystallization of the wisdom of the ancient working people in China. It is the result of China's analysis and abstraction of various problems in social life according to induction in ancient times. It's easy to see everyone's personality characteristics and who they conform to, just like the formula axiom that westerners say, except that the Book of Changes is all-encompassing, and the formula axiom is only generated for a certain problem. And because it is all-encompassing, it is profound and difficult to understand.

There are similar things in the west, but the content can't be compared with what already exists. From the perspective of personality analysis, such as constellations, everyone's personality is actually good. This is generally analyzed, but it is rough and easy to understand. You can understand it, but the deeper analysis of the constellation is also very profound.