Where there are people, there will be contradictions, and the most insurmountable thing in interpersonal relationship is blood relationship, which is more or less inevitable. Brothers have to settle accounts, and brothers and sisters have to settle accounts. Some brothers and sisters have a good relationship, but why do some close relatives and brothers and sisters have a bad relationship, have contradictions, and finally don't even contact?
The two brothers and sisters are unhappy for the following reasons:
1. Parents' preference leads to psychological imbalance. Families with many children will realize that parents love other children more than another child in the family, but it is not. They are generally the youngest children in the family and have been hurt and prejudiced by their mothers. So sometimes the mind is out of balance. Once this idea is born, it will never go out, and it will become stronger and stronger with time. Their relationship will get weaker and weaker.
2. Economic gap, jealousy. When they grow up, they have experienced completely different things, some have a good life and some have a bad life. When we meet again, it is inevitable that there will be a comparison mentality. Unhappy people will be jealous, kind people will want to help, but the other person will think that she looks down on herself. This will only make your relationship worse and worse until it becomes irreparable. As the saying goes, "brother and sister are both hurting their bones." In the face of brother and sister quarreling, you can calm down and think carefully about why they quarrel.
The following small series will teach you how to resolve contradictions, make peace and make up.
1. If you find the reason, you can apologize to the other party. There is no hatred for blood relatives overnight. If you apologize, maybe the other person will forgive you.
We can take a step back to deal with the quarrel. Take a step back, broaden your horizons, let both sides take a step back and resolve embarrassing contradictions.
The closest people in the world are only blood-related parents, brothers and sisters. Think about it, nothing can't be let go. If you really can't let go, just turn a blind eye.
Sometimes you don't need too many reasons, or you can understand what the other person wants at a glance. You can communicate with your sister face to face and express your thoughts. Use practical actions to ease the contradiction between you, respect your sister, understand tolerance, and believe that your relationship will be more harmonious.