During the college entrance examination, some parents hang zongzi on the door, which means "high school gold list"; Some parents buy sunflowers, which means "winning the championship in one fell swoop"; Some parents release carp, which means "carp yue longmen"; Some parents burn incense and worship Buddha.
Hanging zongzi at home means "high school gold medal list", which is a good wish and blessing; Burning incense and praying for blessings is an ancient tradition and an expression of parents' good wishes. However, these practices of parents may bring pressure to candidates and increase their psychological burden.
Parents believe that the college entrance examination is lifelong and plays a decisive role in children's later life; Parents think that if their children don't take the college entrance examination, there will be no good way out and no way to find a good job. They think they can only turn over by the college entrance examination. Secondly, ethnic and social factors.
For example, at present, the pressure of employment in China is too great, and some good enterprises only need students who have graduated from prestigious schools. Only students who have scored high in the college entrance examination can go to such good universities as "985" and "2 1 1" and get high-quality educational resources, which leads parents to expect their children to get good grades in the college entrance examination.
Mitigation methods:
1. Parents should pay attention to their own behavior and try not to cause psychological burden to their children. Parents should understand that their children are not just going to college.
2. The state and society should increase employment support and increase jobs. For example, encourage college students to start their own businesses and give policy support and financial help. Through publicity and education, the public will be more recognized by technical schools and the welfare of technicians will be improved. In short, all roads lead to Rome, and it doesn't have to be black.