After breaking up, many people can find the next one before they are sad, and feel that the best way to forget the old love is to find a new one. When they took up their present positions, they had already forgotten their predecessors. So do you know the psychology of this kind of person who talks about seamless love?
First, people who may break up seamlessly don't want to live in the pain of the past because they can't accept breaking up. They don't forget their predecessors at all. They just look for someone because they broke up, not just meet someone they like naturally. Second, maybe before you break up, he (she) has planned to break up and then directly connect with the next one seamlessly.
Generally speaking, after you break up, you know that your ex is seamlessly connected and you soon find another object, so you can't swallow this tone and your heart is full of different meanings.
But why can't you understand?
It is obvious that you have broken up. Whatever he is, it's none of your business. Why are you so depressed?
So I flipped through other answers, and there are probably the following statements:
First, there is no cooling-off period. It is disrespectful to connect directly and seamlessly, and there is no awe of the love he once had, and he even doubts whether he loved himself.
Second, how is it possible to connect seamlessly so quickly? I must have hooked up with that guy. So, I'm not green by him?
Third, if the other person can connect seamlessly, it is very likely that he will not be loyal to me when he is with me. Love is a process of mutual giving, but judging from the current situation, my previous giving seems to have reached Shui Piao, and I can't get back the sunk cost. Moreover, compared with his contribution to me, it is also seriously unbalanced. I lost a lot!
4. What if he is not only green, but actually Neptune, and there are many fish as spare tires, so he can connect seamlessly so quickly, and then think deeply ... Maybe I am just one of his fish?
How do you think he can forget this relationship so quickly and find the next one so quickly? He was really kind and devoted to me before, but only later ... So love really disappeared, just transferred from the last person to the next.
After breaking up, you feel that you can't stand the seamless connection between him and her, and even think that he or she won't do such a thing, but the fact is the fact. You're sad, you're sad, and you think you can't get out. You live in a painful night every day. Tik Tok painted in the middle of the night is full of sad copywriting. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I often suffer from insomnia, I don't know how much I collapsed in the middle of the night, and I woke up early in the morning. If it is serious, it will even cause illness for a long time. The most terrible thing about seamless connection is that the person you love tells you in such an extreme way that you are the worst person in the world. Seamless connection can really ruin all one's yearning and expectation for beauty. The whole person is dead rather than dead.
First of all, I think if you just broke up and found another girlfriend or boyfriend the next day, it is disrespectful to your last girlfriend or boyfriend. I feel that if you do this, you don't particularly cherish this relationship. I think you are just like that love rat love rat. Your last relationship was just a joke, and you never really gave it.
Furthermore, if you feel particularly sad because your last relationship was badly hurt, and then you can't walk, you want to forget your old love with a new one. I think this is particularly unfair to your current boyfriend or girlfriend, and I think you are particularly selfish, completely ignoring other people's feelings and just trying to get out of your grief as soon as possible.
Falling in love is actually a particularly simple thing, but to some extent, it is a particularly difficult thing.
So when you know that the other person has found the next one, don't pester him to save him. Rational reflection after breaking up is used to face the reality, accept the fact of breaking up and adjust yourself well. Don't stay alone, talk to friends, learn to divert attention, make your time more abundant, be lovelorn, don't lose yourself, and make yourself better and better.
You should believe that perfect love will not have a good result. The so-called feng shui turns, and the pain on your body will be borne by her one day. Breaking up a seamless relationship will only make you worse and worse. Leaving an empty window after breaking up is a respect for your relationship, a responsibility for yourself, and a responsibility for the person who will be together in the future.
The most important thing to get out of a relationship is "time". You need to fully experience disappointment, experience inner pain, and digest this sadness a little bit before you can grow up in your feelings.
In fact, people may easily meet people who are kind to you in this life. But it's hard to meet someone who is as good as ever to you. Good feelings will not touch you at once, but will spoil you with a steady stream of water.