From: Dong Yilin's blog
"Be close to the gentleman and stay away from the villain", this is the most euphemistic way for people in ancient times to deal with villains. However, it is no longer suitable for today's economy. In today's rapidly developing society, work in today's society pays attention to process and teamwork spirit. Villains are a part of our work that we must get along with. The approach of "If you can't afford to offend, why not hide away?" is no longer appropriate. Therefore, it is better to stay away from villains than to guard against villains. 1. What is a villain?
Villain is the antonym of the Chinese Confucian definition of a gentleman. Anyone who affects his or her life, work, study or even the normal operation of his or her family, or causes harm or hindrance to his or her future and fortune, is collectively called a villain. Villains are widely distributed and often use bad means to achieve their goals. They generally have the following obvious characteristics: In order to achieve their own goals and interests, they make trouble out of nothing and spread rumors to cause trouble. Let you bear the "unfounded" charge. They help you on the surface, but cheat you secretly. They know what you need openly and openly, pretending to be a good person, but actually secretly remove favorable obstacles for themselves. He likes to sow discord among colleagues and create disagreements, making people who are heroic at heart become "guinea pigs" in the workplace for no apparent reason. Flattery, flattering whoever is more powerful, greatly satisfies the vanity of the person being photographed, and takes advantage of this to be favored and speak ill of others behind their backs, and climb up the ladder by stepping on other people's heads. 2. Use Feng Shui layout to prevent villains. Try not to place phones or sundries on the right side of the desk. If you encounter villains, you can place a pot of cactus in the white tiger position on the right. However, it should be noted that once the villain is removed, the cactus must be cleaned up in time, otherwise it will harm others and not yourself. Whether in the office or at home, don’t place too many dolls or accessories, as this can easily attract the gossips of villains. Female friends should not place a mirror facing themselves on their desk. Take it out when in use and put it in a drawer when not in use. This will make it less likely to attract villains. The easiest way to increase your own aura and make your boss and superiors trust you more is to place a round stone behind your office chair. If it is really inconvenient, you can put a piece of "brown" clothing on the back of the chair. Can.