It can be said that building a house in the countryside is true, which is of great significance to everyone.
Looking at your own house, a little foundation is built, such a process.
It's really troublesome and laborious, and more importantly, it costs money.
For farmers, the house is not only a symbol of home, but also the luck of a family.
Since ancient times, people in China have attached great importance to the construction of houses.
Whether it is choosing a house style, building a house, or even demolishing a house, there are many stresses.
Take tearing down houses and building houses as examples. There is a saying: "you tear down the house and tell the neighbors;" Build a house and hire one person. "
1. What does it mean to "tell the neighbors about the demolition and ask one person to build a house"?
No matter what age, people are very picky about the house they live in.
Especially in rural areas, it inherited some stresses of the ancients.
And what does it mean to "tear down a house to engage neighbors and build a house to invite artists"?
Literally speaking, we must do some preparatory work when demolition and building.
The accusation in "Demolition against Neighbors" does not mean complaining.
Specifically, it is to tell the neighbors. Why tell the neighbors?
Because since ancient times, demolition of houses has been considered by many neighbors as a very unlucky and unlucky thing.
If you don't tell your neighbors during the demolition process, they will think that you don't respect yourself enough.
In the end, there will be a gap between the two families, and even harmony will be hurt because of this.
In the eyes of most people, the old house is dilapidated, full of filth and evil spirits, and the atmosphere is not good.
These evils will be released in the process of demolition, so many people think it is unlucky.
Therefore, when you demolish the house, you must inform the people around you in time.
In this way, neighbors can hang red cloth in the yard to drive away evil spirits and avoid disasters, and they can also tear down the house with peace of mind.
In addition, as neighbors, another purpose is to make them pay attention to safety and avoid interference.
Many rural children are willing to run around. In the process of house demolition, if you don't inform in advance, you are likely to be hurt unnecessarily.
And notify in advance, so that everyone can prepare in time.
For example, changing electricity and water may need to trouble neighbors, and telling them as much as possible can save a lot of trouble.
The important figure of "building a house by one person" actually refers to Mr. Feng Shui.
Why are they the most important? It is because building a house in the countryside is very important and pays attention to geomantic omen.
Not only should we pay attention to the size and orientation of the house.
Even the site selection will ask Mr. Feng Shui to have a look and finalize it, which makes many villagers believe that building a house is also a crucial step.
With the help of Mr. Feng Shui, the villagers will feel as if they had a reassurance.
This will also make you feel at ease when building a house.
Moreover, seeing Feng Shui is also a custom from ancient times to the present, which has been handed down all the time and also reflects the wisdom of the older generation.
Second, the wisdom of the older generation teaches us how to be a man.
Although it is a proverb handed down from ancient times to the present, it is the wisdom of the older generation.
Showed us the way to get along with people. Although this sentence is simple, it contains great wisdom.
1, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors.
Maintaining good interpersonal relationships is very beneficial to yourself and others. There is a proverb in China that "a distant relative is better than a close neighbor".
There are some things at home, and neighbors will come out to help at the first time.
In this way, even if relatives are far away, with the help of neighbors, feelings are better than relatives.
2, do things to consider the feelings of others.
Therefore, it is your own business to demolish the house, which has nothing to do with others, but through this sentence, we can clearly know that we should consider the feelings of others before doing anything.
Living in this society, you cannot be too selfish. Only by paying attention to people in life can we make our road wider and wider.
3. Look at Feng Shui rationally
As for the problem of seeing Feng Shui, we should also treat it rationally.
This is a kind of psychological comfort for many people. Although there is no scientific basis, there is no need to be too entangled.
Building a house and choosing a site are your own business. Believe it or not, you can choose for yourself.
So you don't have to always look at Mr. Feng Shui critically. In fact, it is also a kind of inheritance.
Summary:
Demolition and building a house are important events in the family. Simple proverbs seem simple, but they contain a lot of wisdom of the older generation and are also a kind of folk culture inheritance.
More often, it also shows people's longing for a better life and teaches people how to get along well with their neighbors.
Only by doing a better job of demolition and following some common sayings can we inherit the truth left by our ancestors.