Gifts are not given easily. In our life, many places need gifts, such as birthdays of good friends, holidays, weddings, funerals and so on. But gifts are not easy to give. Let's take a look at the taboos of giving gifts with me!
Gifts are not given easily. 1 first, you can't send a sword.
Some friends are particularly open-minded. I like to give others a "Peach Blossom Sword" to let others cut off the rotten peach blossoms and think it is happiness. Instead, he robbed a lot of his own peach blossoms; Some friends bought a set of kitchen knives and forks for others when they saw happy events such as relatives and friends moving or getting married. Strangely, their wealth has plummeted since then. Be careful when sending swords. Besides, you should be careful when someone gives you a sword. You can use crystal ornaments instead. For example, send a pink crystal pendant to a friend or another lover. Beautiful and generous without touching the taboo of geomantic omen, it really dispels the evil spirits of peach blossom and promotes the relationship between the two and the happiness of the family. I believe that the other party is willing to accept it!
Second, you can't send fish tanks.
Some friends will think that since they have a fish tank, their luck is bad. Please ask Mr. Feng Shui to see how the house is feng shui. I don't know, the fish tank is similar to the "God of Wealth" and can't be given and accepted at will. What's more, some people are numerologically taboo about raising fish. Putting a fish tank should be suitable for you first, and then it is related to the shape, laughter, position, height, quantity, type, quantity and color of the fish tank.
Third, you can't send clocks.
Presumably, many people know that pension is over. Some people say that you can't send a clock because the clock is the last homonym. Sending a clock to a person is tantamount to expecting a person to die. This is an unlucky hint. Especially the round clock hanging on the wall. Even if it's expensive, you can't send it indiscriminately. It will be considered hostile.
Fourth, you can't send shoes.
Nowadays, many people want to send something practical to express their concern or heart for each other. Feng shui is often overlooked. Shoes are the homonym of evil. Therefore, giving away shoes (excluding those for relatives) is tantamount to giving away evil spirits, and it is very likely that we will soon lose contact or friendship with each other.
Five, can't send an umbrella
It seems a good choice to give a friend, especially a female friend, a sunshade in the hot summer. However, the umbrella has the meaning of scattering. Therefore, umbrellas can't be given as gifts (except when it rains). If a good friend gives an umbrella as a gift, it means that we will break up or separate in the future.
Six, can't give away stones and antiques of unknown origin.
People often regard what they see and get by chance as good things. I want to give it to someone I care about on a special day. Like stones and antiques. In fact, they can easily attract evil spirits to attach to them. Some of them look like ornamental stones and valuable antiques, but they may have evil spirits, so it is unlucky to give them as gifts.
Generally, gifts must be given to people and things according to each other's hobbies and needs. Of course, it is better to choose an unexpected mascot. Because it is better to add luck to each other than anything else. Common lady transshipment includes: brave ring, fox spirit pendant, crystal bracelet, Buddha, etc. Common mascots for men: brave handle, waist hanging, bracelet, Buddha, etc.
Gifts are not given easily. 1. Know the meaning of flowers when sending them.
What flower represents what flower language, you must know its meaning, so that you won't make mistakes. Or express the wrong meaning. For example, although roses represent love, flowers of different colors represent different flower languages. Lotus stands for faith, lily stands for success, blessing, etc.
Second, the handkerchief said goodbye forever.
Some people think that a beautiful and exquisite handkerchief can set off personal taste, so it should be nice to give it to a close lover! No, don't throw handkerchiefs! There is a saying in the handkerchief: "Give a towel, cut off the root", which means to give someone a handkerchief to say goodbye.
Third, it is hard to meet the fans from now on.
The homonym of a fan is the same as "parting". Giving someone a fan means that it is difficult to meet each other from now on. If you really want to send a fan, the other party must give back a copper coin, which symbolizes that the fan has been bought and also represents reunion.
Fourth, don't give an umbrella as a gift.
It's romantic to open an umbrella with your lover, but it's unlucky to send an umbrella. Umbrella is homophonic with "giving away" in Taiwanese, meaning farewell. Therefore, when it rains, even an umbrella for your lover should be said to be borrowed, not given!
Fifth, there are many ways to send knives and scissors for revenge.
Give the knife to each other, it smells like revenge! However, there are also valuable and appreciative collections of knives and scissors on the market now, unless they are given as gifts purely for decorative purposes.
Sixth, it is unlucky to send a "clock".
Sending a ringtone "to the end" sounds uncomfortable. Although some manufacturers have come up with the phrase "Bell (End) loves life", it is better to send less.
Seven, give shoes to walk.
Send shoes and invite people to leave. If it is for lovers, it means that this relationship is not long, or that this relationship will come to an end. This is not a good idea. If you really want to accept shoes as gifts, you must return each other a copper coin.
Eight, pears should not be eaten half.
Don't cut the pear in half and share it with your lover when sending it to each other, because cutting the pear in half means "separation" (splitting the pear), but no one can eat the pear in half and the feelings will not disappear! So when you invite your lover to eat pears, be generous and eat a whole one!
Nine, no wind chimes.
Wind chimes say "blow", which means it's not good.
Ten, the gift is appropriate.
Generally speaking, the gift is too light and meaningless, and it is easy to be misunderstood as looking down on him, especially for people who are not close. And if the gift is too light, it is more difficult to ask others to do something, and the chance of success is almost zero. But if the gift is too expensive, it will make the recipient suspected of accepting bribes, especially for superiors and colleagues. Except for some people who love to take advantage and are courageous, ordinary people are likely to decline politely, or even if they accept it, they will pay it, or they will find ways to repay it later. Isn't this forcing people to spend? If the other party refuses, your money has already been spent, and it's useless to keep it, which will cause a lot of trouble. As most people often say, "spend money to find guilt", why bother? Therefore, the choice of gift weight is based on the premise that the other party can accept it happily, and strive to do more with less money; Spend more money on good deeds.
Eleven, the gift interval is appropriate.
The time interval of giving gifts is also very particular, and it should not be too frequent or too long. The giver may be well-off or eager for success, so he often delivers big bags to his door. Some people think that such generosity will definitely win the favor of others, but when you think about it, it is not. Because your frequency of giving gifts is too purposeful. In addition, reciprocity, people must return your favor. Generally speaking, it is appropriate to choose important festivals, celebrations and birthday gifts. The gift is neither abrupt nor empty, and you can feel at ease when you accept it, which is the best of both worlds.
Twelve, understand the customs and taboos
Before giving a gift, you should know the identity, hobbies and national habits of the recipient, so as not to cause trouble when giving a gift. A man went to the hospital to visit a patient and brought a bag of apples to express his condolences. But it caused trouble. It happens that the patient is from Shanghai, and the word "apple" in Shanghai has the same pronunciation as "death". Isn't it a curse to send apples? Because the giver didn't know the situation, he broke up in discord. In view of this, gifts must be considerate and avoid complications. For example, don't send bells, because "bell" and "end" are homophonic, which makes people feel unlucky; It is boring to send a poor painting and calligraphy to intellectuals with high cultural literacy; Sending a pig as a decorative gift to Islam may make people jump out.