As a girl, a girl born in the 1990s, I really felt heartbroken when I saw this problem.
I don’t have a car or a house, I have an average job, and I have no partner.
But I still stick to my own ideas and I will meet the right person.
During this period, I devoted myself to my work, cultivated my emotions from time to time, practiced calligraphy and painting, read more books to gain more knowledge, and made myself excellent!
Even at an age where I am being urged to get married, I hope I can continue to persevere and not get married just for the sake of getting married.
Try to buy a car in the second half of this year and give yourself an explanation.
Come on! Support yourself, encourage yourself, and stay away from scum!
Netizen 2:
In 1989, I was born in the mountains of Gansu Province. My family had no financial resources. My parents were old and sick and could not work in the fields. They took medicine all year round to maintain their lives. Recently, due to company Poor development led to layoffs, and I was one of them.
I just went home to see my parents during this time. I burst into tears when I looked at my parents’ pale hair and hands that couldn’t be straightened after years of farm work.
I work hard to make money and send money every month to buy medicine, but I just can’t make enough money to help my parents build a house. The house in my hometown is still a 50-year-old adobe house. It leaks all the time when it rains. There were branches supporting him from the back, which made my heart hurt.
It’s because my child is unfilial. I don’t dare to fall in love or get together with everyone. I’m afraid of spending money indiscriminately. I’m afraid that if I spend money, I’ll lose everything if I lose my job. But the day of unemployment has finally come. I’m not afraid of losing my job. , I am afraid that if the house collapses, I will not be able to see my parents.
So I decided to borrow money to buy a house for their retirement. If I built it myself, no one would watch or help me build it. The traffic in the mountains would not change, and the cost would be 200,000. I decided to help my parents live in the city. To buy a cheap house for retirement, I borrowed money from everywhere and added my own accumulated money to buy a second-hand house.
Now I have moved my parents in and paid a down payment of 138,000. I will start working tomorrow and start my repayment journey. I wonder if I can find a job with a higher salary. , bless me.
Netizen 3:
A person who was born in 1990 is already eating the food of a 28-year-old.
I am an interior designer and I entered the industry when I was 18 years old. I was basically an apprentice for the first year, and 100 yuan a month was just enough to pay for the bus. My family supported 1,000 yuan a month, and I lived in the basement. The rent for utilities and electricity for a month was less than 200 yuan. I skipped breakfast and ate lunch at the company in the evening.
I will slowly get better at it after a year. There are too many things to learn. What kind of craftsmanship, water, electricity, mud, wood, oil, materials, Feng Shui, ergonomics and basic drawing software? You have to chat with customers in every industry.
I didn’t know how to make money in the first three years. After three years, I seemed to suddenly become enlightened. As I served more customers, people gradually found me to do more things, and my abilities became more and more powerful. As it gets stronger, the price can go higher and higher.
In fourth-tier cities, the monthly salary is about 30,000 to 40,000. It is unstable, with zero income in the two months at the end of the year and the beginning of the year.
In 2011, I bought a house with a loan. In 2014, I bought a car worth more than 400,000 yuan in full. In 2016, I bought a house again, but I have been single.
I don’t believe in love. Once a person gets used to it, he really gets used to it.
My mother has always wanted a grandson, and I have been joking with her that I would find a surrogate, which is really unfilial.
Oh, I hope I will change my mentality.
Netizen 4:
I was born in the 1990s and can be considered the vanguard of the post-90s generation. He joined the army at the age of twenty and served in the army for five years. I have just been discharged from the army for a year and have no car, no house and no savings!
In fact, my time in the army was the most glorious period of my life. Through hard work step by step, I worked in an agency and worked from 8 to 5 every day. What's even more inflated is that you have a lot of power. Anyone who has been in the military should know that you are very good at managing soldiers. The officers who ask you to do things will be polite to you.
My boss also wanted to keep me after my service period was over. If I transferred to another level, my salary would reach 10,00 per month. I also calculated this, and after seven years of service, I could get 1,000,00 per month in salary plus retirement pay.
I think it is very good for people who are willing to live a comfortable life. Especially since I am a rural boy, it is hard to find such an income. But in the end, he decisively rejected the leader's kindness and wanted to carve out his own life with passion.
However, the ideal is full, and the reality is skinny. When I really face the society, I find that I don’t even have any skills.
The retirement fee of more than 100,000 has now been paid. There is not much left, I am really sad, and nothing has been accomplished. I believe that many comrades who have made countless achievements in the army feel helpless after retiring.
But fortunately, I have a girlfriend who loves me, and we help each other, and we are in the same boat, and we start a business together.
When a woman is in her prime in her early twenties and chooses a man who also has nothing in her early twenties, the man is moved, happy, and even more guilty. Do not forget your original intention and work hard.
Netizen 5:
The 95-year-old has not graduated yet, has no money, no car and no job!
In fact, for us, these are the problems we are about to face! After graduation and getting married, you have to have a car and a house, right? How many girls are willing to marry you without a house or a car?
It’s better if you are a girl, you don’t need a house or a car! Logically speaking, men should generally be less stressed than boys. If a boy has no house, no car, and no good job when he reaches the age of thirty, he may not even be able to find a wife!
Personally, I suggest you go out and work harder. The more things you are exposed to, the more opportunities you will have! So it’s easier to find a better way out!
Netizen 6:
Yes, the first batch of people born in the 1990s, that is, those born in 1990, are already 28 years old and will be 30 years old in two years. The entire society The first batch of those born in the 1990s who are all being discussed are about to enter middle age.
Each generation spans 10 years. In this span of ten years, some people have already started a family and have children, while others may have just graduated from high school or are even taking tutoring classes in high school. Among them, they have no house, car, or anything else. There must be a lot of people with good jobs.
But there is no need to panic. Everyone came from having no house, no car, and no good job. I remember the first job I found when I just graduated from college. After deducting provident fund and social security, my monthly salary was only 2,600. The place we lived in was shared with two of my college classmates, and each of us had to pay 700 yuan in rent every month. Life was very hard during that period, and I didn’t dare to eat more than one steamed bun or steamed bun in the morning.
You may not believe it when you say it, but it is true. Fortunately, I was mentally prepared before I came out, so I didn't feel too miserable.
Later, after accumulating a certain amount of work experience, I changed jobs and changed several jobs, and gradually stabilized. But I still can’t afford a house. You can only take your time, there is no point in rushing.
So, you should do your job down-to-earth and strive to improve your irreplaceability. Don’t think about a salary increase all day long. When your ability matches the high salary, your salary Naturally it won’t be low.