A person’s aura is not something he is born with, but is the result of years of baptism and inner cultivation.
In last year's hit Korean drama "The Mist", the heroine Ko Hye-ran attracted countless "eyes".
Her makeup is elegant and delicate, her style is smart and neat, she walks with wind and her domineering side, and you can feel her aura coming across the screen.
While watching the show, netizens kept sending comments: "The aura is 2.8 meters tall!" Some netizens said that they were so shocked by her aura that they wanted to sing "Conquer".
Aura refers to the invisible energy field a person produces on those around him.
When a person with a strong aura appears in front of you, you will feel admiration, worship, appreciation, and awe for him or her.
Just as David, the husband of Nixon’s daughter Julie, said of Chairman Mao: “You can breathe his personality ten miles away.”
A person’s aura It is not something you are born with, but the result of years of baptism and inner cultivation.
When these three signs appear on a person, it means that he or she is a person with a strong aura.
Dress up delicately and behave elegantly and generously
Baltasha Gracian said:
Clothes are the shell of the soul. Some people have beautiful souls and natural elegance, and when paired with excellent clothing, it is like the icing on the cake, doubling their charm.
A person who is unkempt and slovenly has a decadent and lazy image, and his aura is weak and weak.
A person with a strong aura is inseparable from his beautiful external image.
On February 18, 1943, Soong Meiling was invited by President Roosevelt to deliver a speech in the U.S. Congress. She was the first Chinese woman to speak in the U.S. Congress.
Soong Meiling made her debut in the United States, wearing a mink coat, a black gown with red edges, and a black headscarf, and was led to meet the president in the White House limousine.
Lambert and Soong Meiling in the American fashion industry are very close. She said:
When I first met her, she had a perfect figure. She was wearing a white gown, and every button and every accessory was filled with diamonds the size of my little finger, but they were not eye-catching.
It is said that Roosevelt had been warned in advance to pay attention to Soong Meiling's legendary charm and was determined not to be "seduced" by her.
As soon as she appeared on the stage, she aroused the respect, admiration and warm welcome of the US president and congressmen.
"Manchester Guardian" reporter Gittings said: "She was wearing a tight black cheongsam, with the skirt almost reaching her knees, which of course showed the American's yearning for Eastern service."
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When Speaker of the House of Representatives Ray Pen introduced her, the hall burst into thunderous applause.
This lovely oriental beauty attracts attention as soon as she opens her mouth. Her bright eyes, white teeth, gentle and graceful voice, and ups and downs of tone made her an instant hit.
A female reporter said:
In just a few minutes, Mrs. Chiang had the Congress in her palm. Mrs. Chiang is as petite as an ivory doll, barely 1.5 meters tall in American high heels. She has an elegant posture and knows how to use her slender hands to express her meaning.
When she finished her speech, there was a storm of cheers and applause.
Song Meiling’s successful speech won China more military assistance from the United States and promoted donations from all walks of life in the United States to China.
Chiang Kai-shek also lamented that his wife's ability was worth twenty army divisions.
French fashion designer Chanel once said: "When you dress sloppily, people notice your clothes; when you dress impeccably, people notice you."
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Song Meiling, who has seen the world, knows one fact well: your image is worth millions.
British writer Wilde said: "Anyone, even a stockbroker, will win a reputation by the elegance shown in wearing an evening gown and tie.
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Exquisite dress and elegant behavior will add points to the image. The image is unparalleled in shocking power, and it also greatly increases a person’s aura.
Dress up delicately and behave elegantly. , making yourself charming and pleasing to others is the first sign of a strong aura.
Being calm and calm in times of crisis, and being calm and rational in response
I like "Historical Records" very much. A sentence from the book: "Those who are not frightened by danger and whose chests are as thunder-like as a flat lake can worship the general." ”
People who panic and rush when encountering the slightest problem are prone to confusion and mistakes, and their aura will disappear in the panic.
Previous paragraph At that time, Master Wu, a driver in Chongqing, discovered that there was a traffic jam in front of him. He mistakenly used the accelerator as the brake, causing a series of collisions between 6 cars and serious traffic jams. He was educated by the traffic police and had to pay compensation for the losses.
"Hunter San Andreas" said: "Panic is the father of failure."
Your confusion reveals a lack of aura.
Some people are in trouble. When troubles and emergencies arise, a person's strong aura lies in being calm and calm. Around the same time, Li Ka-shing met with the "Hong Kong Bandit King" Cheung Chi-keung in his living room.
He kidnapped Li Ka-shing's eldest son. At this time, the "Bandit King" came to negotiate with Li Ka-shing with explosives strapped to his body and a gun. He asked for 2 billion in cash.
In such a thrilling and dangerous scene, most people would have been frightened out of their wits and thrown into confusion, but Li Ka-shing did not panic at all.
"Snowball". The whole story of the negotiation between Li Ka-shing and the kidnappers was published in the newspaper.
After Zhang Ziqiang and Li Ka-shing talked on the phone, they went to Li Ka-shing's house to talk in person.
The first thing Zhang Ziqiang said when he entered the house was to ask Li Ka-shing to police the house. Call it out.
Li Ka-shing was not excited at all, but calmly said that he kept his word and then led Zhang Ziqiang around the mansion and opened every door for him to see.
At this time, the doorbell of the Li family rang. Zhang Ziqiang jumped up reflexively and stood behind Li Ka-shing, ready to take him as a hostage if there was any movement.
The person who rang the doorbell was a reporter from the Li family. The servant dismissed the reporter on the grounds that Mr. Li’s car had a minor accident and Mr. Li was not in the car.
The following is part of their conversation.
Zhang: I have always admired Mr. Li as a superman in the Chinese community. When I was in the watch business more than ten years ago, I was honored to sell watches to Mrs. Li, and I am honored to have an interview with you today.
Li: I haven’t read many books.
Zhang: But Mr. Li has patience and resilience. I don’t have the patience to take it step by step, so I just live my life.
Li: What kind of life does Mr. Zhang want to live?
Zhang: I don’t want to live in poverty. Mr. Li is as rich as a country, and we don’t speak loudly. We are entrusted by our brothers to follow him. Mr. Li borrows 2 billion! All in cash, no new banknotes required.
Li: Even if I give you this much, I’m afraid I won’t be able to withdraw it. Do you think this is okay? Let me call and ask.
The entire negotiation process was not like a conversation between a top rich man and the king of thieves, but like two old friends confiding in each other.
Li Ka-shing called the person in charge of the bank, and the result of the discussion was that he could only withdraw 1 billion. In order to show his sincerity, Li Ka-shing handed over all the 40 million spare cash at home to Zhang Ziqiang.
Zhang Ziqiang felt that "four" was unlucky, so he returned 2 million to Li Ka-shing. The final ransom was 1.038 billion. Mr. Li returned home safe and sound.
After taking the money, Zhang Ziqiang assured Li Ka-shing that he and his organization would not harass the Li family from now on.
Only those who know their enemy and themselves and are confident can stay calm and clear-headed at critical moments. They can see through the other party's heart at the critical moment, so that they can quickly make accurate judgments and find the most advantageous solution. method.
Those who have experienced strong winds and waves are always calm and calm when encountering difficulties. This kind of calmness and ease in emergencies exudes a powerful aura that makes people awe-inspiring.
Zeng Guofan said:
Everything that happens must be dealt with calmly and gently. If you are in a hurry, you may make a mistake. Everything in the world is wrong if you don't get busy. Therefore, being calm and peaceful is the first way to deal with things.
When people's hearts are calm, even if everything is changing, they will still be calm.
Being calm in the face of danger, calm and calm, not panicking, making prompt decisions and solving problems appropriately are the second signs of a strong aura.
Deep professional skills, performance is like a fish in water
Han Yu said in "Teacher's Theory": "There is a priority in learning the Tao, and there is a specialization in the art."
In any field, people will look up to, respect and admire "masters" and will not look down upon an "ordinary person".
And a person’s aura increases with his profound professional skills.
In an issue of "Sound on the Scene", the sound master Liu Mintao gave everyone a real experience of what it means to startle everyone with words.
Liu Mintao appeared handsomely in a white suit and performed Zweig's "Letter from an Unknown Woman".
She said: "My child is dead, our child, in this world, I have no lovable person except you..."
On the stage, she Her tearful monologue, rich body language, accurate voice and intonation, and perfect breath connection. When the love is intense, she even takes off her high heels and kneels on the ground, perfectly interpreting a woman silently guarding love.
It was as if she was the woman who had lost her child and was devastated. A beam of light hit her, she lowered her head and sobbed, trembling all over. With the pair of lovers behind her looking at each other affectionately, it made people feel like they were actually there.
The entire audience was silent. She captured the emotions of the audience with her voice, and both the guests on the stage and the audience in the audience burst into tears.
After the performance, there was thunderous applause.
Netizens who watched it exclaimed: This is called professionalism, the queen is full of aura, the best actor Liu Mintao, I love you!
Some people also say that he is really a talented person with strong professional skills. He has won my heart and I praise him as a real artist.
Shengka teacher Zhang Guoli said:
Liu Mintao gives us the most surprises. What she shows must not be simple, she will find the basis in her heart .
Confidence is the source and foundation of the aura. If confidence is insufficient, the aura is weak.
Bernard Shaw said: "A confident person can turn the small into the great and the mediocre into the magical."
The deeper a person's professional skills, the stronger his self-confidence. , you will be confident, charming, and full of aura when you perform.
Confident people have their own aura and are more attractive.
Having a strong professional foundation, acting like a fish in water, letting yourself express yourself freely, and letting others worship you are the third sign of a strong aura.
Don’t let your aura bring down your life.
Your aura is your spiritual business card, and your aura determines your destiny.
Peake Phil said in "Aura":
Whether a person can achieve great things depends on whether he has a long-term positive aura and whether he is willing to Accept reality and actively seek solutions.
If you don’t want your life to fail because of low aura, you need to make some changes, both internally and externally, to improve your aura.
To cultivate your aura, you can refer to these 3 points.
Look in the mirror more often
Note that looking in the mirror mentioned here does not mean that you should admire yourself, but that you should discover your own shortcomings in the mirror.
Bad details will compromise your aura.
Standing hunched over, walking swaying from side to side, sitting swaying, yawning constantly while talking, opening your mouth with vegetable leaves in your mouth, dressing in a nondescript manner, looking at people with wandering eyes, will all weaken your energy. field.
The purpose of looking in the mirror more often is to discover which expressions and movements of yours are ugly, to discover the "ugliness" and to change the "ugliness".
The aura moves from the outside first and then from the inside. Only when it looks comfortable on the outside can it go deeper.
Use less low-power language
Use less low-power language. For example, if you do something wrong, you keep apologizing. Being too polite makes people feel that the person has low self-esteem, which also makes people feel uncomfortable. tedious.
Also, avoid using ambiguous words.
"He's probably here", "She may have said it", these low-power language will make the speaker lack of aura, so it's better to say less.
Develop a skill or talent that you can use
Chairman Mao said: "If you have food in your hands, you will not panic."
Similarly, having the ability to do something will enhance people's self-confidence.
The core psychology of people with strong aura is full of confidence.
Am I capable?
Am I welcome?
Am I valuable?
People with strong aura are affirmative in these three aspects. This kind of recognition of themselves comes from self-confidence, and self-confidence depends on cultivating the skills that can be used by oneself.
Don’t let your aura bring down your life. Improve your aura and what you expect is what you get.