After the old man dies, the daughter should pay attention. In life, everyone will experience life and death. After the death of relatives at home, there are a lot of feng shui to pay attention to. What can we learn from Feng Shui? I sorted out the knowledge and taboos that my daughter should pay attention to after the death of the old man. Let's have a look.
After the death of the old man, the daughter should pay attention to 1 sorting out the relics.
After the death of the old man, the daughter should sort out the relics in time. If it is a special infectious disease, then personal clothes or articles are not needed and must be destroyed with the help of professionals. If there is a serious accidental bleeding event, such as a car accident or an earthquake, the grievances of the deceased will be very heavy, so try not to leave things around you, otherwise it will bring a lot of bad luck. If it is a normal death, and it is particularly peaceful when you leave, then as a daughter, you can carefully sort out the relics. If you want to leave some thoughts, you can leave some with you. In addition, future generations should also discuss the property or valuable relics of the elderly properly to avoid disputes or conflicts.
Family layout
After the death of the old man, the daughter should pay attention to the feng shui at home, otherwise it may bring unnecessary trouble to herself. After the death of a daughter, mother or father, a person's aura and fortune will definitely decrease. A week before the death of the old man, the lights should be turned on every day at home, and don't turn off the lights at night to avoid evil things sneaking in. At the same time, open windows and curtains at home every day to ensure air circulation. It is best to burn incense in the house every day, which can dispel the depressed gas field and fortune, and also make your life and work smoother and avoid unlucky things. And as a daughter, don't stay in the house where the old people used to live for too long to avoid being confused or disturbed.
Feng shui articles
After the death of the old man, the daughter should make full use of feng shui items, which can effectively resolve bad luck. You can consider wearing a mahogany bracelet or pendant, which can play the role of exorcism. Because after the death of the old man, the gas field at home will become very depressed and bring in a lot of unclean things, so it is very necessary to wear lucky jewelry. At the same time, some lucky ornaments or feng shui items should be placed at home. You can consider five emperors' ancient coins or six emperors' ancient coins pendants, which are issued and manufactured by ancient emperors and have a strong sense of dignity, which can bless the whole family to be smooth and rich in financial resources.
Inner peace
After the death of the old man, the daughter will certainly be sad and painful, which is human nature. However, it should be noted that we must learn to adjust our emotions and not indulge in sadness for a long time, which will seriously interfere with our work and health. At the same time, after the old man dies, don't wander around outside at night, keep a simple and regular lifestyle, and don't travel long distances for fun. Also pay attention to personal sleep quality. The old man had nightmares at night for a long time after his death. These are all normal phenomena. Don't worry too much. It is best to soak a cup of hot milk before going to bed and put a peach wooden sword under his pillow.
After the death of the old man, the daughter should pay attention to 2 1 and live outside on the day of death.
In different parts of China, there are many different customs about the death of the elderly. For example, it is the custom in some places that when an old man or his parents die, his daughter will go out for one night and come back the next day. If you don't do this, you can't go out for the next 100 days.
2. Be filial.
When parents die, it is only natural that children should be filial. During mourning, people have many taboos, such as wearing clothes with too bright colors or wearing jewelry, which will be considered as disrespect for most of their deceased relatives. As for the time of filial piety, it was three years in ancient times, but now it is three days or seven days, 49 days, 100 days. Everyone can decide according to their own different situations.
3. Pay attention to the time of marriage
If one parent dies and the daughter is not married, we should pay attention to the time of marriage. In some places, when parents die, unmarried daughters have to get married within three months, otherwise they can't get married for the next three years. However, this custom is considered too pedantic, and many people have changed to a three-year mourning period without a wedding, but they can still get a certificate, as long as they keep a low profile.
What should we pay attention to during the Spring Festival after the death of the old man?
1, Spring Festival couplets will not be posted during the New Year.
Sticking Spring Festival couplets during the Spring Festival is a traditional custom, which adds a lot of lively atmosphere to the New Year. However, if an old man dies at home, you can't post Spring Festival couplets this year. If you want to be lucky, you can paste yellow Spring Festival couplets. But in most cases, it is still recommended not to post, but it is still possible to set off firecrackers.
2. Worship the deceased relatives
New Year's Eve is a day of reunion, but some places are used to paying homage to their deceased relatives on New Year's Eve. Under normal circumstances, the fruits and dishes that the old people loved before their death are taken as tributes to the cemetery for worship, and incense sticks and firecrackers are lit at the same time to pray for the deceased relatives to bless future generations.
3. Don't visit relatives and friends
China New Year is a time for reunion. Many families will visit their relatives and friends, get together and so on. But in the year when the old man died, as children, there are many things to be avoided, such as visiting relatives and friends in the New Year. Because people at this stage are considered to be filial, it is not appropriate to go to other people's homes for parties. Moreover, during this year, no one will visit the family where the old man died.
Filial piety has a long history. Parents raise their children, and the children are responsible for the old people's old age. After the death of the old man, as children, we should take care of everything. In this regard, the customs of sons and daughters are different, and the good things that need to be responsible are also different.
Daughters should pay attention to the death omen in the first half of the year after the death of the old man 3 1.
According to folklore, when an old man is dying, there will be anomalies. For example, he usually doesn't like to walk, but when an old man suddenly likes to walk, it means that he is dying. He wants to take the road he walked when he was alive, recall what happened and bid farewell to his previous life. A dying old man may suddenly feel refreshed. Such old people generally love their children very much, and want to do something when they are dying. They can't let go of their concerns about their children and want to leave more things to their children.
If someone in the family is about to die, the family will be more dangerous and unlucky, and some animals raised at home will also be in abnormal mood. Because there will be disasters at home, animals will be restless, and spiritual animals such as cats and dogs will see some unclean things and their emotions will be abnormal. Moreover, the yin at home will attract many evil things around and make some weak people sick. Yin Qi and bad luck will also affect the environment at home, making the food stored at home perishable. For example, fresh fruits or vegetables rot faster than before, while rice or cooked food goes bad easily.
The snake is coming, and someone in the family is going to die.
Many old people say that snakes are blocking snakes. Snakes naturally like to live in dark places. Snakes are cold-blooded animals, which will bring yin to people and affect feng shui at home. Therefore, when snakes appear in the home, it means that snakes will occupy people's homes and bad things will happen at home. At this time, it is necessary to drive the snake out and take some measures in advance to prevent the family from getting sick.
Does he know that his relatives will cry after death?
From a scientific point of view, people can hear the cries of their loved ones after death. Death means that organ failure leads to brain death and cannot provide blood supply for human body. Generally, human organs will slowly fail, unable to provide blood supply to the brain, and some peripheral nerves will slowly die. Hearing is the last ability that people lose after death. When a person dies, he can still hear the calls of people around him, and his consciousness will be completely blurred until all his brain nerves are dead, which is the real death.