In fact, most people lack money, which has little to do with ability in essence and is closely related to wealth thinking. Some people's inner thoughts will limit their access to wealth.
For example, some people think that talking about money is a vulgar thing, some people think that money is dirty, rich people love to show off their wealth, business people are profiteers, and so on. When you know money or rich people in this way, you keep wealth out.
Obviously, the first condition of making money is to change ideas and clarify wrong ideas, so as to open the door of wealth and make it flow to you.
A tourist said that when he was playing in a neighbor's house as a child, he had the idea of stealing money. His hand touched the money and was found by his neighbor's little friend. Until he became a big shot, the other party was always wary of himself. He said he was badly hit by money. When the family really needed help, the neighbors were indifferent.
A similar phenomenon has appeared at work. Colleagues suspected that he had stolen the money, so they joined forces with all colleagues to isolate him. He feels that the childhood trauma has not been healed in time, so this shadow has affected his present job. It's really bad to be misunderstood. He said, why did money torture him so much that he lost his friends and trust?
When a person thinks he is tortured by money, does he dare to be rich? Later, I helped him bring this pain back to his childhood through psychological methods. I first released the emotions of that year, and then revisited this experience with my current experience and life experience, without resisting or avoiding it. Accept the trauma in life.
Then, I guided him to pull his perspective away from the original angle, re-examine it with reason, and distinguish between ideas and facts. After doing cognitive dissociation, he can understand that it is not money that tortures him, but because he has no money, he has the wrong behavior: stealing money.
Next, guide him to have a new idea: to become a rich man and not be troubled by money. Use psychological counseling to change his original ideas and get rid of those that used to be true.
Finally, when he looked at it in a higher dimension, he began to clearly choose the value and produce greater actions. He pays more and more attention to the feeling of living in the present, and is no longer trapped by old ideas.
By renewing his cognition, he changed a lot and began to accept people and things he didn't want to face. When he is associated with the correct view of money, he will never refuse money again.
Therefore, changing your wealth thinking is the beginning of your rich life.