So do people. We can't judge the future development just by looking at the present situation. A person can become better and better through education. Some parents are obsessed with "winning at the starting line" and do not pay attention to future education. The result is that it is a waste of time to let others catch up with their children.
At that time, the popular "Five Gangzi" and "Brother disdain" on the Internet, one looks like an old cadre and looks very energetic and imposing, while the other looks a little rustic. Everyone thought that the "Five Gangs" would eventually become world-class talents, but they didn't expect that it was "Brother disdain" who really became a talent.
Then, why did the optimistic "five-bar boy" finally disappear from everyone and go to a private school to study? And why was the neglected "Brother disdain" admitted to Harvard and studied abroad?
An unexpectedly popular teenager
Many years ago, such pictures circulated on the Internet and quickly became popular on the Internet. In the picture, there is a teenager in a blue coat with a brand-new red scarf around his neck. The most striking thing is that five iron bars are nailed to his arm. This means that he is the captain of the Young Pioneers. At this time, he is sitting in danger and listening to the teacher carefully.
Behind him, a boy in a gray coat stared at the boy with "five bars" pinned to his arm with disdain. The sharp contrast of expressions made netizens laugh, and they couldn't help but compare the two children, which led to many funny expression packs. They call the former "the boy with five strokes" and the latter "Brother disdain".
The name of the boy with five strokes is Huang Yibo. I have been called "other people's children" since I was a child. It is said that his family attaches great importance to Huang Yibo's education. At the age of two, I paid attention to news broadcast, and at the age of seven, I read newspapers. I have been closely linked with the red spirit since I was a child.
In addition, Huang Yibo received a good education in Chinese studies, and his manners were very decent and polite. He is elegant and easy-going and often helps others. What is more rare is that when he was in primary school, his academic performance was excellent and he developed in an all-round way. Once won the reputation of "Top Ten Teenagers in China".
It is precisely because of these that he became a famous captain of the Young Pioneers in primary school, and the school gave him "five bars"! It is two grades higher than the so-called "three lines".
After becoming popular, Huang Yibo, in the face of his popularity, was calm and calm, and answered the media who came to interview. It is admirable that a pupil who is only seven or eight years old should have such eloquence. Huang Yibo is also regarded as a role model by many parents. At this time, he is in the limelight.
Television never imagined that this interview was originally aimed at Huang Yibo, but the little boy next to it was accidentally filmed. The arrogant child's name is Sun Tong. In a corner of the interview video, he looked at Huang Yibo with disdain and his expression was very funny, so he became popular on the Internet.
After more than ten years of interviews, netizens gradually forgot these two people. During this time, both of them have grown up and started to go to college. But the state of the two of them has surprised everyone.
Second, after more than a decade of changes, the two have changed a lot.
Huang Yibo, a "Five-Bar Boy", was finally admitted to Wuhan College, a private university, while Brother disdain was admitted to Harvard and went abroad to study. The difference between two universities, one in the sky and the other on the ground, is beyond everyone's imagination. Why can't Huang Yibo, an excellent pupil, compare with the disdainful grandson in the end?
Huang Yibo paid attention to domestic news since he was a child and often contributed to newspapers. He published more than 100 articles in newspapers and magazines at a young age. Participate in volunteer activities every day, visit the elderly in nursing homes, volunteer in hospitals, and tell stories to children in orphanages. He has accumulated rich volunteer experience at a young age, which has provided him with a lot of help in striving for outstanding students. Good grades and many good deeds make him an "excellent cadre" and a "three-good student" every year.
But his excellent performance in primary school made him feel good about himself and his heart began to swell. In junior high school, he was busy with school affairs and interpersonal relationships, didn't study well and often didn't study to be a volunteer, so his grades in junior high school plummeted. Although it is not particularly bad, it belongs to the average level in the crowd.
When he was in high school, Huang Yibo didn't seem to realize that there was something wrong with his study. He still sticks to his own policy, dealing with school affairs wholeheartedly and neglecting his studies. He did a good job as a cadre, but not as a student.
The grades that were not particularly good at first became worse and worse in high school. Talented people, as Shang said, are really like ordinary people. He still didn't reflect, and his grades were not good until the third year of high school.
Soon, his learning attitude brought him trouble. Huang Yibo applied for the independent enrollment of Wuhan University, and the interviewer liked him very much, especially when he saw his series of resumes. If you pass the independent examination qualification, you can go to the Marxist College of Wuhan University as long as you score 40 points above one line.
However, the college entrance examination results have been released. Huang Yibo's score is only 477, and he can't even reach a line. I can't go to Wuhan University, so I have to go to an ordinary Wuhan College to learn English.
On the other hand, Sun Tong, although he was not outstanding all the way, eventually became a principal and successfully studied abroad. Why have they changed so much? Review Sun Tong's experience together.
Third, the gap between reality is worth pondering.
Although Sun Tong's performance in primary school is average, he has developed good study habits and studied hard under the supervision of his parents, which is not good enough, but it is practical.
From primary school to junior high school, and then to senior high school, Sun Tong always adheres to the purpose of "learning first", and all activities are for learning. At the same time, he cultivates hobbies after studying and puts the focus of his life on important places. He doesn't want so-called class cadres, club members, etc. In his view, only learning well is king.
Many things happen. He did well in the college entrance examination and was admitted to Huazhong Agricultural University. After he went to college, all his previous accumulation became nutrients in college. Because of his outstanding ability and excellent study, he was active in various club activities, participated in many competitions and won many awards. In the eyes of classmates and teachers, he has become a university tyrant!
With outstanding performance and achievements, he successfully passed the rigorous Harvard exam and prepared to go to Harvard University for further study. With this indomitable spirit and down-to-earth study, he achieved a counterattack and successfully achieved his goal.
Looking back on the experience of these two people, it's really like an old saying that the wind and water turn around. As a child, Huang Yibo was dazzling, but when she grew up, she went to Wu Da University. On the contrary, Sun Tong, who was taciturn since childhood, relied on his diligence and achieved excellent results, and finally hit Harvard. The key to the gap behind this is the attitude of two people towards learning.
The story of "Shang" is well known, but it is still staged in the course of history. No matter how excellent the talents are, they may be buried, from talents to ordinary people. And if ordinary people work hard and do a good job, then we also have the opportunity to change from ordinary people to talents!
I hope everyone can learn from it. If you ignore the importance of learning only by being clever for a while, you will be surpassed by people who work harder one day. The reason is simple, but it is practical. You never know, parents should not just encourage others, but cultivate their children's study habits in a critical period. Just like Huang Yibo once attracted the world's attention, but now, past achievements have become a cloud of smoke, which has been exhausted in the torrent of time.