Qian Jin feng feng shui

The man who loves his wife to death is divorced.

Yes, I said Ou Di.

On the morning of August 4th, Ou Di published an article in Weibo, announcing the formal marriage relationship with his wife Zheng Yuncan, and said: Two unhappy couples are better than two loving parents.

Judging from the post, the two should have broken up peacefully, but it was still quite embarrassing because there was no news of their divorce before.

Subsequently, the news of Ou Di's divorce caused a heated discussion among netizens.

Among them, there is a comment that seems to come from the heart: career is gone, marriage is ruined, leaving Ou Di, 42 years old?

To be honest, this comment is quite sad, but it must be admitted that Ou Di's development in the circle today is really not as good as before.

Three years ago, he was the soul of daily life. However, after three years, he has become a little transparent in the circle.

The gap here is not a little.

Many netizens said that the reason why he came to this step today was all his own death.

Is that really the case?

Time goes back to 42 years ago.

At that time, in our present words, Ou Di was born with a golden key.

Ou Di's parents are both public officials and have decent jobs. At the same time, Ou Di's father also runs a taekwondo gym.

Due to superior family conditions, Ou Di's life was more colorful than his peers since childhood.

When buying toys, you don't have to consider the price, just look at whether you like it or not;

Weekly pocket money is around 250 yuan;

Usually, my father takes him for a ride in a sports car.

Therefore, for Ou Di when he was a child, his father was a national idol.

What he didn't know was that it was this house that ended the happy life of a family of three.

In order to provide this house, my father works in the port during the day; I will play in the karaoke hall in the evening.

I was able to keep my balance at first, but gradually my father's body failed.

What about the funds available for construction?

Father reasoned and decided to do business, only to find that he was not suitable.

My father did kerosene and golf business with a friend for the first time. As a result, before his career started, the money he used to invest in the company was taken away by his friends.

The second time, in order to turn the company around, he decided to borrow money from outside. As a result, the company borrowed more and more, and the company didn't improve at all. Finally, it had to sell the property and declare bankruptcy.

Because of this, my mother chose to divorce my father.

That year, Ou Di 15 years old.

Although he didn't understand what divorce meant, he obviously felt the separation of his family.

After the divorce, my father had to go out to work in order to pay his debts, and Ou Di also started his own working career.

From Monday to Friday, he studies at school; On saturdays and sundays, he will do odd jobs: moving bricks, sticking tiles, serving dishes and everything.

How hard was life at that time?

I don't even have the money to go to school by bus. I can only walk to school for 4.5 hours.

To make matters worse, you can only drink cold water to fill your stomach.

He dare not rest, nor can he rest, because no one stops everything for him.

"When does this day end?"

How many tossing and turning late at night, Ou Di said this sentence to the ceiling.

Although he always wanted to share the debt for his father, the money he got from odd jobs was only a drop in the bucket for the debt he owed.

So, Ou Di decided to fight.

"Stars are quick to get money, so try it anyway, because it can't be worse."

1996, Ou Di signed up for the "Four Kings" imitation competition, and formed the "Pseudo Four Kings" with Show Lo, Chen Xianzheng and Chen Zhongwei, and began his entertainment career.

However, it didn't go so well.

When the "Pseudo-Four Kings" just became famous, Chen Xianzheng and Chen Zhongwei were forced to dissolve because of a car accident and military service.

Fortunately, the company did not give up the remaining two people. After careful planning and packaging, the "Romeo" combination was born.

Ou Di seized the opportunity and began to make money desperately, in order to pay off the debts of his family as soon as possible, but his father's debts seemed bottomless, and he would never finish them.

It is false to say that he is not tired, but there is no way. He can only run like hell.

He spent 10 years on such a day.

Ou Di once thought about giving up. Once he asked his father if he could give it back.

Father's answer said: Hold on, it's the last time to help my father.

From then on, Ou Di never mentioned it again.

But what caused Ou Di to give up Taiwan Province Province and come to the mainland for development were the following two things.

Ou Di's first girlfriend was Kawashima Makiyo, a half-blood girl, and they soon established a love relationship.

Later, because Ou Di was going to do military service, he entrusted his girlfriend to Show Lo.

What he didn't expect, however, was that when he came back, his girlfriend had become someone else's pillow.

It was also because of this incident that Ou Di and Show Lo had a conflict.

Although there is no tear on the surface, the relationship between the two has long been in hot water.

Later, when they were guests in a variety show, they started bleeding directly.

On the one hand, I was betrayed by my girlfriend and friends, on the other hand, I was in debt for a long time. The double pressure overwhelmed him, and at this time, his father came with bad news.

As the only child in the family, Ou Di finally had to sign the debt.

At the same time, he feels that the future seems to be gone together.

Perhaps this place has brought him too much trouble, so in 2007, Ou Di followed Wu Zongxian to the mainland without hesitation, and thus embarked on the development path of the host.

Ou Di is a good humorist, and he soon became famous himself.

Later, the producer took a fancy to him and invited him to join Tiantianxing.

In 2008, Ou Di joined Everyday Up, which was composed of seven people: Wang Han, Ou Di, Qian Feng, Tian Yuan, Xiaowu (Tanas), Yano Takashi and Ham.

With the rising popularity of the program, Ou Di also quickly became popular and became a well-known host.

Those years can be said to be the pinnacle of Ou Di's career.

Not only is my career thriving, but I have found my true love again.

20 14, Ou Di married his ex-wife. At that time, everyone in the program group went to the wedding scene.

That time, it was their most complete combination, and of course, it was the last time.

In 20 16, with the rise of entertainment programs, Everyday Up also ushered in its own trough, not only the ratings plummeted, but even the group of seven ended up with only three people.

With the departure of several people, the ratings of the program gradually declined, and Ou Di, as the "soul figure" of the program, suddenly left the stage.

At that time, there were many opinions about Ou Di's withdrawal. The most popular one was that Ou Di and Wang Han wanted to compete for the position of the first eldest brother of Xiang, but they didn't, so they had to leave.

However, these are all external statements and there is no evidence. It was his next operation that led to the subversion of Ou Di.

Ou Di's sudden departure caught Wang Han off guard, so he had to find Zhang Wei to save the scene temporarily.

After learning the news, Ou Di casually wrote a meaningful article in Weibo. He said: I didn't want to go, but others forced me to go.

And his relationship with Wang Han, also began to become strangers, so that later, "Everyday Up" was complicated and disappeared.

Wang Han didn't name names in this passage, but everyone knew that he was talking about Ou Di.

However, once some choices are made, they can never go back.

Years later, when Ou Di was asked again why he chose to leave at that time, his answer was: "I want to spend more time with my family."

No one knows whether it is true or not, but what is certain is that after Ou Di left every day, his career gradually fell into a trough.

After leaving, Ou Di turned and bowed to Degang Guo's door, joined Deyun Society and started crosstalk.

Degang Guo thinks highly of Ou Di. He is smart, clever and diligent, and he also says that he will be the second Yun-peng Yue.

But the reality is embarrassing.

After Ou Di entered Deyun Society, Degang Guo specially gave Ou Di, who was ranked in the "Dragon" generation, a stage name: Ouyang Longji, who became Qin Xiaoxian's apprentice.

Of course, Degang Guo has also given Ou Di a lot of resources, and even I have come forward to give Ou Di more opportunities.

But from the host to the cross talk, after all, it is a leap in the industry. How can it be so easy?

As expected, Ou Di turned over.

The first time I came to power, the whole process was full, and even the basic Mandarin was not enough.

And the audience Degang Guo, have no smile on her face.

Without strength, they can only be eliminated, and no one is an exception.

Although Degang Guo is partial to Ou Di, he is not stupid enough to grow up with him with his own brand.

In this way, Ou Di's chances of coming to power are getting less and less, and he has gradually become a little transparent.

Many people think that he has retired, but in fact, his resources just can't keep up.

Today, Ou Di has completely become an amateur. Many netizens think that his biggest mistake is to leave his job every day.

It is not so much the wrong choice as the wrong way to leave.

When he left "Everyday Up", he posted that the platform only heard new people laughing but not old people crying.

But he forgot, who left the program at the most difficult time?

As for the statement that he was forced to leave his job, this statement has been positively denied by the official every day.

What disappointed Ou Di most was the operation he underwent after leaving the project.

Ou Di said that he quit the project because he had a family and wanted to spend more time with his family.

But since Zhang Wei came to replace him, he has been posting satire on Weibo. Even when Zhang Wei officially announced his love affair, he did not forget the connotation.

But what did Zhang Wei do wrong? He was just dragged in temporarily to save the scene.

It is really low to attack again and again to achieve your own platform.

Of course, no one can replace Ou Di's contribution to Daily Progress, but his harm to the program group is also a fact.

There is a saying that personality is a person's best feng shui.

And Ou Di's rollover is inseparable from these two words.

There is no way to start over in life. You have to walk on your knees through the road you choose.

I hope Ou Di will get better and better in the rest of my life.