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An older young woman asked for a premarital examination. Master told her to make good use of the opportunity to get married in a peach blossom year. After a long time, young women came to give feedback. She did meet a blind date that year. The man is interested, but she doesn't like it. She hesitated and missed it. She is still single. The young woman told the master that she knew a girl with the same eight characters, and she met her marriage partner that year. She immediately got married, and now the children are born.
The same horoscope, the life fortune will be similar, and it will also be good or bad. However, the specific events of good or ill luck vary from person to person. Different families, different environments, different geomantic omen, different personal efforts and choices will lead to different lives.
Another real case, two men with the same eight characters, an undergraduate and a doctor, have higher income. The doctor worked hard to make progress, and then he was promoted at a critical time, and his level was opened.
Fate limits the starting point and upper limit of our life, which is fate. Under the premise of not exceeding the upper limit, we can artificially improve our destiny. We can try our best to get close to the upper limit of life and maximize the value of life.
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Tell me about my own experience. After graduation, I failed to enter a good company and entered a small private enterprise. The boss often brainwashes us and says, "Young people don't look at money, the most important thing is to grow up."
As a fresh graduate, I am ignorant and ignorant, so I believe it, work hard and even take the initiative to do dirty work. My boss praised me several times for "well done" and "you are the best", but he didn't give me any material rewards. I stayed in that company for two years, and my salary was the same as when I just graduated.
Later, he resigned and joined a startup company. I worked hard to finish this project under the condition of insufficient manpower and budget. However, the company's capital chain was broken, and the boss ran away. I owed my salary for two months and I haven't paid it yet.
I felt the cruelty of fate for the first time, and felt that my efforts for so many years were a joke. I don't work hard, I insist on learning and improving my skills after work, but what have I got?
Disappointment is disappointment, and life has to go on. After passive unemployment, I started looking for a job again. This time I joined a financial company, and my salary doubled directly. My friends all said that I was lucky and entered the right company, and my income suddenly widened with them.
Yes, that year was really lucky. This is a relatively auspicious year in my ten years of bad luck. I am glad that my luck has finally changed, but I also know clearly that this is the result of my previous efforts. The experience of being in charge of the project independently in a startup company and the basic strength accumulated over the years persuaded the interviewer to send me an offer that day.
If I used to just muddle along, I might only get a small salary increase in a lucky year, instead of having the strength to enter a big company like now and being confident that the company will give me a high salary. I once doubted the meaning of hard work. In retrospect, it is always right to go all out.
Usually go all out to accumulate slowly, in order to accumulate in a critical time, and constantly approach the upper limit of life.
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Many people often lament that they are from the bottom, and it is useless to work hard. Those who say this, ask yourself first: Have you really worked hard?
I have a good friend who believes in life and always says that his life is not good. He lost at the starting line from the beginning. Jia comes from a family of workers and peasants, with a college degree, and works as an administrative clerk in a private enterprise. Her work is trivial and repetitive, with little technical content. Jia has been complaining about the low salary. I suggested that she learn other skills and change careers early. Jia said that there is no time to study after work. In fact, she has time to brush Korean dramas and visit Taobao, but she has no time to study.
Another friend, Alice, also came out from the bottom, with a master's degree of 985, an executive of a listed company. Alice. I am very busy at work and travel everywhere from time to time. Last time we met, Alice? Said he was teaching himself Japanese and had passed the Japanese exam. I asked her, how did you learn Japanese when you were so busy? ? Alice. A: time is tight.
Some people use fatalism as an excuse to complain about their bad life, poor birth and lack of talent, but they just can't see their laziness and depravity. They only see the advantages of others, but they can't see the silent efforts behind others. This kind of people's horoscope is often abnormal, either playing hard or not making progress, muddling along. Most of the qualified eight characters use financial officials, and they are under great pressure and dare not relax. They always want to enrich themselves and improve themselves.
Li Ka-shing once told Southern Weekend that whenever he went to bed, he had to get up after the alarm clock rang at 5: 59 in the morning. Then, listen to the news, play golf for an hour and a half, and then work in the office for decades.
When Shi Yuzhu started advertising, he wrote a small-page marketing copy in the newspaper. He wrote behind closed doors for 65,438+06 days. During the development journey, I bought several boxes of instant noodles and stayed indoors for several months, thus writing the first edition of the game. He believes that the two most important qualities of entrepreneurs are: first, understanding, and second, diligence and endurance.
The most terrible thing is that people who are better than you work harder than you.
It is an inevitable trend that the class is solidified and it is difficult for the poor to have expensive children. I feel more directly in the financial industry. Many financial projects are for the rich, such as trusts and private banks. So is metaphysics. Rich people are more likely to meet good feng shui masters, and feng shui is also good. It is a fact that the rich have more resources, become richer and richer, and the gap between the rich and the poor is widening.
Another cruel fact is that ordinary people can only rely on "hard work". If you don't work hard, you can't keep your existing class. Hard work may not necessarily lead to a raise, but if you don't work hard, you will soon be fired and can't even pay the rent.
Hard work is only the lowest condition for success, and success requires understanding and luck. But if a person has neither understanding nor luck and refuses to work hard, it is really a complete waste.
Fate determines the upper limit and strives to determine the lower limit. We can't be Li Ka-shing, but through our own efforts, we can raise our wages and make our families live better. Isn't this the value of life?