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Our experience
There are five differences between public and private.
1. Hardware considerations
Private garden: the area is moderate, and the playground and facilities are very new. In addition to the conventional slides, there are water pipes, sand pools and climbing walls. The classroom is relatively large, with an inner coat, but sleeping and class are in the same room. There are many outdoor activities.
Public parks: The school area is large, but the amusement facilities are old. There are three suites in the classroom, one for teaching, one for playing games and one for sleeping.
2. Teachers and teaching philosophy
Private park: there are no more than 40 students in a class and four teachers. Teachers are young, enthusiastic and enthusiastic, and the communication rate with parents is relatively high. Send at least one set of photos every day (playing, playing games, doing crafts, drawing ...)
Parents are free to talk and discuss, and are allowed to ask questions such as changing clothes for their children or asking if lunch is good.
Public park: 30 students and 3 teachers in one class. It's better to choose a school than a teacher! ! No matter how good the school is, if there are many teachers in the class, there is nothing we can do! In kindergarten, children are exposed to the small environment in the class, not the big environment in the school!
3. Life and diet
Private Garden: Breakfast, lunch and evening meals are provided, and the food quality is not bad.
Public garden: only breakfast and Chinese food are provided. There will be a meal of fruit after getting up in the afternoon, which is slightly better from the recipe. In addition, teachers and students eat the same food, so food safety is relatively guaranteed.
4. School spirit
Public schools: generally speaking, the requirements are stricter, and more emphasis is placed on sex and group activities. When we were in kindergarten, the teacher would ask us to shut up and put our little hands on our knees.
Perhaps because of security and other factors, there are more painting and manual work, and less sports activities. As for the category of knowledge, the requirements of the Ministry of Education have been fully implemented, and no preschool knowledge has been learned.
Private schools: pay more attention to diversified development and respect the individual needs of children. When the intellectual class reaches the middle class, there will be learning and literacy every day. Some private kindergartens here will have written homework, such as arithmetic, until the middle class next semester.
However, private schools are seriously polarized, and the good ones are particularly good, and the poor ones are not guaranteed. Teachers are highly mobile. Friends around me have the experience of changing teachers four or five times in kindergarten for three years.
5. Service &; expense
Private park: there is one hour of custody and extracurricular activities (handicrafts, painting, dancing, music, etc.) after school. 17:30 can pick up the children, but the tuition is more expensive.
Public garden: usually 16:30. In terms of expenses, 600 yuan plus 1 monthly meals per day 18 yuan.
Back to the original question, choose kindergarten, whether public or private, I think distance is the most important!
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My opinion on choosing schools in kindergartens.
1. Close to home;
2. Within the economic scope;
3. Meet the above conditions. If your counterpart is a municipal kindergarten or a municipal model kindergarten, I recommend you to go to a public school. If your registered permanent residence is a secondary park, you can choose to attend a private school. Most non-governmental organizations are also second-class or ungraded, and they do not participate in the evaluation of grades. Of course, there are some non-governmental organizations with demonstration park level, but only a few.
How do you know what grade your counterpart kindergarten is? Look at the bronze medal hanging in front of the kindergarten, or ask the neighborhood Committee directly, and they will tell you the answer.
3 psychological, material and living habits,
These three aspects should be well prepared for entering the park.
That's all about choosing a school. By the way, after choosing a school, what should be paid attention to before the official start of school.
1. Be mentally prepared when you enter the park: tell your children some interesting things about kindergarten, take them to play with some younger brothers and sisters who have already gone to kindergarten, and exchange their experiences in kindergarten. You can also read some books and picture books about going to kindergarten.
2. Parents should make material preparations: prepare things for their children that the school needs to bring.
What our kindergarten needs are sweat towels, colored pens, Gou Xianbi, colored mud, anti-cutting and name stickers. Quilts, mattresses and sheets are unified, but we changed the quilt core and pillow core ourselves.
3. Preparation of living habits: Pay attention to cultivating children's habits two months before going to kindergarten.
In terms of living habits, there are three main aspects.
1. Unified work and rest time. Get up on time every morning and have a lunch break at noon.
2. Develop health skills. Mainly learn to eat, dress and wear pants by yourself. ...
After the first semester, children will slowly move towards winter. If they can't eat by themselves, the food will soon get cold when the teacher feeds them, which is not good for their health. Therefore, children should learn to eat by themselves. There is also a noon nap. Don't wait for the teacher to get dressed. Try dressing yourself, or you will catch a cold easily.
It is necessary to emphasize the hot and cold and the time to put on and take off clothes. When you think your child is very hot while playing, don't just help him undress, but let him stop and ask him: How do you feel now? Guide the children to say it. It is very hot now. Then ask the child: What if it is very hot? Instruct the children to dress. Repeat this for several months, and children will gradually know that they must take off their clothes in hot weather and wear clothes in cold weather.
3. Learn to express. Parents can act as teachers at home and let their children make their own demands.
As the saying goes, there are so many crying children that teachers can't pay attention to them. Only children have difficulties, take the initiative to ask the teacher for help, and the teacher will definitely help them solve it.
It is especially important to note that when children have physical conflicts with others, they must be educated to protect themselves. First of all, I warned loudly to attract the attention of teachers and classmates. "Don't hit me. If you hit me again, I will tell the teacher. " . If the other party keeps attacking, you can hide if you can, but you can't learn to fight back and you can't be a steamed stuffed bun.
If the other child does this occasionally, parents must be considerate and not aggressive. On the one hand, it will make other parents think that you are "Bao Jing" and educate your children to stay away from your baby. On the other hand, the wind and water turn, and maybe one day your child will beat other people's children. However, for the genuine Xiong Haizi and Xiong's parents, we must warn their children to stay away from this family.
Kindergarten is the first step in a child's life. Parents must have a good attitude. After all, children live in collective life and can't take care of everything like at home. Usually, when taking care at home, it should be extensive, so that children can have more independent space, so that when they get to kindergarten, they will not be at a loss, at least they can have some fun by themselves.
Some people say that there is no best kindergarten, only the most suitable kindergarten.
What do you value most when choosing a kindergarten?
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