Some people say that my first business card is "Sales Manager of XX Company"; Some people say that my first business card is "XX R&D Personnel"; Some people say that my first business card is "XX Designer" ...
So, what we usually call these are the first business cards in our lives?
Let's take a look at our current education situation. Many parents attach great importance to their children's academic performance. They hope that their children can master all subject knowledge in advance for fear of losing at the starting line.
The time left for children to play on weekends is also very limited, and some even have to go to four or five interest classes and keep running around.
These are all worried that when children grow up, they will not have a beautiful business card and live a so-called superior "life".
Under the current education system, it is understandable for parents to pay attention to these things. Who doesn't want to live a better life in the future?
In fact, we often ignore that children are first and foremost a person, and they must learn to be human in order to do things successfully.
There is a child named Xiao Shuai, whose family is superior. He can have whatever he wants from childhood, and his parents provide it with all their strength.
During the summer vacation of high school, in order to broaden his horizons and prepare for studying abroad in advance, his parents arranged for him to study abroad for a short time. In the meantime, he was arranged to live in the home of an old foreign couple.
Accustomed to the domestic lifestyle, he still goes back to rest very late every day. The old couple who have gone to bed are often awakened by his noisy washing, and they are miserable.
Also, whenever he goes to the toilet, he doesn't develop good habits, often uses it without lifting the toilet seat, and sometimes leaves stains on the ground, which is not cleaned in time.
After a long time, the old couple couldn't help it and ordered him to leave. At the same time, I informed the familiar people around me that this China child has no self-cultivation and his comprehensive quality is too poor.
Later, he was forced to return to China. He said: since childhood, his family has been taken care of by two nannies. He never needs to do these seemingly trivial things, and no one has taught him how to deal with them.
Later, whenever he had dinner with his classmates and saw them yelling, he was deeply moved and told them what had happened to him.
I remember Chen Guo, a popular beauty and a professor of philosophy at Fudan University, said: In our life, as long as we don't affect the environment, others or ourselves, we can pursue the life we want as we please.
Therefore, the first business card in our life is not our achievements, but our comprehensive quality and cultivation.
Fortunately, more and more parents begin to pay attention to this point and pay more attention to the cultivation of comprehensive quality and accomplishment in educating their children.
Once in kindergarten, I saw a little boy about four years old, ready to go into the classroom after washing his hands, and saw him lift the curtain of the hall with his small hand and ready to go in.
At this time, he found a little boy behind him. It is natural to help him continue to draw the curtains and signal him to go in together, instead of leaving without looking back.
This photo left a deep impression on myself. A seemingly small thing, but can perceive the little boy's accomplishment in social etiquette and getting along with people. These are equally valuable and comfortable in our adult world.
For another example, every summer, many people go to the beach to play, and there will naturally be a lot of garbage on the beach. You will see that some people eat and some people walk, but they leave the garbage on the beach. And some people will consciously take away the garbage around them when they leave.
There are many similar behaviors in our life. Seeing this, the first business card of life, do you still care about the job titles printed on the business card? These titles can be used to show off and make people envy.
It has nothing to do with grades, economic status, identity, comprehensive quality and personal accomplishment. It is the first business card in our life.