What does it mean for a gentleman not to marry for fear of career failure? We often hear a man say to another person who has lost his ambition or is about to give it to the younger generation in the tone of an elder: What does it mean for a gentleman not to marry? Here is a description of why a gentleman does not marry for fear of career failure.
Why do men worry about not having a wife and being afraid of career failure? First, let's talk about the origin of this allusion. This sentence comes from the mouth of Zhao Zilong, Changshan of the Three Kingdoms. What is this concept? Almost equivalent to the mouth of Ma Yun. Zhao Yunling captured Guiyang, and Zhao Fan, the satrap, was forced to surrender, gave a banquet to treat Zhao Yun, became sworn brothers with Zhao Yun, and even proposed to marry his widow and sister-in-law to Zhao Yun. As a result, Zhao Yun flew into a rage. Lao Tzu is so worthless. Why give Lao tze a second wife? Zhao Fan saw that the situation was wrong and motioned for Zhao Yun to be a "special group". As a result, Zhao Yun noticed that a "gas-guzzling heel" knocked Zhao Fan down and ran out of the city. Later, Zhao Fan tried to pretend to surrender, but Zhao Yun saw through it and directly turned over Zhao Fan's influence in Guiyang. Liu Bei and Zhuge Liang came to Guiyang. He asked Zhao Yun why he didn't marry that bitch. Zhao Yun's face is not red and he is not breathing. He blew a cow that has been passed down through the ages. "Yun 'an dares to waste the great event of Master with a woman?" There are many women in the world, but I'm afraid my reputation will not stand. Why not marry? "Actually, I just don't like it!
Therefore, this sentence must be said by a successful person. Secondly, God knows what was wrong with him when he said this sentence. Just like the idiom "contentment is always happy", contentment is always happy, which originally expressed that people who have achieved success should not be too greedy and enough is enough. Now it has become an excuse for those "losers" to comfort themselves. The phrase "a gentleman has no wife" is also a grandiose explanation of his failed youth because he can't find a partner. Of course, there must be some people who advocate "starting a career first, then getting married", which should be quite a lot, but you just have to keep these words in mind and give up motivation. If you show off, you will have a charm of Ah Q. To tell the truth, one thing that China culture has been used to doing for five thousand years is to make excuses for our behavior. Perhaps, making excuses itself is a kind of culture, which runs through ancient and modern times. I think if we really stick to one of our principles, we can stick to it, no matter what others think, let alone find a bunch of high-sounding reasons to give it gold, because many times, these radiant reasons are used to refute others and prove ourselves. Why bother? Even if you hit him, he will still call you names.
As a man, I also want to say something. I am an independent person with my own unique thoughts and behaviors. I have a strong personality, and I don't like accommodating or being restrained and controlled by others. To put it bluntly, I am proud. But it happened that I haven't achieved anything since I graduated from college, so love is always not so smooth. I don't think a man should concentrate on his career. As long as he has a successful career, many girls will naturally appreciate you. At that time, you can choose a suitable person to marry and have children, and you don't have to be so hard to please and kneel down to that girl. There are many boys around me who are girlfriend-centered. They have tried their best to pick up girls. Their energy and thoughts were given to their girlfriends. How can they have time to think about fame and fortune? Invisibly lost some possibility of greater success. If a man is frustrated and lonely when he is young, he will have more time to think about how to gain others' affirmation and success, and he will hold his breath in his heart and become the driving force of his future career.
Honey, now you know the reason for this sentence. It was said by Zhao Yun during the Three Kingdoms period, and it has been an inspirational sentence for thousands of years. It means that as long as we succeed, we can't live without a wife. Of course, the first thing is that we need to succeed in our career. If we don't achieve anything, we are likely to be single in today's society!
Why do men worry about not having a wife and being afraid of career failure? 2 how to get out of the feng shui method of career change?
1, when you have time, you can get more sunshine and replenish healthy qi, and your career will be easy.
2. Go to the grass at least once a week. , barefoot grass 15 minutes, vent the dirty air.
3, buy a green jade ring to wear on the little finger, which can prevent the pain of the "villain".
4. Put a pair of "Kirin" near the door, entrance or living room at home to start a career.
5, in the center of the house, hanging "six emperors' money" can activate wealth.
6. Put a cup of "coarse salt water" in the kitchen and bathroom and update it once a week to get rid of troubles.
How can I change my luck if my career is not smooth?
Don't be depressed when your career is not smooth, especially pay attention to your physical strength and maintain a good mental state, otherwise it will really "double whammy". If you want to run your own business well, you must first strengthen your own gas field, avoid some bad things taking advantage of it, and rely on your own gas field to gather your fortune and get better as soon as possible. Before going to bed every night, you can rely on yoga to exercise your limbs and stabilize your mind. If you can't sleep, don't stay up late. It's best not to use sleeping pills. It is suggested to light a sandalwood, which can not only dispel the foul air but also calm the mind, and at the same time meditate with the help of yoga, Buddhist scriptures and other things. When you get up and wash in the morning, you can constantly give yourself hints, so that you can go out to work in high spirits.
Before going to bed every day, you can also prepare half a cup of cold boiled water, and after waking up in the morning, add half a cup of hot water, which is called lucky yin and yang water. Drinking this water can purify the body and mind, eliminate filth, enhance energy and gas field, and make yourself radiant. At least you look like a lucky man. In this yin and yang water, you can also add some honey or salt, which can make people clear away heat and moisten dryness and detoxify; Honey water can not only detoxify and replenish qi, but also quickly relieve depression.
In addition, red pepper is also the best food for shipment. When your career is at a low ebb, you can not only restore your spirit and improve your fortune, but also make your appetite open and absorb more energy from food.
1. Put some red furniture and decorations, such as mahogany pendants and red ornaments, in the east, which can make families full of enthusiasm and help their career and study.
2. In Feng Shui, topaz is generally considered to represent wealth, while in the west, it is considered to be the orientation of leading the cause and wealth. If yellow furniture decorations, such as topaz or other yellow objects, are placed in this direction, it can bring exuberant wealth.
White crystal is good for career and health. If you put the white crystal in the middle of your head, you can discharge the sick gas and black gas in your body from the soles of your feet, which will make you clear-headed and helpful to your career and health. If you put the white crystal on the desk in your office or study at home, the effect will be more obvious.
The orientation of the bedroom will affect a person's career. Generally speaking, the bedroom in the north is beneficial to freelancers; Bedrooms in the northwest are conducive to management positions; Bedrooms in the northeast are good for people in the service industry; The bedroom in the east is suitable for young people.
An enterprising person; People in the southeast bedroom are easy to get outside help; Bedrooms in the south are easy to get inspiration; Southwest bedroom can strengthen a person's patience; The west bedroom is suitable for relieving stress and strengthening sleep.
5. You can put mascots at home to increase your career. Generally, placing Kirin at home can make the family prosperous and promote the career development; In addition, Kirin is also beneficial to fertility. Nowadays, more and more people are infertile or pregnant late. Kirin can alleviate this phenomenon, but the unicorn head needs to face outwards.
For people in business or politics, if you open the door, you can have a panoramic view. This kind of home feng shui is not ideal. If you see the dining table or bedroom at a glance, it is also unfavorable for feng shui. This feng shui pattern represents that money is easy to be peeped at, and it is easy to lose officials and money.
7. In the process of living, if the house breaks ground in the direction, it means that the cause is harmful, and Kirin can be placed in the corresponding position to resolve this influence.
In a word, if you want to have a smooth career, you should not only pay attention to the geomantic omen of the office and the company, but also pay enough attention to the geomantic omen of the home.