The grave should be an awesome place, not a terrible place. Because the grave means the end of a life, people will die one day. Walking into the cemetery, there will always be a feeling of silence and solemnity, which is awe of life! Hugo's speech commemorating the centenary of Voltaire's death: "Since the night comes from the throne, let the light come out of the grave!"
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Sweeping graves on Qingming Festival is called "respecting thinking about time" for ancestors. Its customs have a long history. The Ming Dynasty's "A Brief Introduction to the Scenery of the Imperial Capital" reads: "In March, in Tomb-Sweeping Day, men sacrificed their ancestors in Qingming Festival, and the road was full of embarrassment. Worshipers, mourners, weeping, weeding, adding soil to graves, burning ingots several times, and buying graves with paper money. If you can't see the paper money, it will be a lonely grave.
Cry, don't come back, go to the tree, choose the garden, and get drunk. "In fact, grave-sweeping existed before the Qin Dynasty, but it was not necessarily the time of Tomb-Sweeping Day, but after the Qin Dynasty. It was not until the Tang Dynasty that it became popular.