How can a woman really love herself when she sees the topic? I sometimes ask myself. Love yourself, if you are simply willing to buy yourself, dress yourself up and maintain yourself in buy buy, this kind of love for yourself is bound to be superficial. This kind of love for yourself is only superficial love, superficial love! ! !
As a woman, what does it feel like to really love yourself? I have something to say, and I would like to share it with you ~ ~
First, to love yourself, we must first accept ourselves as a woman from the heart, which is the feng shui of our family. Women are like flowers and have their own customs.
Some people in life always feel that they are women, as if something is missing and they can't let go of their love, let alone love themselves and others wholeheartedly. ...
Women are like flowers, flowers have confidants, flowers are charming and colorful, and women are full of amorous feelings. Flowers are blooming, elegant and fragrant.
Women should be pure, the wind has passed without trace, the world is beautiful, and beauty is better than women's flowers. Women should be wise, elegant and charming.
Internal and external cultivation is the unity of beauty and the ultimate beauty. Elegant and charming woman flowers will always be the most beautiful picture between heaven and earth.
A beautiful woman spends her life with strings in her heart, blooming herself and the beautiful world.
Let the clouds in the world come and go, and the duckweeds gather and disperse. I am carefree, calm and light.
Even if it is late, even if it is withered, it is still calm and still smiling.
First, women like to accept their gender and recognize their advantages in all aspects of society. Will love their wishes and efforts.
1, a natural communicator
Female language talent, good at communication and strong emotion, delicate and resilient, natural affinity is easy to gain the trust of others. Let's give a simple example in life: compared with men, we women are vulnerable groups in society, born weak and not aggressive. I believe many people are willing to answer or lead the way when we ask for directions on the street.
2. Women's high face value is easily tolerated.
We all like beautiful and delicate girls. If you dress up a little, smile at people and don't be ashamed to ask questions, I believe many colleagues or predecessors are willing to teach you at work and think you study hard.
3. It is also an effective way for women to show weakness appropriately.
There are many differences between life and work. We women are born with strong endurance and empathy, and we can resolve small misunderstandings by retreating.
Second, the core of loving yourself is: please yourself and enjoy life! I am a woman, and I am very proud.
Make a list of your true love for yourself.
1, independent
Don't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss because you don't praise me, don't be a bitch who gives everything, and don't compromise.
2. Learning
Learn all kinds of knowledge, and be proficient in 1-2. Learning 1-2 can help you have more survival skills and bear all your expenses, even luxuries, such as painting, psychology, dance, nutrition and so on.
3. Try to change yourself.
Image management, don't underestimate yourself, try to accept your imperfections, because imperfections are lovely, you must first recognize yourself.
4. Keep exercising and learn delicious food.
Exercise is not to lose weight, but to have a positive sunshine mentality and a good figure, and the muscles and skin of the whole body will not relax with age. This can't be done by skin care products, but learning food is not for sports and fighting, but because life will improve happiness and pleasure because of the existence of more food.
5. Keep a best copy for yourself.
Especially after you have a partner or family, don't always think about leaving the best for your family. Over time, others will ignore you, and you are used to ignoring yourself. You can prepare two copies, one for you and one for me. Whether to share it with others depends on the mood.
6. Do your own thing and have your own bottom line.
Especially housework, you don't do it just because you earn a lot. I'm a woman, and I know what to do. The family is run by everyone, either together or I say you do it. Anyway, I didn't do it alone The children have one for me and one for you. I can't have children without you, so we take care of many things together.
Third, you are the only one. Only those who truly love themselves will know how to love others.
If a woman loves herself, she must be willing to invest in herself, constantly learn to improve herself, maintain her health and appearance, and provide her with the best lifestyle within her power.
Finally, I think women first know that we are ourselves, then the husband's partner, the parents' daughter, and finally the children's mother. Only by being yourself can people around you feel that everything is beautiful.
Just because women make themselves outstanding doesn't mean that they must make great achievements, occupy a higher professional position or earn a lot of money. But to make your knowledge, education and temperament excellent and competent for every role in life. They are good daughters in the eyes of parents, good wives of husbands, good mothers of children and good employees of the unit, and win the respect of people around them with excellent performance. With all due respect, you love yourself.
Final conclusion
To love yourself, you must first know yourself, believe in yourself and appreciate yourself. We don't need to be too modest.
Of course, loving yourself is not limited to yourself, and loving others is also loving yourself. For example, loving your husband and children is also a way to love yourself. If you love your husband, he will love you and you will be happy. You put more love into your child, and the child will be successful and make you feel proud and satisfied. Women love themselves not for the sake of loving themselves. The ultimate goal of loving yourself is to make yourself happy. Do what makes you happy! Instead of comparing with others, see how others are and do some superficial things.
Know how to cherish, know how to be grateful, know how to satisfy, and reduce the pursuit and desire for material things. There is a saying in the west that the richest man does not have the most, but needs the least. Build happiness on your inner satisfaction and experience, which has nothing to do with others. We watch flowers bloom and leaves fall, we bathe in the sun, look up at the stars, and harvest joy and happiness with our hearts.