The entertainment industry is a glamorous workplace, and every move of celebrities will be imitated. Therefore, celebrities and public figures must always pay attention to their own speech and behavior to avoid creating a bad style for society. .
There are many good and bad in the entertainment industry, so people with high emotional intelligence are usually more comfortable, but there are certain necessary and sufficient conditions for them to be unwilling to violate their conscience and flatter others.
Just like "Speaking Venus", she is a very talented person who has her own unique views and opinions on everything. Her sharp and outstanding comments have gained her thousands of fans.
But what we are talking about today is another excellent host. His hosting style is similar to Venus, but it is actually different from Venus. He is—— Lejia.
When it comes to his name, many people are familiar with it. In the past, he could be seen in variety shows such as family conflicts and blind dates.
His language is outstanding, and he emphasizes the problems of the guests in one sentence, causing the guests to think and at the same time, it also gets the audience's attention.
I thought he would continue to flourish as a host, but he never thought that he would fade away two years later and only perform on the street. Now he is also practicing Buddhism. What did he do wrong?
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In 1975, Le Jia was born into an ordinary family in Shanghai. Her daily life was very poor, and she often finished her last meal without the next one.
In order to gain access to Qingshan Road, his parents took him to live in a small town in Shaanxi Province. His life was still poor, but fortunately he had enough food and clothing.
My parents have been busy making money for a long time and neglected to take care of Lejia. They often put him in a friend's house for a few months. The daily life of living in the accommodation made him learn to observe faces and emotions from a young age. Say something nice to please your friends and family.
After graduating from high school, family conditions no longer allowed him to continue studying. He followed his friends to Ningbo, learned to be a waiter, and then returned to Shanghai to develop.
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The living environment he grew up in made him very independent. No matter what job he was doing, he could integrate very well. The ability to observe faces and colors was applied to his work, which made him Became the best salesperson in the company.
He rose through the ranks, from salesman to marketing teacher. He never even went to high school. He often trained some new employees after graduation and inspired them with his unique words. The drive to work hard encourages them to overcome all difficulties.
Change is not just talk, he also promised to continue to enrich himself and change the status quo. He quit his high-paying job and returned to school resolutely, and successfully obtained a bachelor's degree in business administration from Armstrong University. Certificate.
After completing his studies, he founded the Personality Type Research Institute, using different personalities to distinguish matching communication methods and narrow the distance between people.
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After that, he started giving speeches one after another. His language could always quickly alert people and bring an enlightenment experience to the audience.
As his popularity grew, the "If You Are the One" column team also noticed him and invited him to be a special guest on the show, mainly responsible for the work of an emotional mentor.
With the popularity of "If You Are the One", Le Jia has also become a well-known emotional mentor. His comments on the special guests are spot-on, outspoken but heartfelt in every sentence, leaving the audience in no doubt. Can't find any reason to argue.
The entertainment industry is an extremely realistic place, and the salary and benefits before and after becoming famous are very different. As he reaches the peak of his career, his personality has gradually changed.
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He gradually became dissatisfied with being just a sidekick. Wanting to control the entire stage by himself, he left "If You Are the One" to choose a higher stage and served as He has two important identities as host and coordinator.
The higher you stand, the more you have to be upright in order to achieve long-term stability. However, Le Jia forgot this principle and began to be outspoken in the center of the show, even making some remarks that shocked the audience. behavior.
He held her in his arms in public, and even kissed her on purpose. Fortunately, she was smart enough to go away in time, otherwise she would be "eat tofu".
If this behavior is called "show effect", then drinking on the show is the main reason for the collapse of his image. Drinking is not illegal, it is his fault that he should not Drinking alcohol in front of cameras and instigating special guests to drink alcohol.
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Such behavior will not only have a negative impact on the audience, but also lose the sense of propriety that a program host should have.
After a wave of chaos, Venus publicly reprimanded Le Jia for his inappropriate behavior in a variety show, feeling that he was drunk and lacked moral integrity and had forgotten the moral bottom line of being upright.
Le Jia did not reflect on herself because of Jin Xing’s comments. Instead, she responded to Jin Xing in public: “What the sages could not do, the eunuch actually guaranteed it!”
He roundly ridiculed that Jin Xing was not a boy, and public opinion was not on his side at first. Now he was outraged. Netizens began to praise him, and the popularity he had accumulated for many years disappeared in one fell swoop.
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The brand image will no longer be upright, and he will also lose the opportunity to come on stage again. In order to survive, the former popular host had to become a Receive some small and medium-sized commercial performances.
However, Jin Xing, who has a similar hosting style, has firmly established himself in the entertainment industry. There are practical differences in the two people's hosting styles. Jin Xing said what everyone wants to say but dare not say. , while Lejia is a loner, using his own views as a template for others' life paths.
Perhaps it was the impatience in the entertainment industry that made him lose his way unconsciously. After losing all aura, he found inner peace again.
He is a wise man. He understands that all human beings in this world are inevitably affected by environmental factors. In order to make changes from the depths of his soul, he chooses to put on his walking clothes and escape. Enter the empty door.
Be low-key
The round ears of grain all have their heads lowered, and the perfect sunflowers have never looked up and raised their chests. Courtesy and calmness are a tradition that comes from the heart. virtue.
Human beings are different from animals. They need to be kind-hearted and kind-hearted to support their lives. Being talented and disrespectful will only be short-lived. Only by being kind-hearted and talented can you go a long way.
When the sky is crazy, it will rain, and when people are crazy, there will be disaster. Le Jia's journey has been extremely difficult, but in the end, he risked his future because of his arrogance. It is indeed regrettable.
If he could always stay true to his original intention and not be impatient during his most popular stage, I think it would be a different situation now.
There is no retreat in life. Lejia’s experience is worth thinking about. No matter where you are, no matter how accomplished you are, if you lose the principles of life, the final result will be a dream.
Summary:
One thing to say is that Lejia is indeed a rare and outstanding talent. Many of his achievements in the middle and later stages may be related to the environment in which he grew up.
I think that Lejia, who is practicing Buddhism now, has already found the pure scholar in his heart. He realizes that his behavior at that time was wrong, and I only hope that he can spend this life peacefully and stably!