May you be away for half your life and still a young man when you return (original: my sister)

Cloudy, Saturday, July 13, 2019

I haven’t watched dramas for a long time. I accidentally glanced at "Pi" two days ago and couldn't stop watching it. I finished it in one go. Although I am about to turn fifty, I was still moved by this popular youth drama. The four lively and unique high school students and their pure and passionate friendship are both a highlight and a tear-jerker. Lin Miaomiao's ghostly spirit, Deng Xiaoqi's coming from behind, Jiang Tianhao's thoughtfulness and righteousness, and Qian Sanyi's academic temperament are all very typical of high school students, and they can all be "prototyped" in real life. Although we always complain about the "ungrounded" and "non-eating of fireworks" of the post-00s generation, it seems that the generation gap is so insurmountable. The real situation is that this new generation of human beings, nourished by abundant material conditions, value friendship, understand gratitude, express themselves well, and are capable. Because they have no brothers or sisters, they attach great importance to the friendship between classmates, and even directly transform this friendship into family affection. In the TV series, there are many plots that reflect that if one of the four encounters difficulties, the others will " "Draw your sword to help" and never look back, even if his own interests are affected. And this kind of help is always done to the end.

The most touching thing is that when Jiang Tianhao's family suffered bankruptcy, four good friends worked together to establish the "Tianhao Little Kitchen" online store, and worked hard to help Tianhao get out of the shadow of "family decline". And successfully took over the "baton" of family development. It is conceivable that these children who have started entrepreneurship since high school will encounter various setbacks and storms, but their future is bound to be limitless.

Jiang Tianhao’s kindness and kindness are not only reflected in every bit of life, but also at every critical moment, his warmth and warmth shine even brighter. In the 800-meter test before graduating from high school, in order to let the girls in the class, including Deng Xiaoqi and Lin Miaomiao, pass the test, he instantly became a "sparing partner" and ran with him wave after wave until he was exhausted and fell to the ground gasping for breath. When choosing where to graduate, he could have gone through "211", but for Lin Miaomiao, he stayed and protected this friendship or future love, making us sigh and believe that true love exists in the world.

The acting skills of the four young "actors" should not be underestimated. Every move is natural and fresh, without any pretense, which makes you believe that they are acting in their true colors. What a group of enviable and blessed Chinese young men!

So far, I have only expressed one-third of the reasons why I love this show. The more important love comes from the families and parents behind the four teenagers. From the teenagers with distinctive personalities, we can see the "difference" of adults, because every child is the shadow of his parents and the mirror of his family. The parents are the originals and the children are the "copies". The precious friendship between these four children is a reflection of the parents’ true and courageous attitude towards life.

The parents of Lin Miaomiao, played by Zhang Jiayi and Yan Ni, are not too realistic, but too real. The actor's own understanding and perception of life and parenting are fully integrated into the character. The various details of the couple falling in love and supporting each other, or supporting or disrupting each other, reproduce the various aspects of the Chinese style of "a family with candidates". However, Father Lin's kindness and wisdom are everywhere, and Mother Lin's two extraordinary "husband-saving actions" allow us to see the essence of "true love". Only in times of adversity are true couples. This point still shines in Jiang Tianhao’s parents. In the words of the children in the play, Jiang’s mother has a really good temper. Even though her family’s billion-dollar industry has gone bankrupt, she still has a calm tone, a smile on her face, and is neither impatient nor impatient. General style. It is precisely because of Mother Jiang's kindness that Father Jiang has the "confidence" to start over again, and Jiang Tianhao has the "courage" to shoulder heavy responsibilities at a young age. No wonder people say that the quality of a family's feng shui mainly depends on the temperament of the mother in the family. Academic tycoon Qian Sanyi's steady, wise and self-cultivation aspirations are not only indispensable for good genes, but also the "reward" of her mother who endured humiliation and persevered. Such a beautiful, elegant and talented woman did not hesitate to pay for the trust of a decent family. She gave up her glorious youth and regarded her son's future as her life. Although she was a little paranoid, it also showed the greatness and selflessness of this mother's original intention.

The most controversial thing is Deng Xiaoqi’s mother, who may be regarded as “alternative”. But it must be admitted that in this era of "appearance is responsible", it is understandable to use beautiful appearance to open up wealth and interpersonal connections so that you and your daughter can live more comfortably and with dignity.

Although there will be contempt and disdain under moral standards, this fact of existence is something we cannot avoid. This is also a concrete manifestation of "Pi" truly reflecting the times and life. What's more, this beautiful mother cares deeply about her daughter's happiness and future. She is obviously utilitarian, but also full of maternal nature. "The hearts of parents all over the world are pitiful", they are all the same.

Parents of all kinds, who "spare no effort" for their children, still cannot fully summarize the connotation of "Pi". As a "drama watcher" who is over fifty years old, what makes me feel strongly is that this group of people born in the 1960s and 1970s who are similar in age to me, not only did they not "fail" themselves during the years when they accompanied their children to compete for the college entrance examination. "On the contrary, with the help of the hardships and pressures of life, he fought back with all his strength and played a "go against the wind" beautifully. In the second half of his life, he played brilliantly and at a high level.

After repeated failures and blows, Father Lin found a new way and positioned himself as a "spiritual mentor" in a new career as a "funeral master of ceremonies". Neither humble nor arrogant, use knowledge and understanding to help those who leave to leave with dignity, and to continue living with clarity for those who survive. His kindness that remains unchanged regardless of good times or bad times is not only the patron saint of his destiny, but also the "magic weapon" for his entrepreneurial success. It can be said that "the right path in the world is the vicissitudes of life." The relationship between him and Mrs. Lin has become stronger through many hardships because they have the same views. They both have the courage to take responsibility and never give up in times of crisis. The more difficulties there are, the more you think about each other. Only in this way can husband and wife grow old together! The two people's concentricity not only broke the gold, but also ushered in the birth of the second child at the critical moment of taking the exam. This is a test of fate for this family and also a reward for them. I believe that in the future, this family will be so hot and full of love. hope!

Jiang Tianhao’s parents have cultivated an indestructible trust and support for each other through many years of entrepreneurship and business. When the test came, their calmness and tenacity in the same boat completely reassured us. Jiangjia’s time-honored brand will definitely make a comeback. This business failure is actually the "touchstone" of Jiang Tianhao's ability. Tianhao's little chef will definitely be "better than his master". This is an opportunity given to time-honored brands in the Internet era. The smart and virtuous Jiang family will steadily Seize

this opportunity.

The most joyful thing that is characteristic of the times is Qian Sanyi’s mother. This mother who endured all hardships not only received true love, but also high-quality, uncompromising true love. As expected, if you are good enough, your boyfriend will be waiting for you in high school after half your life...

It must be mentioned that Xiaoqi's mother, in order to let her daughter gain true dignity, promised to rely on She must have taken real actions to live her own life through hard work, so Xiaoqi studied hard in the later period and got into the ideal university in one fell swoop.

As a result, I strengthened my feelings about this drama. Overflowing youth, diligent study, ideal college, and a bright future, these are of course the standard features of "Young Pi". However, maintaining constant kindness, a positive attitude towards life, optimism in the face of difficult tests, and understanding and consciousness in tune with the times are also another manifestation of the "Youth Pi". This kind of performance has nothing to do with age, but it lasts forever. , this is the attitude towards life, the ability to achieve happiness, an integral part of the "Chinese Dream" of prosperity, and the actions we strive to achieve for the future of our children. May we all get out of half our lives and come back as teenagers!