The main factors leading to individual isolation are as follows:
-1, because he didn't understand the internal ecological culture of the group, he violated the group taboo and caused public anger. He was regarded as different and isolated. For example, talking loudly and frolicking in hospitals and judicial organs violates the serious and cautious ecological and cultural agreement of this kind of industry, and is regarded as the destroyer of rules and regulations and excluded. Another example is: in the passionate and lively groups such as the army and schools, reticence will appear unsociable and excluded;
-2. In the community, what people dislike most is being talked about in private (being gossiped) and asking about privacy. If such things are accidentally involved and leaked by others, then this may also be one of the reasons for being isolated;
-3. In the community, we should follow the concept of speaking less, listening more and judging more without favoritism;
-4. When things happen, we must first find out who is beneficial and who is harmful. Let others make up their minds first, and then add and suggest when necessary. Don't talk nonsense when you don't know the situation.
-5. If you have achievements, you should give them to leaders and colleagues with high positions. If you make a small mistake, you should stand up and bear it. Only in this way can you establish your own interest-related links within the group;
-6. The obvious way of doing things, forgetting the righteousness at the expense of profit, will inevitably make people feel disgusted. It's best to take the strategy of avoiding in advance when encountering difficult things. If you can't avoid it, you should also bring others in to deal with it and let someone help you with your work and talk.
-7. The contradiction between personal image and group style can also lead to being regarded as heterogeneous. If the average age of the group is high or low, and the degree of urbanization is high or low, then its overall clothing and image temperament must have a specific style type. When the individual's clothing and temperament are quite different from this overall style, they will be inadvertently identified as heterogeneous and divorced from the group.