Mode refers to a person's inherent ability of knowledge, mind and vision.
Confucius Ceng Yun: "A gentleman is not a tool."
People can't confine themselves to a narrow range like an object.
Otherwise, life will be limited.
Life is like chess, and you have no regrets when you move.
People with big patterns don't just stare at the pieces in their hands, but know how to observe the layout of the whole chess game.
Only by making your own layout can you win that chess game in one fell swoop.
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The bigger the pattern, the less tangled it is.
It is often said that people with large patterns can better know what is important to them.
That's true.
People who have no pattern will be entangled if they can't see clearly;
People with patterns can see clearly before they are informal.
As the saying goes: "a wise man will be vague about small things;" A big ignorant person must wait for a small one and be useless. "
People who really have a pattern will not be entangled in some trivial things.
In ancient times, there was a young man who was very clever and never wanted to be cheated.
He has to be careful in everything he does for fear of losing.
He knows which restaurant in the city has cheaper clothes and more food.
However, this calculation did not bring him happiness, but also made him fall into an anxiety of losing money. When he meets a small matter, he gets upset.
Once, when he came back from dinner, he found that the money in his pocket was wrong, and two dollars were missing.
He went to the restaurant, and the bartender and the shopkeeper said that they had the right change.
So he looked along the way home, but found nothing.
He has been moping since he came home.
After such a period of time, his body is getting weaker and weaker.
One day, he felt too painful and asked his family to call a doctor to see him.
The doctor said it was a heart attack and needed to open his own heart.
It suddenly dawned on him that the money had made him suffer for so long.
Since then, he no longer haggles over every ounce, no longer worries about anything, and his body and mood are getting better and better.
There is a saying that most people who struggle with everything are actually unhappy.
Entanglement will make life lose a lot of fun.
A person's life is like playing all over the world in a given time.
The quality of your life depends on yourself.
People with big patterns know what is important.
I won't dwell on those little things and waste my time.
They are more willing to spend time and energy to do more meaningful things.
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The bigger the pattern, the wider the road.
The second half of life is not about wealth and status, but about the pattern.
People with patterns have a good eye.
People with patterns will get wider and wider; People without patterns will get narrower and narrower.
Yu once said: "When a person's life pattern is big, he will not indulge in the triviality of life."
Different patterns will make you see different worlds.
There is such a story:
Three masons were building a wall when a man passed by and asked them what they were doing.
The first man said grumpily, didn't you see it? I am trying to build a wall.
The second man replied that we are building a tall building.
The third person said happily that we are creating a better life.
Ten years later, the first man was still a mason, the second man became an engineer, and the third man became the boss of a construction company.
In fact, their work itself is no different, but the life direction of the three people is very different.
This is because their initial pattern determines their direction.
What kind of pattern will achieve what kind of life ending.
People with small patterns will only repeat what they are doing day after day;
People with a big picture will think about what this will bring to them.
Zeng Guofan once said: "Those who seek great things should focus on the pattern first."
If a person can see the present, it is difficult to go further.
In life, we can often see such a scene:
Some people, when trying new things, will be full of enthusiasm at first, but will give up once they encounter difficulties.
This is because the pattern is too small.
The pattern is small, you can't see the farther scenery, and let the immediate difficulties block your own way.
People with large patterns will not stop because of the immediate difficulties, because they know that there will be more beautiful scenery behind.
So people with big patterns are more likely to succeed.
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Your pattern is your feng shui.
The best feng shui for a person is not how lucky he is, but how big his pattern is.
People with different patterns will have different lives.
Some people say, "People with big patterns can see not only themselves but also others."
Everyone has a pattern, but the most important difference is its size.
People with small patterns only care about themselves; People with big patterns will take care of more.
People with big patterns have bigger minds and care about the world.
A person's pattern is the feng shui of his life.
Qian Xuesen studied abroad when he was young. Just as he succeeded, he heard the news of the founding of New China.
Without hesitation, he immediately decided to return to China and devote himself to the wave of building a new China.
Foreign scholars said: "wherever Qian Xuesen went, it was worth the strength of five divisions."
Qian Xuesen did not give up returning to China because of his superior living environment and high-paying job.
He broke through many obstacles and finally returned to his motherland.
After that, he didn't put on airs or complain about the scientific research environment.
For decades, I have been working hard for China's national defense science and technology.
In a difficult environment, he initiated the space industry in New China and made great achievements for the motherland that shocked the world one after another.
Pattern is not wisdom that can be said, but wisdom that can be done.
People with patterns have a bigger vision.
A truly excellent person can not only do things for himself, but also do things for others.
Such people will be more responsible and feel at ease in doing things and getting along with each other.
There is a proverb: "No matter how big a pancake is, it is bigger than the pot that burns it."
Only people with big patterns can bake bigger cakes.
People who have no pattern can only calculate their own interests, and such people are often unreliable.
People with patterns will be liked by others wherever they go, and the road of life will be smoother and smoother.
There is an old saying: "People live when they move, and trees die when they move."
If a person is too obsessed with an idea, he can't open the situation and the road will be narrower in the future.
There are three realms in one's life: seeing oneself, seeing the world and seeing all beings.
Different modes determine different realms of life.
Life needs to know how to enlarge the pattern in order to see different scenery.
You know, people can only live better if they stand higher and see farther.