Author: Anonymous www.peoplelaw.com.cn 2006-3-1Source: People's Rule of Law Network.
There are often some businessmen who go into the sea together to get treasures from the sea in order to make money. A man named Xiantan also wanted to try his luck, so he followed a group of businessmen out to sea to find treasure.
Everyone worked hard for a long time and got a lot of treasures, so they went back to China happily.
The traffic along the way is extremely inconvenient, coupled with the dry weather and lack of water, everyone is thirsty after a long journey.
Xiantan suddenly found a well by the side of the road, so he ran to drink to his heart's content.
Those businessmen have long noticed that there is a bright white pearl among the sea treasures collected in Xiantan, which is a rare treasure in the world. They are envious and jealous in their hearts, always hoping to get it for themselves. Seeing that Xiantan bent down to drink water by the well was a godsend, everyone crowded forward and pushed Xiantan to the bottom of the well.
Because Xiantan did a lot of good things, his kindness touched the immortals. At this dangerous moment, God caught him at the bottom of the well, making him safe and sound, without even scratching his skin. When they got back, they scared the businessmen and confessed honestly. The king was very angry when he heard that they murdered Xian Tan on their way home, so he ordered them all to be put in prison to find them guilty. After hearing the news, Xiantan was extremely anxious and confessed for them. When neighboring countries heard about it, they all praised it and admired the lofty morality of Xiantan.
"Six Degrees Collection" Volume I "Xi 'an Tan Li Jia Bensheng"
Anyone who has read The Romance of the Three Kingdoms knows that Zhou Yu is a general in Wu Dong. He is brilliant, brilliant. However, he is too jealous to tolerate anyone better than himself. He has always held a grudge against Zhuge Liang, and tried several times to get rid of Zhuge Liang, but failed. Battle of Red Cliffs and Zhou Yu lost their troops and spent a lot of money and food on the war, but Zhuge Liang got a big bargain from it. Zhou Yu was so angry that he "let out a cry and burst." Later, Zhou Yu tricked Liu Bei into getting married in Wu Dong with a honey trap, and Zhuge Liang followed. As a result, he lost his wife and soldiers. Zhou Yu was so angry that he let out a cry and burst his golden bubble. Finally, Zhou Yu tried to seek Jingzhou by "coming from a false road", but Zhuge Liang saw through it. Four military forces besieged Zhou Yu and wrote to surrender. Zhou Yu lamented that "He Sheng Liang was born from Yu" and died several times.
Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle. Ignoring your competitors means weakening your competitive advantage. Therefore, we should always be alert to ourselves, never ignore the great threat of competitors and potential competitors, keep a smart mind, pay attention to the comparative analysis with competitors, find our own strengths, weaknesses and personality, accurately locate our comparative advantages and personality, and highlight our comparative advantages and personality charm. Tao Jianxing, chairman of Chunlan Group, summed up the secret of winning the competition and said, "Deal with foreign competition in the way of horse racing in Tian Ji" and "be good at giving play to your own strengths, so-called learning from each other's strengths."
Paying attention to competitors is not attacking competitors, let alone destroying competitors, but accepting competitors' existence, strict self-discipline and healthy competition. Vicious competition not only harms others, but also harms oneself, while benign competition can enhance one's sense of crisis and urgency, work harder and make continuous progress in the competition. Finding a Master at Chess is a secret book of Zhang Ruimin's success. "Learning from failure, learning from success and learning from competitors", through continuous learning and exploration, integrating relative competitive advantages and winning by surprise, is the road for Liu Yonghao and Liu Yongxing brothers to lead Hope Group to success.
Competition is a good thing, but it should be controlled within the scope of psychological tolerance. It is very important to be a competitor at work and a good friend in your spare time. This is a healthy interpersonal relationship. Competition should be maintained on the premise of benign interaction, otherwise it will fall into the whirlpool of malicious competition, and then tension and pressure will become unbearable in life.
Source: Success Fortune Network
A wonderful philosophical story tells you that just doing one thing in your life is enough!
Why do you only do one thing in your life? Listen to me slowly! There are two small shops selling old tofu in front of my house. One is called "Pan Ji" and the other is called "Zhang Ji". The two stores opened at the same time. At first, Pan Ji's business was booming, and people who ate old tofu had to queue up, so they couldn't eat it if they came late. Pan Ji's characteristics are: tofu is very thick and delicious, and the amount given is particularly large. In contrast, Zhang Ji's old tofu is different. First of all, tofu is soft, soft like soup and shapeless; Secondly, tofu is given less and Tonga is given more. A bowl of old tofu is half a bowl of soup. Therefore, for a period of time, Zhang Ji's door was neglected. One morning, because I got up late, I had to come to Zhangji's tofu shop. After eating a bowl of old tofu, the boss came over and asked me with a smile how tofu was. I told the truth: "The taste is ok, but the tofu is a little soft." The boss smiled and looked satisfied. I said, "Why don't you learn from Pan Ji?" The boss looked at me and said, "What should I learn from him?" I said, "Make tofu thicker!" The boss asked me, "Why should I learn from him?" On reflection, the boss explained to himself, "I see. You mean, few people come to my place to eat tofu, right? " I nodded. The boss suggested that I come back in two months to see if there would be any changes.
About a month later, there was a long queue in front of Zhang Ji's door. Curious, I queued up to buy a bowl and looked at the tofu in the bowl. It's still a thin soup, which is no different from before and tastes the same. The boss still has a simple and honest smile on his face. I also smiled and asked, "Can you tell me the secret?"
The boss said, "Actually, Pan Ji and I are brothers." I was a little surprised: "So your tofu is different?" The boss said, "It's different. My brother Pan's tofu is really delicious, and I really can't compare with it. However, my tofu soup is made by adding several kinds of bones, adding seasonings, and then boiling for 12 hours. My brother is not as good as me in this respect. " Seeing me still puzzled, the boss continued to explain: "This is what my master taught us specially. The master said that if you want to have a long-term business, you must have your own specialties. The master also told us that the "eating" business is the most difficult to do, because people's tastes are constantly changing, even if they often eat delicacies, they will be bored.
So the master gave us different crafts. So people will come to me for soup when they are tired of eating my brother's tofu. After a long time, people will come back to my brother. After a while, people will come to me again. In this way, the business of our other disciples can go on for a long time without affecting each other. I asked tentatively, "Don't you want to learn how to make tofu from your brother?" The boss said, "The master told us that it is not easy to do a good job. Sometimes, if you want to do everything well, the result will be very poor. " Boss Zhang Ji's remarks, I think, are not only related to old tofu, but also to a person's career choice and a person's persistence throughout his life.
7. How to make a personal study plan?
The first step is to determine the required courses and limited courses. According to the practical teaching plan provided by the school, the compulsory courses, limited courses and concentrated practice links are listed one by one, and their credits are calculated.
The second step is to determine the elective courses. The difference between the minimum graduation credits and the total credits calculated in the first step is the credits to be supplemented for elective courses.
The third step is to determine the make-up course. Check the teaching implementation plan of your major and see if there are any courses to make up.
The fourth step is to determine the study duration, and refer to the method in 3.6 to estimate how many semesters it will take to complete the study.
Fifth, arrange all courses by semester (make-up lessons, compulsory courses, limited courses, elective courses and concentrated practice links can all be listed in the table).
At this point, your personal study plan is ready. When you make a personal study plan, you should pay attention to the opinions of your tutor. The instructor is more familiar with the course and its preview and follow-up relationship than you, and can give you guidance in course selection and time arrangement, making your personal study plan more scientific and reasonable.
9. How to plan the study time?
If your working hours are fixed, you can try to arrange a week. You may find that you can actually squeeze in a lot of time to study. Generally speaking, these hours add up to no less than 20 hours, which is enough for you to complete a week's study task. Then, you can draw up a weekly study schedule for yourself and spread your study on every day of the week (for example, you can arrange one study unit every day and two study units on weekends, and the time of each study unit is 1 to 4 hours). You may find that although you have arranged no less than 20 hours of study time, your life in a week is basically unaffected, but the schedule is more compact. Moreover, this decentralized arrangement will not be too hard, which is conducive to maintaining learning efficiency.
If your working hours are not fixed, it may be difficult for you to strictly follow the above weekly study schedule. But you can still make a regular (one or two months) study plan.
For some students, it seems that any plan is unrealistic. For example, it is difficult for a mother who has to take care of her children to make a study plan because it is difficult for her to establish a fixed activity pattern. Therefore, these students must be more flexible when arranging their study schedules, and make adjustments every week or even every day.
What I want to draw your attention here is that studying for one hour a day is usually better than studying for eight hours a day. 10. How to form the habit of autonomous learning?
We can cultivate the habit of autonomous learning from the following aspects.
Distribute daily study tasks reasonably. Break down your learning tasks into units that can be completed every day, and insist on completing the tasks on the same day. Under no circumstances can you give yourself any excuse.
Plan the time of the day reasonably, arrange the work that must be completed as far as possible within the working hours, reserve the established study time, and form the habit of using sporadic time in the day to study.
Follow the established timetable. The study schedule can help you overcome inertia and complete your study tasks step by step without too much pressure.
Review in time. In order to make learning effective, we should form the habit of reviewing in time. Research shows that reviewing in time can consolidate what you have learned and prevent forgetting.
Ask yourself questions. Asking yourself "what to do", "why" and "how to do it" from time to time is a good way to concentrate, stimulate interest in learning and find weak links.
Ask questions to others. When you encounter problems in your study, no matter how simple or trivial your questions are, you should ask your teachers and classmates in time.
Form the habit of taking notes. Taking notes can not only help you concentrate on thinking, summarizing and summarizing problems, but also deepen your understanding and memory of the learning content and record the key points in the learning content for future reference and review.
Keep a proper amount of rest and exercise. Rest and exercise can not only keep you in good shape, but also be a good way to relieve stress. 23. How to take lecture notes?
Some simple but easily overlooked suggestions given below may be helpful to you.
Make psychological preparation for class, and ensure concentration and good emotional state.
Bring all necessary appliances to the classroom in advance and try to sit in the front, so that you can see the blackboard more clearly and be less distracted when listening to the class.
Turn pages in your notebook and write down the date of the day at the beginning of each class. The contents of different chapters should be recorded separately.
Leave enough space in your notebook for you to tidy up after class. For example, you can fold every page in your notebook in half, and only use the left half when recording; Or you can just use the front of each page and leave the back blank.
Use your familiar shorthand method to improve the efficiency of taking notes without affecting your listening.
Ensure the accuracy of your notes and avoid making mistakes.
If necessary, ask the teacher to repeat or speak slowly. 24. How to organize lecture notes?
You should arrange your lecture notes as soon as possible after class. The following suggestions may be helpful to you.
Check every detail in the notes to ensure that they are complete and accurate. If there are any omissions or doubts, they should be checked and supplemented by teachers or classmates in time.
Read the class notes and mark the key points and important concepts, conclusions, etc. Use a marker or highlighter.
Recall what the teacher said in the tutorial class, find out the problems that he neglected and misunderstood in the process of self-study, and record them in the corresponding places in the notebook.
Review the corresponding contents in the textbook with questions, and further summarize, summarize and refine the contents of the textbook. Integrate the new learning experience and re-evaluation of the teaching materials with the relevant contents in your self-study notes, record the integrated contents in the blank space reserved in the handout with concise and clear language, and pay attention to the corresponding contents in the notes in position or logic.
In the above steps, if you encounter difficulties that you can't solve or discuss with your classmates, you should go to your tutor as soon as possible. 26. How to do your usual homework?
Plan your time and start as soon as possible. Enough time should be arranged in the study schedule to complete the assigned homework. After completing the study of a unit, you should immediately start to answer the homework questions related to this unit when it is still fresh in your memory. If you have difficulties, review the relevant contents in the textbook and think about the reasons for the difficulties.
Find out your difficulties and ask for help. Sometimes you may encounter a problem that you don't know how to start. If you still can't answer after carefully reviewing the relevant contents in the textbook, it is necessary for you to determine your own difficulty, submit it to the study group for discussion or ask the teacher for help.
Read the homework and comments corrected by the teacher carefully. Maybe the teacher will point out your misunderstanding of the content, or make suggestions or opinions on your next study, and you may feel it necessary to ask the teacher for further help. 30. How to review before the exam?
Review before the exam is the last stage of the learning process. Can not replace the usual hard work, to check and supplement the whole process of learning. The following suggestions may be helpful to you.
Make a clear review plan. Divide each course into several review units, list the review objectives of each unit, try to get the overall concept of the whole course, find the connection between knowledge points, and draw the knowledge structure diagram of the whole course.
Use the old test paper to simulate the exam. Simulate the examination process within the specified examination time, pay attention to the self-psychological adjustment in the examination, be familiar with the examination questions, carefully examine the questions, accurately understand the meaning of the questions, and summarize and improve the examination methods.
Make sure you really understand and use what you understand correctly. You should be able to finish the exercises in the book effectively without too much effort.
If it is difficult for you to master all the contents of this course, focus on a few topics first. Give priority to those questions that often appear in previous exams.
Check and fill in the gaps with familiar textbooks and notes. You should pay special attention to the basic knowledge and skills, especially the frequently used and emerging knowledge and skills.
Review your notes and exercise books, list the problems you don't understand and can't do, and ask your tutor to help you solve them.
Study hard and be smart, but don't be overburdened. Make sure you get enough relaxation, exercise and sleep. You can divide the day during the review period into five or six 90-minute units, interspersed with rest, breathing fresh air, eating and so on.
8 to 9 hours of review every day is acceptable for most students. It is best to avoid rushing to the exam, otherwise you will get dizzy and affect your exam results. 1, tap information channels and accept all kinds of nutrition.
With the gradual popularization of computer networks, college students can obtain ever-changing information of the times and knowledge of humanities and science and technology from various networks, learn from others, absorb all kinds of knowledge and nutrition, and develop themselves. Through the network, college students with insufficient social experience have been enriched and improved, and they can learn about campus culture, social hotspots, national events and international situation through the network; Understand the development trend and historical development of politics, economy, culture, military affairs, philosophy, science and technology; Carry out leisure and entertainment, emotional exchanges, academic discussions, etc. Therefore, the network can, to a great extent, enable young college students to be trained and trained in all aspects of knowledge and become social people in the ivory tower.
2. Broaden your knowledge and create something.
Network is the carrier of knowledge and information. Entering China as a brand-new thing has aroused great curiosity of creative college students. It is also based on the broad-spectrum application of the network itself and the continuous improvement and update of software and hardware technologies. It has brought great creative space to college students: web page making, computer design, three-dimensional animation, industrial modeling, computer budget and final accounts, network scientific research projects, network courseware teaching AIDS, distance education technical services, college students' online entrepreneurship competition, etc. All these have created college students' desire for innovation in content and form. As a result, a large number of computer companies, internet cafes, information companies and student enterprises with college students as the core emerged, which promoted and led today's college students. According to the survey, Haier, as the flagship of China's household appliances and an internationally renowned brand, has hunted a large number of highly creative students in the study of colleges and universities all over the country as its technical core strength. There are also a large number of outstanding student creative figures under Founder of Peking University and Tongfang of Tsinghua. It is reported that students' national invention patents and technical projects are auctioned in colleges and universities every year.
3. Friendship and interaction, * * * and progress
The most prominent advantage of the network is interactivity. It is not only the carrier of information, but also the media intermediary, which realizes the smooth communication between people. Various forums, chat rooms, virtual communities, emotional stations, etc. So that the majority of college netizens can speak freely, express their opinions, fully express themselves, make friends, introduce experiences to each other and make progress together.
Nowadays, most college students are only children, eager to communicate and identify with their peers. However, the central position of the only child in the family has been strongly impacted and challenged in interpersonal communication outside the family, and many psychological and emotional distress often comes unexpectedly. In the questionnaire survey of college students, it is found that the psychological barriers of college students have seriously affected their study and life. Many cases show that some college students form abnormal psychology and lead to various adverse consequences. At the same time, the management mechanism of universities is different from that of middle schools, and interpersonal communication is reduced. The pressure of study and future career choice forces students to work hard for their studies. However, the richness of campus culture leads to an increase in irregular interpersonal emotional communication. In this way, online dating solves the contradiction between concentrating on study and making friends in time. Because online dating is a quick way to make friends, it can be arranged according to the leisure time of college students. Online dating can not only express their feelings, exchange their thoughts and experiences, but also complain and dispatch depression, thus achieving the dual effects of relieving study and mental stress.
4. Make up for the educational defects and expand the educational space.
At present, our country is still dominated by traditional indoctrination education, and only a few colleges and universities can partially achieve this by teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. Landing on various educational and scientific research websites can make up for this educational vacuum. Websites for CET-4 and CET-6, postgraduate entrance examination, T test and G test, computer learning guidance websites at all levels, and various disciplines such as mathematics, physics, history, geography, medicine, animal science, botany and biology. Can log on to the corresponding website for self-study counseling, homework test, big exam sprint, entrance simulation examination room and so on. Every college student can browse different web pages to recharge his batteries according to his own development needs.
In addition, you can browse and learn relevant teaching materials and experimental conditions that other universities do not have from the website, and learn from the learning methods to achieve the effect of learning from the strengths of a school, knowing yourself and avoiding weaknesses.
5. Guide employment and draw a career blueprint.
At present, China's higher education has gradually realized the transformation from elite education to mass education, the enrollment scale is expanding day by day, the number of students entering higher education is increasing, and the employment situation is becoming more and more severe. How to find a suitable job in the fierce employment competition, the network can play the role of "problem-solving experts, seamless access to the room." In recent years, online employment guidance has become increasingly prosperous. According to relevant statistics, in 2000, less than 10% of colleges and universities had employment websites, but by the beginning of 2004, the proportion of schools with websites had reached more than 80%, and many colleges and universities have increasingly regarded online employment guidance as a main channel. Taking China University of Mining and Technology as an example, online employment guidance is carried out on campus.
Because the information carried by the network is different from the traditional radio and television news, it breaks through the limitation of time and space. According to the needs of users, you can click browse, compare and summarize at any time. At the same time, online recruitment information is extensive, and you can browse the background, detailed information and development and evolution of enterprises and institutions from the Internet, which is more comprehensive and dialectical than on-site recruitment. Therefore, college students with certain computer expertise have used the Internet to find jobs and choose companies for themselves. According to the data in the "2006 College Students' Employment Survey" of Oriental Space-Time,12,463 people participated in the online survey "The channels for students to find job information now", and the results showed that 50% of them found job information through the internet. At the same time, the advantage of fast and convenient online recruitment can save money, time and energy for college students with both economic pressure and academic pressure, and improve the contact frequency between students and employers at a lower cost. According to the survey, there was an online remote video interview among the graduates of the School of Chemical Engineering of China University of Mining and Technology in 2005. Therefore, for college students who love the internet, this is a paradise for their employment, a treasure trove of geomantic omen to depict the blueprint for their career development, and an excellent sword to guide the winners of employment. A learning method that links the materials memorized in the mind to enhance memory. Forming and using association in learning is an important method to enhance memory. Associating learning materials in the brain helps to strengthen memory; At the same time, association is also a process of rethinking learning materials. Association in memory generally includes close association, similar association, comparative association and causal association. "Memory", regarded as a mysterious method, is actually an association. Forming the habit of association not only helps to improve memory, but also helps to improve observation, imagination, concentration and creativity. It refers to the learning method that an individual first analyzes and sorts out the materials to be studied, and then memorizes them. Learning materials are sorted by learners, showing regularity and looking orderly, and learners can remember according to the regularity. At the same time, the sorted learning materials are stored in the brain just like in different boxes, and can be extracted immediately when needed, thus avoiding the disorder.
Learners had better organize themselves, because the process of organization is also the process of analyzing memory. The results made directly by others are much worse.
A method to improve memory efficiency. While reading the materials repeatedly, it is helpful to improve the efficiency of memory by constantly trying to recall. Psychological research shows that it takes longer for learners to remember the same material by reading it repeatedly until they feel that they have remembered it, compared with trying to remember it repeatedly when reading the material. In an experimental study, subjects were divided into six groups, and they were asked to learn the same materials at the same time. The first group spent all their time reading repeatedly, while the other five groups combined reading with trying to recall, in which the time of trying to satisfy was 20%, 40%, 60%, 80% and 90% respectively. The results show that the memory effect of each group combined with reading and trying to recall is much higher than that of the repeated reading group, and the memory effect is the best when the time of trying to recall accounts for 60%. Making charts to simplify the memorization of complex learning materials. For example, when learning history, it is not easy to remember the year, and you can help remember it through self-made historical year representatives. The reason why self-made charts are helpful for memory is that in order to make charts, you must first think and process materials repeatedly in your mind, and after finishing, you will leave a deep impression in your mind. By making charts, we can simplify complex contents and form a coherent, clear and memorable one. The following are 10 ways to enhance memory:
1. When paying attention to centralized memory, as long as you concentrate, concentrate, and eliminate distractions and external interference, the cerebral cortex will leave a deep memory trace, which is not easy to forget. If you are distracted and concentrate on doing two things, the memory efficiency will be greatly reduced.
2. If you are interested in learning materials and knowledge objects, it will be hard to remember even if you spend more time.
3. Understanding Memory Understanding is the basis of memory. Only what is understood can be remembered for a long time. It's not easy to learn by rote. For important learning content, if we can combine understanding with reciting, the memory effect will be better.
4. Over-learning means memorizing the learning materials several times on the basis of memorizing them, so as to reach the level of memorizing them.
5. The speed of reviewing and forgetting in time is fast first and then slow. While the iron is hot, reviewing and consolidating what you have just learned is an effective means to strengthen memory traces and prevent forgetting.
6. When you often recall learning, you can try to recall constantly, so that mistakes in memory can be corrected, omissions can be made up, and the difficulties in learning content can be remembered more firmly. When you are free, you can often recall the objects you have remembered in the past, and you can also avoid forgetting them.
7. Audio-visual combination can use the functions of language and visual and auditory organs at the same time, strengthen memory and improve memory efficiency. Much better than a single silent reading.
8. A variety of means According to the situation, flexible use of memory methods such as classified memory, chart memory, shortening memory and compiling outlines, taking notes and cards can enhance memory.
9. Best time Generally speaking, 9~ 1 1 in the morning, 3~4 in the afternoon and 7~ 10 in the evening are the best memory time. Use the above-mentioned hard-to-remember learning materials, and the effect is better.
10. Scientific use of the brain can greatly improve the working efficiency of the brain, prevent excessive fatigue and maintain a positive and optimistic mood on the basis of ensuring nutrition, active rest and physical exercise. This is the key to improving memory.